Lol

Prettygirl200:
This is my opinion, for those singles guys out there that like to marry single mothers, or like taking full responsibility of their kid or kids am not against them, it's their choice. But if am given the chance to advise any guy I won't advice him to and if am to b a guy I won't marry a single mother that's it.

Lol, what came over you today? This is so unlike you. How come you aren't emotional and spilling trash today?

tommy589:


I am disappointed that this comes from a woman. Shit do happen. My homely,pretty,religious younger sister through no fault of hers has been a single mom quite a while. She did not wish it

Our dreams and aspirations is for a better future. But is it for us to decide?

There is no such thing like accidental pregnancy. Did the government ban the use of contraceptives in her locality?

blinking001:

There is no such thing like accidental pregnancy. Did the government ban the use of contraceptives in her locality?

Contraceptives fail...

BoredBerry:
Contraceptives fail...

D and C never fails. No such thing like accidental pregnancy. Any woman that shuns stupidity, religious convictions and emotions can always get an abortion before it's too late. This is a fact.

blinking001:

D and C never fails. No such thing like accidental pregnancy. Any woman that shuns stupidity, religious convictions and emotions can always get an abortion before it's too late. This is a fact.

Oh... Really? You know abortions kills... Especially in Nigeria hospitals...

So sending a woman to an early grave is better than her keeping and raising the child?

And it's funny you think women who have had abortions aren't regarded with disdain in our society...

BoredBerry:
Oh... Really? You know abortions kills... Especially in Nigeria hospitals...

So sending a woman to an early grave is better than her keeping and raising the child?

And it's funny you think women who have had abortions aren't regarded with disdain in our society...

Abortions are safer when it's been handled by a professional. Trust me they are good hospitals and great doctors that are specialists in this fields. Any woman who decides to visit a fake doctor has herself to blame. Not me.

Going by your logic, one would expect most women between the ages of 16 and 25 to be dead by now in the country. Abortions are still safer in Nigeria, just ensure it's handled professionally by a specialist.

Single mother are very clever in playing games. The truth as been said if you want to live long an happy never date a single mother . most of this single mother still have sex with there baby father . Single mother are desperate .
Single mother as fun of winning men with s£x
Lol
When you meet a single mother and you both date she will give you enough s£x ( when you demand and when you don't )

But they don't know not all men can be deceive with sex

Single mother love flexing and they love runing anything money package with me

Have lived in different compound with single mother I know how they flex ( THEY ARE VERY CLEVER )

tommy589:


I am disappointed that this comes from a woman. Shit do happen. My homely,pretty,religious younger sister through no fault of hers has been a single mom quite a while. She did not wish it

Our dreams and aspirations is for a better future. But is it for us to decide?

The moral of this story is that a guy or gal shouldnt invest his or her fortunes in training another person's childless. It won't end well for you. As a guy I can marry single mom who will give me my own children but where we couldn't be able to have child, I will have plan B for my future. Even with own children, I have plan B for retirement age because of these wrong spouse who might change his or her face from their parent.

The guy didn't plan for future. Even his children can do this to him. Plan B for old age matters alot

For me whether u marry single mom or lady, whether u adopted another person's child or you have your own, always have plan B for your old age. Everyman and everywoman should, as what is playing now out in family � affairs when your child marries, have income generating asset or savings for your old age. Don't expect anything from your children, what they owe you is to bury you, mourn you when you die. Nothing to gain from having child apart from maintaining your generation

Izzyboy19:
If it doesn't hurt you today, it will hurt tomorrow, if she was so valuable to her previous lover, he will have married her, stop taking care of another man's responsibility because you wanna pls a lady, it will end in premier tears las las,
#NO TO SIMPING

This is an unfortunate situation!
The lesson here for me is, men should work hard and plan for their retirement devoid of any expectations from their children begotten or adopted.

tommy589:


You are going to be a bad judge.Someone narrated his own side of the story and you have passed judgement

I am proudly raised by a single mom

Pls don't mind those idi**ts saying nonsense.. sometime I wonder if most nairalanders are above 17 tho.. toxic and d**mb..

Prettygirl200:
This is my opinion, for those singles guys out there that like to marry single mothers, or like taking full responsibility of their kid or kids am not against them, it's their choice. But if am given the chance to advise any guy I won't advice him to and if am to b a guy I won't marry a single mother that's it.

Prettygirl200:
This is my opinion, for those singles guys out there that like to marry single mothers, or like taking full responsibility of their kid or kids am not against them, it's their choice. But if am given the chance to advise any guy I won't advice him to and if am to b a guy I won't marry a single mother that's it.

BoredBerry:
Why don't single fathers get so much hate?

Most of you dissing single moms forget that it took two to make a baby... She stayed and the father left... That makes her a bad person? I guess being a responisible parent is a sin...

There are a billion facets to this story, but the point you're trying to make has no bearing on the topic at hand - valid but pointless. Can you not see the wickedness of the whole setup? I would even think the two successful young men would be 'bright' enough to acknowledge the man who raised them with so much love even if the woman decides to go astray. That's a terrible way to pat back kindness, don't you think?

flames007:
There are a billion facets to this story, but the point you're trying to make has no bearing on the topic at hand - valid but pointless. Can you not see the wickedness of the whole setup? I would even think the two successful young men would be 'bright' enough to acknowledge the man who raised them with so much love even if the woman decides to go astray. That's a terrible way to pat back kindness, don't you think?

And how do we believe this story really happened?

Bukola94:
May God bless you and bless those that always say the truth, no matter the circumstances. This your story is as if u are directly saying the story of my life. I was raise by a guardian, it took years before I knew my biological parent

When you got acquainted with your biological parents, did it change how you felt for your guardian (assuming you adopted him/her as a parental figure)

rickleye:
I am sorry but I don't believe this story.
Even if the woman would go back, the kids know who their true father is. The person who took them to camp and put clothes on their back and took them to school. Nurture vs Nature . When you adopted them - didn't they take your name ?
I have never met any woman who after dropping the dead beat husband/father goes back after that long.
Something smells fishy.

my thought exactly...

How this thread initially derailed from how an impotent single man married a single mother of two, adopted her kids and got betrayed in the end to how children of single parents are unfit for the society baffles me.

Many individuals missed the point completely.
What's the plan B for a sterile man in this situation?

He just invested wrongly if you ask me and the woman married him out of societal pressure and necessity, not out of love else she'd have ensured those children ensure that this man is adequately catered for.

We might still need to hear from the woman and her kids.
There are several dangers of a single story, no story is singular

He wasted his life for nothing

flames007:
There are a billion facets to this story, but the point you're trying to make has no bearing on the topic at hand - valid but pointless. Can you not see the wickedness of the whole setup? I would even think the two successful young men would be 'bright' enough to acknowledge the man who raised them with so much love even if the woman decides to go astray. That's a terrible way to pat back kindness, don't you think?

Very pointless, biased and obviously gender based.

Every single parent, male or female should take serious caution when planning to adopt another's child. Humans have a strong tendency to be bound by blood, there are exceptions. I have seen a 50+ yr old man that was visited by his biological father after several decades of neglect. It began with drama, followed by a ceremony and then they settled, claiming that "Life" brought them back. He didn't forget his adopted father but the love definitely reduced and it was obvious.

I wanted to say "I don't believe this story" until what my step-sisters did to my dad flashed my mind.
My dad had two girls from the lady he had in mind settling down with (He made countless fruitless efforts to convince her people to allow him marry their daughter to no avail). I got to know about all that from the correspondence (laters) he left behind.
My step sisters were in the custudy of their mum owing to the fact that my dad was hugely intimidated to part ways with the girls.
Years after, at 25, these girls came back looking for their dad. Meanwhile, my dad had married my mum and had us. We accepted them as our other siblings.
Sooner than later, they started scheming for their mum to be reunited with my dad not mindin that she was already married to another man with kids. That met a brick wall, anyways.
So, they wrote jamb and got admission while we were still living together. After graduation, they left back to their mum and never kept in touch again. Even while their dad was ill, they got the news and still never bothered to get across.

Such is life. We live our lives by learning from others' mistakes.

Maverick777:

I don't know why but...I'm literally crying.

like could this really happen?

I LOVE U... FOR THIS

Prettygirl200:
Am a woman, but I won't advice any single guy to marry a single mother, imagine the story that was nartated up there, after all these sacrifices made by that man, the children still abandoned who looked and trained them to go reconcile with their dad? Who does that. Who on earth with conscience will do that, imagine the pain that man will be in he will be full of regrets living miserably. It didn't happen to me but immediately I read that story I felt pain for the unknown person, so instead of going through all these later in future, it better u don't get yourself involved with them, or better still if u must marry den don't take responsibilities of any man's child.

Gbam... Seconded. I don't know why some are so pained they were raised by single moms. Life happens to everyone. I admire ur response

Prettygirl200:
This is my opinion, for those singles guys out there that like to marry single mothers, or like taking full responsibility of their kid or kids am not against them, it's their choice. But if am given the chance to advise any guy I won't advice him to and if am to b a guy I won't marry a single mother that's it.

Well said, u will make heaven.

luminouz:


You didn't tell anyone your sister's story here. How do we know what went wrong before you assumed the worst?

Besides, you think it's right for a man to train other men's kids and be repaid with such betrayal? That's wrong. One of the tenets of the redpill is never be the retirement plan or second option of anyone. Hardworking single moms can raise their kids and i won't question them. Hell, they can even have a boyfriend and I won't even mind because she is a human being with needs. But it is wrong when such women use another man to foot the bills of those kids and end up dumping him, for the useless pûnk who gave her those kids again, just because he is now rich.

Many men will marry a widow or even single moms whose baby daddys are dead but not those who are still alive, to avoid these dudes suddenly coming out of the blue and reaping the rewards of what the stepdads laboured for.

BoredBerry:
I know you're an alpha... And you're desperate for likes... But calling fatherless children bastards is a dirty thing to do... Their fathers left and you're demeaning them for their unfortunate situation? Do you know how many of your redpill colleagues were raised by single mothers? Because your father didn't leave doesn't mean you're better than anyone else... Many children raised by single moms have excelled... You're still a nobody on the intenet with a shi**y opinion...

Have you read the bible?

tommy589:


I am disappointed that this comes from a woman. Shit do happen. My homely,pretty,religious younger sister through no fault of hers has been a single mom quite a while. She did not wish it

Our dreams and aspirations is for a better future. But is it for us to decide?

Your comment isn't surprising.

Daughters from single mums go on to repeat the cycle.

blinking001:

There is no such thing like accidental pregnancy. Did the government ban the use of contraceptives in her locality?

And he claims his sister is religious

How did she now become a baby mama?

chuksoyo21:
I wanted to say "I don't believe this story" until what my step-sisters did to my dad flashed my mind.
My dad had two girls from the lady he had in mind settling down with (He made countless fruitless efforts to convince her people to allow him marry their daughter to no avail). I got to know about all that from the correspondence (laters) he left behind.
My step sisters were in the custudy of their mum owing to the fact that my dad was hugely intimidated to part ways with the girls.
Years after, at 25, these girls came back looking for their dad. Meanwhile, my dad had married my mum and had us. We accepted them as our other siblings.
Sooner than later, they started scheming for their mum to be reunited with my dad not mindin that she was already married to another man with kids. That met a brick wall, anyways.
So, they wrote jamb and got admission while we were still living together. After graduation, they left back to their mum and never kept in touch again. Even while their dad was ill, they got the news and still never bothered to get across.

Can you be more clearer?

Wait. Your dad had two daughters from a previous relationship and their mother of his children's parents refused your dad marrying them?

Thats strange They were happy to accept your father's offspring but didn't want to accept your father?


Pls clarify.

Prettygirl200:
Am a woman, but I won't advice any single guy to marry a single mother, imagine the story that was nartated up there, after all these sacrifices made by that man, the children still abandoned who looked and trained them to go reconcile with their dad? Who does that. Who on earth with conscience will do that, imagine the pain that man will be in he will be full of regrets living miserably. It didn't happen to me but immediately I read that story I felt pain for the unknown person, so instead of going through all these later in future, it better u don't get yourself involved with them, or better still if u must marry den don't take responsibilities of any man's child.

Pretty babygirl on point

1Sharon:


And he claims his sister is religious

How did she now become a baby mama?

Very funny guy. How can a religious girl be having sex before marriage. Lol