Haynnie:
The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex.

This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.

Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.

It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.

Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.

Haynnie:
The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex.

This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.

Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.

It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.

Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.

Blunttruth:

Good for you. Don't force your ideas down people 's throat. Do what works for you and let them do theirs'. Virginity is good for both parties but it doesn't guarantee a successful marriage.
My cousin married a church going , born again, beautiful and intelligent young lady, she was a virgin. He told we that are close to him because he couldn't believe his luck. She was 23,a graduate and working, 6 years later my mom went for a function, his parents were there,he was with another woman. Shocked my mom asked that was how my aunt and uncle said he and the other lady got divorced quietly. This is after he had sponsored her to go for masters abroad.They had a 5 year daughter whom he pays almost million naira to the mum on child support.
When asked what happened, they said the guy said if they don't allow him end the marriage he will commit suicide. He told my mum his ex Was very conceited.
Fr6then on my mindset changed. I now see virginity as a bonus.

Haynnie:
The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex.

This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.

Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.

It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.

Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.

Hanibbal:
But how do one go recognises a virgin its not written on forehead.

Haynnie:
The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex. Question is what are the guaranteed signs that whoever you are dating is a virgin? Everyone wants to be a member of the happening club

This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.

Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.

It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.

Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.

Haynnie:
The fact is, it will be difficult to please a woman who has had so many experiences with several other men, most marriages are having issues because of this problem. Imagine getting married to a man who has had no experience with another woman before and you are already veteran in the game, haven had several experiences with men, how on earth will that man satisfy you, you already have so many memories in your head and you might want him to be like one of your ex. Question is what are the guaranteed signs that whoever you are dating is a virgin? Everyone wants to be a member of the happening club

This is why some women end up going to meet their ex boyfriend even when they are already married but that wouldn't have happened if there were no expectations before marriage.

Same thing goes to the men, virginity is not only tied to women alone, a man should also keep himself till marriage.

It is very possible to make so many mistakes in the past and still have a happy marriage but not making those mistakes gives you a better marriage.

Go for Purity, I've made up my mind to be this way until I meet my wife, ain't sleeping with another man's wife.

Tobi3k4:
like someone earlier said, virginity alone should not be the basis for marriage. Let God and mutual love be the basis. As long as thre is openess and sincerity, you are good to go.