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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by sageb: 10:50am On Jul 29, 2022
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking

I stopped chyking decades ago..

I don't approach anymore..

Most babes for my streets don dey complain, they might think I'm into guys, I'm practically in my shell like a tortoise just admiring God's work sometimes...

No relationship for now so I don't see reason to chyke, if I want sex I know where to get it legitimately, booty calls all up in my phone.

All this random chyking that might not amount to anything is becoming useless for me and time consuming.

I just want to be alone chasing that paper.

Yes, that's the way now
No time for unnecessary distraction

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by ignis: 10:50am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
1)they type monotonic ,any lady that types like this is clearly not into you or not feeling the conversation and you must abandon if you value your self-respect ,but trust simps to ignore this signs cause they one die on top her matter.leave say Nigeria guys they complain about women not holding conversation it means the woman is not interested ,women are talkatives!


2) they take time to reply and if dey do it's short


3) billing, yes. Nigeria women usually go straight to bill men they don't have feelings for , because
if they're interested in that man thoughts like this goes on in their head "if I ask him for money will he see as cheap girl ?"," I won't ask him for money so that. he will know that I am an independent woman", but if she's not interested. na straight billing cause she has two intentions ,to take advantage of your feelings or to repel you.

*drops pen*

Lalasticlacla


Summary of the fact.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Spidermon: 10:55am On Jul 29, 2022
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking

I stopped chyking decades ago..

I don't approach anymore..

Most babes for my streets don dey complain, they might think I'm into guys, I'm practically in my shell like a tortoise just admiring God's work sometimes...

No relationship for now so I don't see reason to chyke, if I want sex I know where to get it legitimately, booty calls all up in my phone.

All this random chyking that might not amount to anything is becoming useless for me and time consuming.

I just want to be alone chasing that paper.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Okobola146: 10:57am On Jul 29, 2022
I want to hear from mynd44
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by NACE13: 10:58am On Jul 29, 2022
I know the question was directed to the ladies but my clues are:
1.) Monosyllabic replies either when on a date or when texting.
2.) Expecting the guy to always 'Hi' her first whenever we bump into each other. Some even pretend not to see you, me I then act like I never saw you either.
3.) Would never call to ask you how you are faring after a long while of no communication.
4.) Will never save your number; experienced this once with a chick- she'd always apologise but won't still save my number. I told her that I got her message clearly, then she tried to apologise again, I told her to save it for another person.
5.) Keep cancelling on dates

All these, except number 1 happened when Obi was still a boy smiley. These days, when I take her out on a date, there's a 95% chance she'd want another date soonest by being the first to text or call me to know if I got home safe and then call the next morning to check on me and stylishly tell me she wants another date.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by dontbothermuch: 11:00am On Jul 29, 2022
"I want to make my hair" then deeper is "my house rent just expired"

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by yusufmurry: 11:05am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
1)they type monotonic ,any lady that types like this is clearly not into you or not feeling the conversation and you must abandon if you value your self-respect ,but trust simps to ignore this signs cause they one die on top her matter.leave say Nigeria guys they complain about women not holding conversation it means the woman is not interested ,women are talkatives!


2) they take time to reply and if dey do it's short


3) billing, yes. Nigeria women usually go straight to bill men they don't have feelings for , because
if they're interested in that man thoughts like this goes on in their head "if I ask him for money will he see as cheap girl ?"," I won't ask him for money so that. he will know that I am an independent woman", but if she's not interested. na straight billing cause she has two intentions ,to take advantage of your feelings or to repel you.

*drops pen*

Lalasticlacla



Bruh, you're experienced and I hereby declare you, the National Security, Women Affairs -NSWF

Congratulations on this appointment.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by spiceadole: 11:10am On Jul 29, 2022
ebubeson:
Some ladies may blunty say "I am not interested". Some may insult, others may reject politely.

How do you see a lady replying this way? "You are created awesome and you will get someone good for you, I am not in for your request. Have a lovely time"

Or

How do you reply yours?

I simply GHOST the guy
Disconnect and avoid him in everywhere. Face front. No need saying anything.
Silence speaks louder than words.
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Starzo: 11:10am On Jul 29, 2022
nijaomegacode:
Guys, if a girl rejects you, thank God o. Na bullet you dodge.
p

pls specifiy, 'if a Nigerian girl rejects you'.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Confirm4real(m): 11:11am On Jul 29, 2022
dontbothermuch:
"I want to make my hair" then deeper is "my house rent just expired"

No wonder girls bill guys unnecessary because they aren’t interested grin

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 29, 2022
Raychee:
I'm not interested. No special speech needed.
If na WizKid or davido nko?Even as the get babymamas plenty.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by TEJIRI96: 11:14am On Jul 29, 2022
How about those set wey know say you like them but dem come go friendzone, brother zone and Sir zone you join?

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Nobody: 11:16am On Jul 29, 2022
My subs has expired.
Omo japa.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by NGArmyTerrorist: 11:17am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
chyking no suppose past one month, know this and know peace
person wey dey chyke for one month, his villa people swell for am

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by xangerar: 11:21am On Jul 29, 2022
Enny2013:
I will just b diverting d talk.
Well, Once u start showing interest, I start avoiding u big time.i keep my distance far away!!!
I become very rude, when u seem to b stubborn.
Na by force?


Don't mind the silly idiots above. You made your point and some of us took positive direction from it.
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by hardbody: 11:23am On Jul 29, 2022
ebubeson:
Some ladies may blunty say "I am not interested". Some may insult, others may reject politely.

How do you see a lady replying this way? "You are created awesome and you will get someone good for you, I am not in for your request. Have a lovely time"

Or

How do you reply yours?

I am the one that reply them. Na them dey rush us...
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Joe4real1988(m): 11:27am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
chyking no suppose past one month, know this and know peace
One month too much sef. I will only remind u in a week interval, if no yes, i face front.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Artzdanielsz(m): 11:33am On Jul 29, 2022
moyosore32:


Aswear u freakin right
Derrs ds gal I met abt a year now, when we started talking, she bn tell me say her main dey abroad lol, buh she would think about my proposal, so after few weeks sha, we got on and guess what guys I’ve never seen any sign of d acclaimed abroad boyfrnd or whatever... we still dey sha buh I no looseguard cos e fit be true say she get one bobo for abroad or even for 9ja herr.... all ds gals dem sabi play their games
my brother na naija girls wey.i get two babes now their boyfriends dey abroad lol and I no even chyke them again oOoOO na steady fuccking now

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Toktee(m): 11:34am On Jul 29, 2022
Enny2013:
I will just b diverting d talk.
Well, Once u start showing interest, I start avoiding u big time.i keep my distance far away!!!
I become very rude, when u seem to b stubborn.
Na by force?
And when you finally run after the guys that do not need u without success you run back to those u were rude to.

And when u discover age is no longer on your side u start going back to your vomit.


Most of you only do that to guys without a good car and financial instability..

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Taigaban: 11:34am On Jul 29, 2022
Choilila:
Sometimes I have a boyfriend.
If I see that the person is so clingy and pressuring.


Sometimes I'm not interested because I don't have time for anyone.
Some one is lying oo. Truth is scarce.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Toktee(m): 11:36am On Jul 29, 2022
Joe4real1988:
One month too much sef. I will only remind u in a week interval, if no yes, i face front.
When you said "I will think about you"



I move.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by blowb(m): 11:49am On Jul 29, 2022
[quote author=Artzdanielsz post=115179451]But when they want you but have a boyfriend,they will tell u the guy is abroad just to still keep u and be fuuking u .






No be lie.. I get like 4 girls I dey run that matter on...

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by chatinent: 11:51am On Jul 29, 2022
Annoying thing is that even ugly girls dey follow dey do this yanga. How dare you?

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Strikethem: 11:52am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
1)they type monotonic ,any lady that types like this is clearly not into you or not feeling the conversation and you must abandon if you value your self-respect ,but trust simps to ignore this signs cause they one die on top her matter.leave say Nigeria guys they complain about women not holding conversation it means the woman is not interested ,women are talkatives!


2) they take time to reply and if dey do it's short


3) billing, yes. Nigeria women usually go straight to bill men they don't have feelings for , because
if they're interested in that man thoughts like this goes on in their head "if I ask him for money will he see as cheap girl ?"," I won't ask him for money so that. he will know that I am an independent woman", but if she's not interested. na straight billing cause she has two intentions ,to take advantage of your feelings or to repel you.

*drops pen*

Lalasticlacla

You are right, it will be better for her to drop me cos I won't give her the money.

I won't delete her number as well so she can see me balling.

And the day she tries to ask for a help. I will tell her to go and ask her boyfriend that I have girlfriend I am catering for.

So i have no money to give her.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by phemmyfour: 11:55am On Jul 29, 2022
ebubeson:
Some ladies may blunty say "I am not interested". Some may insult, others may reject politely.

How do you see a lady replying this way? "You are created awesome and you will get someone good for you, I am not in for your request. Have a lovely time"

Or

How do you reply yours?
You are a good guy but we're not meant to be.
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by professore(m): 11:59am On Jul 29, 2022
posty56:
1)they type monotonic ,any lady that types like this is clearly not into you or not feeling the conversation and you must abandon if you value your self-respect ,but trust simps to ignore this signs cause they one die on top her matter.leave say Nigeria guys they complain about women not holding conversation it means the woman is not interested ,women are talkatives!


2) they take time to reply and if dey do it's short


3) billing, yes. Nigeria women usually go straight to bill men they don't have feelings for , because
if they're interested in that man thoughts like this goes on in their head "if I ask him for money will he see as cheap girl ?"," I won't ask him for money so that. he will know that I am an independent woman", but if she's not interested. na straight billing cause she has two intentions ,to take advantage of your feelings or to repel you.

*drops pen*

Lalasticlacla

on point
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Strikethem: 12:04pm On Jul 29, 2022
rocknation62:
No time if I chyke you & you no talk well In a week, I move. I assume you’re not interested so why am I wasting my precious time.
I tell you. No time for shit.

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by muyico(m): 12:11pm On Jul 29, 2022
No man no cry!
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by PraiseHim4ever: 12:21pm On Jul 29, 2022
Enny2013:
I will just b diverting d talk.
Well, Once u start showing interest, I start avoiding u big time.i keep my distance far away!!!
I become very rude, when u seem to b stubborn.
Na by force?

Enitan!!!! so that was how u played ur hubby, yet u said YES
Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by PraiseHim4ever: 12:22pm On Jul 29, 2022
Tekashi69:
lol nobody likes you, stop whining

She's already married with kids

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Re: Ladies: How Do You Reply A Guy When You Are Not Interested? by Dwana96(m): 12:24pm On Jul 29, 2022
Amarisco:
For a guy to have my number - na big flex. So na to block & delete straight. No long ting.

But if I do not want to navigate in the realm of violence, I give very basic one sided replies. No returned questions or words exchanged - he should get the hint
After u go dey go vigil dey shout "Carry me go my husband house"�

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