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I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Ezendimmuo: 3:29pm On Jul 15, 2022

I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend" wink

I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Manson1(m): 3:35pm On Jul 15, 2022

How una take dey involve una selfs for all these useless relationships?

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Victor2707: 3:37pm On Jul 15, 2022

You're a simp.

You deserve what she did to you.

Dating a woman older than you sounds like fun at first,

But as the relationship gets deeper,

She begins seeing you as her son.

She will lose attraction, becomes irritated and gets bored.

A woman looks up to a man not the other way round.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by 2dice01: 3:41pm On Jul 15, 2022

Bro forgive her
She loves you more than you can think

You will understand as time goes on

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Youngpo413: 3:42pm On Jul 15, 2022

Sounds like a rap verse....cos I know no sane man will take those whôrés too serious nowadays.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by WatchYourSix: 3:46pm On Jul 15, 2022

No need to hurt anyone...you lose guard..you got used...thats the trend these day..

relationship has become eat or be eaten. If you are too weak, vulnerable, too agrreable, too naive, show too much love, you will be devoured without mercy by the female gender.....

Besides, Its the 21st century....
The bar of morality is very low...

The definition of good girl now, is a babe with 2 boyfriends at the same time, a couple of other guys lined up buying gifts, one or two abortions to match, and at most 5-6 body counts.... once you know this..u will have peace of mind... and not expect too much from any girl

No need to ask any girl about her past...u can't get true gist...boys on the street are not smiling..
..economy is bad...ur babe does not work in oil company, doesnt have filthy rich parents and doesnt have investment, yet uses iphone 13promax...

.and u dare call her ur girlfriend... it's not fair you are trying to customize a babe that others are enjoying..

U will cry last last...because she's not yours..never was...and if you are stupíd enough to hang around, she will decide to use you to gain the Mrs title and continue her hoeing life codedly.

..if you are lucky u will get to raise another man's child unknowingly....if you are unlucky maybe HIV or herpes

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by HopeNeverDies: 3:58pm On Jul 15, 2022

I feel your pain bro... Honestly! I do.

It ain't easy..

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by HopeNeverDies: 4:00pm On Jul 15, 2022

Why calling him a simp? Relax bro.. not everyone is built like u. undecided

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by PumpumPrince: 4:02pm On Jul 15, 2022

Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by PumpumPrince: 4:03pm On Jul 15, 2022

^^^^story
..bro...go n watch blue mennn!! !(no oofeinse) angry

Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Ronnnie: 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2022

Let her go...forget any revenge you plan to do to her..you won't get any fulfilment from that trust me...the best Revenge is to live a successful life...you will get over her in time.
Let her go and never take her back no matter what...

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by WatchYourSix: 4:08pm On Jul 15, 2022

Simping is being stupíd, not using common sense, allowing other people take advantage and hurt you ....

nobody should be stupid....
nobody should be a símp..

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by blaquemyc: 4:10pm On Jul 15, 2022

Don't hurt her, just move on with your life.

Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Wizywiz(m): 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2022

@OP you have to let go...forget about any revenge stuff...the best revenge is moving on and never accept her back....shit happens....never you love with ur heart anymore I suggest u love with ur head, never allow a woman use and take u for granted

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Autobot05: 4:22pm On Jul 15, 2022

Block , delete and ghost her forever
She’ll return begging tho so be prepared

Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Toktee(m): 4:24pm On Jul 15, 2022

Nigeria girls are Lazy and parasitic in nature.

Nigeria girls are beggars and entitled bastards.

Nigeria girls are cried. In also in nature.

Nigeria girls has nothing to offer except the unsafe hole.

Do not prioritize their fungal infested borehole.

Bleep them and move that's what they do to men.... Do same to them.

They are many on naira land.

But.... They are always the first to call guys "broke ass"

I always wonder why someone guys with spend so much money to maintain a single hole... who does that?

Never Never keep a relationship with a university girl.

They are more active in whoring than those you see on streets with mini skirt without panties within.

Be warned.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Savagr(m): 4:24pm On Jul 15, 2022

You'll make a good musician tho.
Looks like lyrics to me

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Zonefree(m): 4:26pm On Jul 15, 2022

Na your last two lines dey make me laugh cheesy

So, you know you're the prize and you allowed a smelly kpekus to use your heart to play ludo

The important rule of the game in street is;
Never give your heart to a Nigerian girl.

You can be with them, lash them, play them, use them but don't attach LOVE. These demons were never created to be Loved.

98.481% of guys dating Nigerian girls are always moody. Life is too short to endanger your heart. Stay away from Nigerian girls, Kings.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Gentlesoul2021(m): 4:29pm On Jul 15, 2022

What do you mean by hurting her..

Sha don’t go Nd attack her physically or kill her.

Let her be bro, she will learn the hard way. In two to three years time, she wiill/may come back nd u will have ur revenge when life has already dealt with her.

By that time, she may even want to attempt committing suicide. Lol we don hear a lot of gist on this tori thou lemme also add this, she can be lucky to get thru with that her ish lifestyle but believe me she will feel the pain she made u go thru. Sorry man.!!

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Hacks4dummies: 4:40pm On Jul 15, 2022

Op.. take your life while you're at it. Youre a pathetic waste of human existence.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Asceleb16(m): 4:58pm On Jul 15, 2022

When i tell people that i prefer to date a taller (nigerian) lady than to date an older (nigerian) lady, they think i'm partially mad... This is it...

Op, shey e don clear for your eye?

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by kingscare1(m): 5:04pm On Jul 15, 2022

Guy, I feel that this writeup is your own way of pouring out your heart for healing it's good. After all what dosn't kill you makes you stronger and wiser.

Guy, at this juncture, I plead with you to forgive yourself, forgive her and let her go with her toxicity towards you. The only way you can accomplish it is by blocking her everywhere both on social media and voice calls so that she can't reach you again. That's the only way. Please stop and stop stalking her for your peace, sanity and progress.

Again, you need to realise that out of sight is directly out of mind, don't let love kill or damage you because best or good things never ever finishes in this life, they are still ahead waiting for you.

Lastly, direct your energy to anything that your are passionate about, it could be your career growth, education success, family, hobbies, male friends and so on the lists are endless, please there is more to life than emotions and love. Move on.

She is a negative energy to you, accept the fact, forgive yourself and her, just move on and never look back to your vomit.

That's adulterated MATURITY.

Next time don't let your emotions overshadow who you are and what you stand for, if you do girls will likely take you for granted. 1lv

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Lordedifice1: 5:06pm On Jul 15, 2022

U see those gender
Never ever in your life take a woman serious
I told my mom say I no wan born girl

Just like when I remember my ex I get upset because I loved her too much then.
The anger still comes everyday

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by WatchYourSix: 5:15pm On Jul 15, 2022

The mumú will take her back..
He's still professing love for her...

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by kingscare1(m): 5:17pm On Jul 15, 2022

Don't let your anger and ugly experiences caused by another stop you from having a beautiful, smiling and charming princess in your home that calls you daddy.

In this life learn from such experiences, embrace the lessons and be guided.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by RightToReject(m): 5:25pm On Jul 15, 2022

Hurt her not. At the risk of being misconstrued as justifying her untrustworthiness and pernicious act in general towards you, blame yourself, not her, for whatever wrong she meted out against you. This is so because you failed yourself, and the fact that she is allegedly older than you is not an excuse.

Next time don't take someone seriously until you are able to dissect and vet them and can at least 99.9% accurately assert what they can do at any given time subject to circumstances. It is called being discerning, and as a man, you ought not to be caught lacking it and grit if you must reign supreme in your glory.

You can always walk the walk without being hurt and without wittingly and delightfully being the reason someone might get hurt - in other words, you can give everything without losing anything.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Itohanmiwa: 5:28pm On Jul 15, 2022

Nigga let go. Trust me you will do yourself lots of harm trying to get back at her or achieve your aim. Since she still dey give u kitten what's your stress? Just friendzone her and use protection when getting down with her. Truly see reasons with her, there is no way you can marry her with the age diff start hunting for a decent girl, build her and continue using this your ex to cure konji. But if she nor agree then my nigga make u rest.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by bukatyne(f): 5:38pm On Jul 15, 2022

OP Pele.

Step one done: she is an ex!
Step 2: make sure she remains so.

Not ex with benefits; not ex that becomes friends.

Step 3: stop stalking her.

Step 4: use her as a lesson on the kind of girls you shouldn't have anything with.

It is well with you.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by kakaaa77: 5:45pm On Jul 15, 2022

please hurt her with every fibre in your body or go with the second options let her go and learn from your mistake

Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by cavreek: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2022

U are still in love with her
If she comes back begging pls accept her and let her know that u will always be there for her and dont forget to tell her that u are the only specie of ur kind

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by Nonexisting: 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2022

Young man, move on. I don't want to call you names or mock you because as an undergraduate, you're still in your simping phase which is quite normal at this time. But my advice is move on, there are bitches everywhere and you will be alright at the end.

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Re: I Wanna Hurt My Ex So Badly! by shege45: 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2022

I feel your pain bro. I have been there. I haven’t healed completely but I am getting there. You will b fine

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