Cypress042:
I pity you op. Just use the sense that your God gave you and be important in life.

You're 19years old still being entitled to your fathers money haba!

Young man, your father has really tried and trainned you up to this extend, is time to hustle and live like a man you should be.

Stop taking loans go and hustle

FuckSilly:

You spent it on virtuals, betting and other gambling too, I'm very sure.
You too go do fraud náà
Who dey hold you?

bepositive11:
Don't mind him. He's ignorant to advise you to love your father irrespective of all the abuse that he put you through

I would say though that if you look closely, you'll realise that every person who is abusive has a story -- something made them that way. For some, they were abused as a child; for some, they were neglected as a child; for some, they were born with a brain damage or they sustained some form of brain injury while growing up

Now, this doesn't mean that your father's actions are justifiable. He is grown enough to know what is wrong and what is right. But, my point is, if you want to understand where your father is coming from, dig deeper and try to understand his family background. Your father doesn't seem like someone who can be vulnerable enough to express his emotions so don't expect to find out about his life experiences from him

What you can do though is learn from your father's mistakes and work to become a better man. Cut him out of your life if you need to. You are a grown up adult now, so start working on building your dream life

Secondly, don't waste your time comparing yourself to those yahoo boys. Their life style is not sustainable, it won't last for long. They can end up in jail at any moment. They're also thieves, stealing the money that people earned with their blood, sweat, and tears. In your search for financial stability, don't lose touch with humanity.

Failure44:
What kind of man earns so much money every month but finishes it in the first week.
Even to pay my school fees and buy textbook is an issue

At my young age am forced to collect loans to keep myself a float.
At just 19 am owing debt, I pity this man when I graduate, I'll show him pepper like mikel showed to his father.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Acidosis:



What did you do with loans? To pay school fees, feed, or club like your criminal friends?

Failure44:

I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.

blingxx:



Nothing wrong with guys of this generation , things of changed you can't even help yourself through school doing those things nowadays , try am now if you think it's easy

ExudeLoveToAll:



You should be smart enough to discern through my message, it is bigger than those few words written there.


From his narrative, you would agree with me that the father has spent the greater chunk of the family needs growing up and still does.

You believed him when he said his father only spent for his school fees? I don't believe him at all , ask him who pays for the accommodation , feeding and other expenses? You will be surprised that his answers will fall back to the Father.

In hiis narrative his mother earns a paltry sum, is it that sum that takes care of family expenses like housing and feeding? Children sometimes form opinion when they hear from just one side of their parents always without looking at the big picture.

My assertions is that he may have learnt how much the father makes from the mum which may or may not be true and subsequent knowledge of him not contributing adequately based in the sum he makes. This may have resulted in his skewed mindset.

Don't get me wrong I'm not holding brief for the dad, he may have a plethora of problems of his own. To be truthful that dude has a baised opinion on his dad, someone that may have contributed if not more than 80percent of his life expenses up till this moment. Does he think the paltry sum of the mother can take care of the family expenses excluding the school fees?

He holds his mum in high esteem, gives her all accolades, forbids himself from collecting from her of any little money she makes and then goes ahead to demonize the only one who has contributed so much in financing him thus far.

Read through his statements you will discover the father wasn't given little of thanks for the little he has done for the young lad. His heart is filled with hate and that will not do him good going forward. I wouldn't be surprised if he has started challenging the finger that feeds him.

The young man wishes his dad isn't available, to him been around is of no use to him, those who have this mindset later understand the contribution of their dad when they wear same shoes with him in the future.

Irrespective of the fact that humans will always ask for more which is quite good, gratefulness for the little provided is necessary for more to come.

Failure44:

That woman has tried, she'll enjoy the fruit of her labour.
That man has made her suffer, I have still have memories of when I was 10-12 in primary 5.
How that man would fight with her to the extent blood would be on the wall .
How would fight with her naked, threatening to shoot us and kill my brothers in our sleep.

My childhood memories aren't good at all
I'll make sure I take her abroad, The hatred I have for that man and the zeal to make that woman enjoy is what pushes me.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Failure44:


I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

FuckSilly:

Shut up you this hypocrite girl!
We know your type...

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

armyofone:


You should be ashamed not been independent after 18 years. Your father's hardwork isn't yours. You aren't a child anymore. I do see your likes as lazy.
Try being creative and stop being dependent on someone else.

Shuu -

MoneyMustBMade:


And u re the one paying for his school fees and every of his school expenses
At that age his not great ful
At that age am already working even before the age
Many billionaires came from a poor home and becomes what they are today and this one is here blaming his father and ur guys are supporting him

The boy na idiot

Adaobiii:

He is still young at 19,there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of?
How much did u make when u were 19.
It's your type that make people to do what then don't want to do

Glocal1:
Can he be sued to make him perform his family responsibility to his wife and children?

Before this, try reporting him to his family elders to intervene and convince his to perform his fatherly responsibilities.

If all else fail, take the matter to God.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

Glocal1:
Can he be sued to make him perform his family responsibility to his wife and children?

Before this, try reporting him to his family elders to intervene and convince his to perform his fatherly responsibilities.

If all else fail, take the matter to God.