Hello, everyone.

How true is it when some people say that getting a virgin in hard?

I mean, most of us go to church and mosque almost every day and yet we engage in immorality?

How hard is it to avoid having sex?

I am 23 and even though I do get the urge, what I do most times the urge comes up is to take a cold bath and sleep.

I think someone's thinking towards sex is geared towards his/her environment.

I for example, I live in the north where I attended a primary school which separates male and female students.

I also did my secondary school education in an all boys school and never went to girls day (an all girls school just a stone throw away from our school) in order to look for a girlfriend or whatnot.

Compared to say, west or south eastern states where there are brothels almost in every area/town .

Right now, I am in the second semester of my final year in the university, and yet I am still single and a virgin.

I know some people are going to argue that I'm addicted to masturbation (which I've done in the past and was glad to have finally get free from the horrific habit), I still don't see why some people can't control their urges.

I know getting a virgin is hard to find, but I believe I'll marry a virgin like me too .

So, why do you think there are less virgins in Nigeria?

I believe it has to do with their environment or what are your thoughts?

The word "virginity" shouldn't be used for men. Men don't have hymen. There's nothing like a "male virgin".

Notwithstanding, it's easier to see two dinosaurs mating than to see a virgin Nigerian girl. The last virgin Nigerian girl died in 1967.

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Zonefree:
The word "virginity" shouldn't be used for men. Men don't have hymen. There's nothing like a "male virgin".

Notwithstanding, it's easier to see two dinosaurs mating than to see a virgin Nigerian girl. The last virgin Nigerian girl died in 1967.

You wan publish your own dictionary? A virgin is a human (whether male or female) that has not engaged in sexual intercourse.