This question na for the babes. You fit tell your bobo make im comot for your house for midnight because say you and am get small quarrel? I never see am before for Naija sha but e be like say that practice dey common for Obodo oyibo here.

For homeboys, wetin you go do if your babe tell you say make you comot for her house for midnight because say una quarrel and no be say you beat am or anything like that?

NB: Abeg make una no crucify me say I write for pidgin. You fit answer for oyibo or use pidgin anyone wey you like.

Lol who's apartment you just talk? 'your' dat is MY OWN abi? so it mean say na me get am & i fi do anything wey i want inside am abi?ehennn case closed!  

Yes, I would. I wouldn't have any regrets either.

If there was no communicating happening,and the matter was serious enough then maybe space from each other would be the only answer. That is,if it was my place only.

@poster


small quarrel no
big quarrel + fight
with speed!!

it all depends on certain factors oh

that's where black bin bags come in handy

they will land right on his head straight after him

If there was no communicating happening,and the matter was serious enough then maybe space from each other would be the only answer

i tire for these people.

no sense at all.

if you live overseas and your girlfriend owns the apartment then dont you have your own place or a car to take you somewhere else.

if you have neither then call your friend to pick you up in the middle of the night when you're busy fighting and showing aggro.

or should the police come and offer you free accomodation in jail? Or is beating yourselves better?


i'm getting so irritated by these s.tupid threads and just general display of i.diocy by some, dont know why.

geez, bush people na wa.

tpia@:

i tire for these people.

no sense at all.

if you live overseas and your girlfriend owns the apartment then dont you have your own place or a car to take you somewhere else.

if you have neither then call your friend to pick you up in the middle of the night when you're busy fighting and showing aggro.

or should the police come and offer you free accomodation in jail? Or is beating yourselves better?


i'm getting so irritated by these s.tupid threads and just general display of i.diocy by some, dont know why.

^^just a rant.

the ones it's is for know themselves.

tpia@:

^^just a rant.

the ones it's is for know themselves.

It's her apartment and she can do whatever she likes. Good chance I will not enter her apartment again after that. If we are still together, she will find her way to my apartment. Then I can kick her out if I so desire

Ladies that kick their dudes out of their apartment are probably the type that will try to kick the guy out of their matrimonial home when there is a fight. Red flag to me. If while fighting or quarelling, we can't treat each other with respect, then nothing will change when the relationship gets serious or marriage is in the works?

Somebody said it HER apartment so WHY ARE PEOPLE GETTING UPSET?

oh yeah!!!! easy-peasy in fact.

I can't because I know how I would feel if he did same to me

^^good for you.

you can also leave the apartment for him i guess.

deniyor:

Ladies that kick their dudes out of their apartment are probably the type that will try to kick the guy out of their matrimonial home when there is a fight. Red flag to me. If while fighting or quarelling, we can't treat each other with respect, then nothing will change when the relationship gets serious or marriage is in the works?

Good point bro. Anyways, it is her apartment and she is well within her rights to bounce in strict sense. But matters of relationships are hardly that cut and dried. For those who would readily hurl their man onto the streets, you would be the first to accuse a fellow of insensitivity and ungentlemanly conduct if the roles were reversed. I can understand if the chap got abusive in which case shooing him out would be better for all concerned but it is so hair-trigger to do that at the slightest beef.

if the apartment is "her" apartment then it's assumed the man has his own apartment somewhere.

does he not?

tpia@:

if the apartment is "her" apartment then it's assumed the man has his own apartment somewhere.

does he not?

Yea he does, but he came a very long way to her apartment. It is not like his was just around the block.

hey! u guys should pipe down! well. The question was based on whether or not a partner can send another out of the apartment. It does not mean or did not say that it was into the street. she might just want to let him stay on the porch for a while till the dust settles. she just needed a little pleading, soft pushing if you know what I mean.

@tpia
I would not leave the apartment for him either. If its as olusolami said a temporary thing then yes. If its leave and not come back, I can't oh . What if he stays a long way off and something happens to him on his way home like he runs into armed robbers or while driving off in anger he has an accident. Won't be able to forgive myself.
Now assume u leave at the other end of town and he says leave my apartment in the middle of the night and u prolly don't have a car and even if u do would you really want to be driving around in the middle of the night especially in naija .

this thread is pointless!mtcheeeeeeeeew

The appartment belongs to her so she can do as she likes even if it includes throwing my backside outta door in the midnight in the middle of the effing winter she has the right. But of cause she has to realise that it will mean WAR

Why declare war when you can just dump her azz and move to a prettier girl wo won't throw you out?

Beowulf:

Yea he does, but he came a very long way to her apartment. It is not like his was just around the block.

if they were quarrelling so intensely that she had to ask him to leave, then maybe he should have left even before she raised the issue.

sounds like the relationship is over anyway.

deniyor:

Why declare war when you can just dump her azz and move to a prettier girl wo won't throw you out?

Does not sound like punishment enough. I will just sleep with that friend of her's that has been eyeing me since.

Actually when I was about 19 or 20 I did that. The guy had been wooing me for months n wen I finally agreed on night he came to my sisters house and was all up in my grill (we were alone) after all said n done he started telling mi he had a gf of 5 yrs n he is so close to d family n that we shld just hav fun since I'm young n I shldnt b looking for anything serz yet.

I walked him out.

He didn't drive n this was in d middle of the nigh (lekki phase1) it took him an hour or more to treck home. LMAO!!!

A quarell is just a quarell, ,normally there's a solution for every problem as for me we might sleep mad or separately but I think I wouldn't be able to throw him out, I mean this his house also and I think it's quite mad and disrepectful

Besides your life might be out of the house which is not good to my opinion, family issues should stay between walls

op
why should a big boy sleep in a girl's house.

D boy na ashawo.

if any girl tries dis wit me! I will so come back d next mornin to tender a very FAKE apology for us to move on in peace (ices), thereafter i will unleash d dragon on her! i mean, i will cause her emotional damage and wreckage! i will vandalise,dualise,and bisect her heart! i will so mess her up emotionally by everymeans possible. Dis am sure will teach her nt to be so heartless to anybody again!