Prolificdeman:
I'm a Crypto trader, and my lifestyle is more of a solitude type. I met her about 5 months ago, though the relationship start-off in more of a funny manner. She complements my lifestyle reason I choose to stick with her.

I must say, she's respectful and a very good listener and highly caring. But my only problem with her is her Use of English.

Somehow, I noticed its a foundational issue. She went to a bad primary and secondary school. And secondly she kept dull friends who doesn't help her improve herself. She's a very slow learner. I have tried my very best to avail her some resources to aid her growth, yet little or no improvement from her end.

I referred her to quora, some facebook groups and our own Nairaland, yet from one excuse to another.

I believe everyone can't be so smart but one should able to express themselves, and be intelligent to a functional capacity.

I'm from a background where people compete so much with educational and literary prowess, now imagine rolling with someone that can barely write few lines without an error.

To be honest, I'm not the womanising type and my profession barely gives me such privileged.

I personally love this lady due to her godly and caring nature(wife material) and won't want this stuff to set us apart.

I'm afraid of ending up with a slow partner that may likely affect the next generation. And I'm keen on helping her in a every way I could.

People that have had such experience, how did you help your partner grow.

PS: I have to rush here to type this stuff without proper proofreading after we had a heated argument this afternoon because of this same issue.

If you like, listen to people telling you SIT HER DOWN, TAKE HER TO SCHOOL, IF YOU LOVE HER, IS ENGLISH OUR MOTHER TONGUE?
she would dump you or mock you with her LEARNED boyfriend if tables were reversed. Life is too short to worry about a girl you have not married. it is just like you are writing an exam but you want to spend all your hours solving one question when there are 100 others with less problems.

You want to start teach an adult how to read & write? All the stress. Is that what you should be enjoying in your relationship? You can't even go out with her. Even in private she will still disgrace you with her text/whatsapp messages. Even if you take her to Havard, she will still turn back tomorrow and use her enhanced grammar to say WHAT HAVE YOU DONE THAT NOBODY HAS DONE FOR ME BEFORE?

5 months? you try sha. Maybe her pussy lips speak better in languages that you like and that is why you have kept her for so long. My dieck can't even shift if we can't have a proper conversation at first sight. Men dey try sha.

Dump her and find the one that suits you so she can also find someone who is comfortable with her jagajaga grammar and everything will be balanced. Stay with her & you will keep frustrating her and yourself too. One day she might get pissed off with your endless corrections, pour hot water on you and claim that you always make her feel bad & bullied.

TinubuThief:

This one don go carry our olosho tout wey we dey enjoy for street.
Las las , we go return to us again after u don enjoy your own quota

superCleanworks:


all those babes wey their gist no pass NEW PHONE, BBN & WizKid. Just mention words like MICROSOFT, INDUSTRY, BUSINESS, FUTURE PLAN, CENTIMETER around them and they will be mute forever and start pressing their phone.
their favorite songs are -
SCHOOL NA SCAM
ADULTHOOD NA SCAM
KOROBA by Tiwa Savage

tee59:
It's a matter of choice. If she's too dull and can't comprehend things, and also poor in english as well, don't marry her. Except you're ready to invest in her to meet up with the standard you want. Intelligence in children is gotten from their mothers. Even no matter what, think of your children academic performance in future. Your babe is not intelligent.