Boyloaf:

@OP, u r very very stu.pid and childish! Gosh! Do u actually want to take a decisive decision concernin your relationship based on d responses so far? If yes, then i suggest u go for medical check up because u sure do need one! Furthermore, i knw u dnt like dis guy, hence, your bringin him out for public scruitiny. Dnt worry, d guy u will finanlly fall in love wit will also bring u out for public scruitiny as well! Olosi!

horny4u:

I think the question the poster is asking is " how can a woman sift the shaft from the grain " as men are sharpening their skills too much this days and most Ladies are confused, They think the guy is for real yet he is lying.

So dear men tell us how to best do this, i am curious too

Boyloaf:

@OP, u r very very stu.pid and childish! Gosh! Do u actually want to take a decisive decision concernin your relationship based on d responses so far? If yes, then i suggest u go for medical check up because u sure do need one! Furthermore, i knw u dnt like dis guy, hence, your bringin him out for public scruitiny. Dnt worry, d guy u will finanlly fall in love wit will also bring u out for public scruitiny as well! Olosi!

coogar:

are you by any chance the guy the op is talking about?

what do you want us to tell you that you haven't learnt before now?

Boyloaf:

@OP, u r very very stu.pid and childish! Gosh! Do u actually want to take a decisive decision concernin your relationship based on d responses so far? If yes, then i suggest u go for medical check up because u sure do need one! Furthermore, i knw u dnt like dis guy, hence, your bringin him out for public scruitiny. Dnt worry, d guy u will finanlly fall in love wit will also bring u out for public scruitiny as well! Olosi!

dammytex:

Nairaland sha with its diversification;
okay poster, tell us what you like about him. You've agreed to start a conversation with him, exchange numbers, gone out a dates (and others that you didn't tell us). In all of this, you must have liked somethings about him. Probably cute. If you've found them, let us know.
If you have told him what he likes to hear, appeared in what he likes to see, smiled to him in a way that lightens him and spends his money in ways he foolishly admires amongst others, why won't he like you?
You look good (God's blessing), you write/speak well (well read), you travel (possible good background) and you are kind enough to want to go on dates with him amongst others. For SOME men, this is enough reason for wanting you.
You alone can know your reasons for not wanting him but please don't come and humiliate him on NL. Its not fair.
We find love in strange places remember.
we (men) relish the idea of persistence. You are not a guy so you can't understand. Its feels great cuddling your woman in private atmosphere, smiling to yourself at the thought of the times you always hear her say No way!!!!

Boyloaf:

@poster, i rilly dnt hav time for loosers like u! Postin on dis topic amounts to a total waiste of my 30.seconds. I'm still repeatin myself, na small pikin dey worry u. Dnt worry, just chill! By d time u hit 30 wit dis same character and no man is comin for your hand in marriage, u will beg a drunkard to profess his love for u in less than 2 weeks. This is d major problems wit our girls, they play wit too many opportunities of settlin down because they r waitin to hook angel gabriel. Na your time u dey waiste. Ok,,,go ahead

EuroMeko:

@ OP, love your pic.

I met a Nigerian Girl in Nigeria and spent a total of 3 dates with her. She texts me that she loves me - WTF?

I've heard about love at first sight but jeez.
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Hahaha! thanks.

naijasexy:

eghost247:

@ Op whats up LOL

naijasexy:

lol,  nuffin much. 

naijasexy:

loooool. He is not my Mr Right oo, But I think i am handling him quite well.

naijasexy:

Well, it might be possible given different circumstances. But his idea of love is ridic to me. Can you fall for a girl after just three times of seeing her? (Be you reminded that he started calling me "love" sugar" and what not about one week after he met me) But he dropped the bombshell just yesterday though.

Boyloaf:

@naijasexy, next time learn to make a complete post the first time, sorry for attackin u. I'm a psychologist, with wateva u write here, i can detect your motive one time! Sowee dearie nor vex!. I tink D old man needs a medical check up not u. And as for d plenty insults, start apologisin sharp sharp b4 i vex!

horny4u:

I wonder o but many gals still need to hear it.

naijasexy:

Thank you very much for your amazing contribution. Okay, yes,  he is not entirely bad. In fact, he has not shown me or done to me anything that would make me tag him as hideous. I would admit that I realize that coming to bash him here on Nairaland which is something he has no knowledge about is not the best way to go about things. People might even see it as inhuman. Fault admitted! The annoying thing about this issue,  which originally made me to post this topic, which I (for some reason) forgot to write in the post, is that this man has four children and a wife in Ireland. and of course his premature confession of his love for me.

I dont know your gender,  but if you  were female (assuming you are not one) and a man with four children and a wife who you just met one month ago tells you that he wants you guys to be (in his words) "INTIMATE AND LOVERS",  what would be your reaction? What would cloud your train of thought at that point? I appreciate his sincerity after all if he had not told me he was married, there is no way I would know. But it is also perturbing to know that a married man with 4 kids is chasing my pants.

As for his good attributes he SEEMS TO BE caring and nice,  but those two alone dont cut it for me.