Imbibed:
Good day everyone, pls I only need smart suggestions on how to end this addiction. I've been masturbating since I was 14, now I'm 28 and I still can't stop. This addiction had ruined so many of my relationships because I would always choose to masturbate over sex at some points because masturbation and porn gives me the feel of varieties. At one point having sex with just one girl becomes boring but with porn I can choose any girl I want or choose varieties of my fantasies.

This addiction has almost ruined my life and my health. I've got so many crazy health defects I'm struggling with because of this addiction. I'm just curious if anyone has any good suggestions on how they were able to beat this addiction. Having a girlfriend won't solve anything, so don't advice me on that.

Imbibed:
Good day everyone, pls I only need smart suggestions on how to end this addiction. I've been masturbating since I was 14, now I'm 28 and I still can't stop. This addiction had ruined so many of my relationships because I would always choose to masturbate over sex at some points because masturbation and porn gives me the feel of varieties. At one point having sex with just one girl becomes boring but with porn I can choose any girl I want or choose varieties of my fantasies.

This addiction has almost ruined my life and my health. I've got so many crazy health defects I'm struggling with because of this addiction. I'm just curious if anyone has any good suggestions on how they were able to beat this addiction. Having a girlfriend won't solve anything, so don't advice me on that.

Jennyclay:
It all starts from your mind. First of all, quit the porn watching things. It will go a long way to help you keep your mind in one piece... And also Learn to distract yourself from thinking about sex from your mind.

Secondly, find something meaningful to channel your energy once the urge comes.

Thirdly, you need a therapist who can help you savage this situation psychologically from time to time.

I pray God deliver you.

AndroidAI:
Masturbation is a natural activity found not only in humans.

Whether you masturbate or not, one way or another, you're going to cum for the rest of your life.

But there's an exception. The Death Grip Syndrome. That's dangerous and would ruin your sex life.

If you're the the type that masturbate with an overly firm or aggressive grip, then you need to stop.

Porn is also a demon on its own. Its impact on your brain is worst than masturbation itself. Quit porn first!

teebagy:
how is porn worst than masturbation

AndroidAI:


Good question. Now type that on Google or YouTube... You'll have your answer.

teebagy:
when a student ask a teacher a question based on d teacher theoritical teaching and d teacher asks d student to go and ask goggle dosent it show how intelligent and sensible d teacher is?.

AndroidAI:


Unfortunately, I am not your teacher. I merely responded out of the goodness of my heart. You want me to marry you a wife, and still impregnate her for you? Even a teacher will give a student a take-home assignment, which i did.

VOsimhen144:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

Jennyclay:
It all starts from your mind. First of all, quit the porn watching things. It will go a long way to help you keep your mind in one piece... And also Learn to distract yourself from thinking about sex from your mind.

Secondly, find something meaningful to channel your energy once the urge comes.

Thirdly, you need a therapist who can help you savage this situation psychologically from time to time.

I pray God deliver you.

Nonexisting:
You're 28 so let me repeat an advice I gave to a colleague of yours. Whenever you get a hardon, remember that at the time you masturbate, some of your old school mates are busy making millions.

bigcee:

How do you know they're busy making millions.

Day 25


Yesterday was the first day of the Islamic new year and I totally forgot that the state government declared a public holiday. So I still went out to work. It was when I arrive at the private school where I teach and found the place locked that I remembered. But I was already tired to trek back home again since I had no money. so I decided to collect the keys from the nanny whose house was just opposite the school.
The plan was to spend an hour or two at the staff room marking my students exams before going back home.
Not up to 30 mins after I had started marking that an intense urge to PMO gripped me. I quickly rushed to the laboratory in search of a cellotape to bind my fingers but I couldn't see any. I started sweating and my heart began to beat faster.
The school was so quiet as I was the only one around. For a moment, I thought that the demons were also in the office with me, watching me and I told myself that I would only briefly look at few pictures before continuing my marking ( my most recent victory fooled me into believing that I had it under control) ....

And that was how I spent the next 30mins surfing indecent site while touching myself. Then suddenly, the chair I was sitting down broke and I fell on my hips to the floor.

And that was what jolted me back to reality. I quickly put on my trousers and ran out of the school as if I just saw a snake.

.... Just maybe if I hadn't had a phone with me I might have still been able to put it under control as I don't ever see myself fapping just like that without looking at porn, no matter how strong the urge.

Seriously thinking of staying away from my phone throughout this new month. I believe if I could achieve two months clean, then I would be able to stay clean through out the remainder of the year.

Schools would be on break for a month and five days and I'm seriously scared since I would mostly remain idle at home. What's more painful is that my proprieteress don't pay salaries during break unlike other school owners. Even if I know of some online legit sites where one can earn few dollars daily, I don't know if I can always stop myself from stumbling on porn.
Losing opportunities and remaining broke for a whole month might not be so big a sacrifice to make in the quest for freedom from PMO that had messed up my life for over 10 years, would it? cry

Nonexisting:
The day you enter Alaba market and see small boys of 25 in their businesses, you will suffer depression.