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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by OKOATA(m): 7:17pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
HEBEI:How can you marry a virgin and cheat before marriage. No be after dem marry you go tear am? This your logic dey funny guy. 2 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Maynman: 7:18pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
esere826:If a woman is a whor.e, you say it to her face, it was HER choices that made her one just like a Murderer you using someone short or disabled are lame examples. Go to law courts and they will call a child, legal or illegal. This is COMMON SENSE. It seems the word “bastard” irks you? 1 Like |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by bonnyhope: 7:19pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: That's why I always say some of these stories are false You said your wife loves you but the first child is not yours, likely she has cheated along the way How do you combine cheat and love |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Killermamba: 7:19pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Bros go and run another DNA test but this time it should be matching that of your wife to your son. If it show she is the mother you know what to do, but if it shows she is not either just prepare to sue the hospital you had your child. Do this before you confront her or destroy your home |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Dextre(m): 7:20pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: I can sense a high level of maturity in you, it takes more than just physical strength to still be able to hold on , I commend u for that however, holding it in will be the death of you, if u know you are willing to forgive, then just tell your wife, let’s hear what she has to say. Paternity fraud nor be child’s play o |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by CSNg: 7:22pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: SIMP! |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Megabig: 7:23pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
She allowed another person sleep with her without condoms and then nut in her severally, you should be outraged 2 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by CSNg: 7:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
abuja007: Exactly...na the woman dey pay rent. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by bonnyhope: 7:28pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Rexymania: The guy has been caged spiritually, physically and financially |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by CSNg: 7:29pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: It seems you are the woman in question
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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Setursight(m): 7:32pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Was it not yesterday or what , that a guy was here telling us his wife was a former runs girl. Today, another is here telling us his wife carried him handicap! What marriage is turning to these days, is really pathetic!!! And unfortunately, men are the ones on the receiving end. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by harmargedon: 7:34pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz:run a DNA test of your wife and the child and verify its match, before you can conclude. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Regex: 7:35pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Writers employed by Seun. However the "predicament" "the op" is "going through" is not foreign in many homes. In fact a lot of men are yet to discover this. One would wonder 'what a good woman she is'. 1 Like |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Bimbilla(m): 7:36pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Bimbilla(m): 7:38pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by kakaG: 7:39pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
FalseProphet1: On point don't. Don't even ask me why...demons indeed they are |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Triple4: 7:40pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
You should tell your wife , Reason,there may be a sawp at the hospital. Satisfy your conscience anyways because it may eat you up gradually. You may become vawuuulent unnecessarily |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by LaJoe2: 7:44pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Moh247: Which kind Kobo Kobo advice be this !? |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by BoboNogoDie: 7:51pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz:Honestly, you and many like you don't deserve the gift of life. You're one of the reasons why moral values has depreciated in this world. HOW CAN YOU CALL A WHÓRE A GOOD PERSON? HOW CAN YOU CALL A DISTRUSTFUL WAYWARD FORNICATOR A GOOD PERSON? HOW CAN YOU CALL A LIAR, MANIPULATOR AND A SELFISH BASTARD A GOOD PERSON? I'M ABSOLUTELY SURE THAT YOUR KNOWS THAT THE CHILD IS NOT YOURS AND TRUST ME, ONE DAY WHEN SHE HAS BECOME BALANCED, SHE'LL STILL USE IT TO ABUSE YOU. SOMEONE WHO IS CAPABLE OF CHEATING AND BRINGING ANOTHER MAN'S CHILD FOR YOU TO TAKE CARE OF IS CAPABLE OF KILLING YOU. YOUR STUPÌDITY HAS NO BOUNDARY SHAME |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Greattha: 7:52pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Tempted to think this story is fabricated.(No pun intended). If it's true, then you need to work on your self-esteem and earning power. Its obvious you're scared of the fallout of your distasteful discovery..., you wouldn't be this calm if you had the means. All those saying you should ignore it are misleading you. Hypocrisy!!! You said she's a good woman...a good woman who's got you training another man's child as your own? And you think she truly loves you? Maybe it's pity or you're just being used but nah...it sure ain't love Mr. It's best you take the bull by the horn and face the consequences because its obviously bothering you... Not necessarily suggesting a divorce because the other babies COULD be yours but YOU CAN'T AND SHOULDN'T TRUST THAT WOMAN. Alternatively, maybe someone else's baby was given to your wife after delivery and she's oblivious as well....unless ofcourse the child shares a resemblance with your wife which rules out that possibility. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Lucifyre: 7:54pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Tannhauser:Why do nurses switch babies? |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by SparklezCEO(f): 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Get your wife's samples and do another test just to be sure your baby wasn't exchanged at birth in the hospital. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Tbaba001: 7:55pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: THEM DE BANG YOUR WIFE, MUMU SAY SHE'S A GOOD WIFE |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by BoboNogoDie: 7:56pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
FalseProphet1:This gender can be so evil to the point that, EVEN WHEN CALLED BY GOD AND THEY ARE SEEING HIM PHYSICALLY, FACE-TO-FACE, THEY'LL STILL LIE. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by popo1494: 8:01pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Wishing the OP knows he’s indirectly playing with his life in the long run. Aside sexual relationship between the said wife and the man who fathered the child....many things can befall the op from the father of that child just to quietly claim the child and in most cases will be from the said wife which she may “probably” knows about it. The op really need to work on his subconscious mind as a man and either agreed or not, WOMEN ARE NATURALLY SECRETIVE THAN MEN and can keep secrets to themselves even till death . Prechgold1180: |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by IamtheTruth1(m): 8:06pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Only those who have been in your can truly advice you. Many people will call you a simp for still loving your wife even when you found out she did cheat and there's a product of her actions. It's up to you to actually decide what's best for you. Advice full everywhere. Bro, before you take any action, what happens to that boy that has been calling you "Dad" ? |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Peero1: 8:11pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
[quote author=Meektunz post=117869548]Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance. I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me. My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides. Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget. I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything. What do you advise me to do guys?[/quote Hinestly speaking untill you hut the nail on the head, you can't have that peace of mind. Man up and confronts your wife, don't be scared of the outcome or whatever, abi nah she put you for house? Abeg do the needful else the memories of that shits will keep coming to your mind. If you do not take the necessary steps now, it may lead to depression and you may find yourself being addicted to drugs, and alchoalco consumption. Pls take action abeg |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by nedekid: 8:16pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Fiscus105:Me nko, those days, a lady I had being dating but with protection suddenly came that I should do without, how? Red flag immediately! It happened with another one too, later, that one even opened up that God saved me, she was looking for who to pin the belle on. Many years ago too, I nacked one young lady thinking she de fresh and innocent. 5 days later she say she no see period. How naa? She said na only me. I tried to explain to her it was not possible. Finally I got her in the car, as we were approching the lab, I warned her the test will show how old the pregnancy was and then I will not help her for lying. Na so she confess that while writing gce, the proprietor of the school she registered will make them set doggie ie she and her friend, then knack them skin to skin before any exam to give them expo. Say the man nack all the smallie weh no pay for expo! So the man was responsible. See me thinking say na clean innocent smallie Last last sha, she did test and there was no pregnancy. If there was, she would have hanged it on one innocent person weh no know. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by AfroKnight: 8:16pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Flukey: E be like say brain dey pain you. Small goat. Na you get sister wey be olosho na why e dey pain you. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by inspector1(m): 8:17pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
[color=#990000][/color][quote author=general111 post=117870060]Calm down... One day this thing will hunt you if you dont deal with it now. Tell her peacefully and try to let her know that you still love her and would love this to be a secret between both of you.. Once she hears that you want to make it a family secret, she will get soft and begin to confess. Then you can properly forgive her and move on... Besides, i think she has really been good to you, else this would have been a good reason to leave her. JUST KEEP MUTE & CONTINUES PLAYING UR ROLE AS A LOVING FATHER & HUSBAND....... MIND U, THE DAY YOU OPEN UP TO UR WIFE ABOUT THE SITUATION IS UR LAST DAY ON EARTH. because SHE WILL DO EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO SAVE HER SELF. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by advanceDNA: 8:26pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
bonnyhope: So to you..only bad women cheat?? A woman cannit be good and still cheat?? Is lile u people dont understand sex has appetite?? A lady is use to enjoying sex is certain ways before marriage..she can go and get it if she misses it in her marriage.....besides this can be a case of sleeping with multiple guys before marriage... Sex doesnt make someone horrible or a bad person....she can be a good person and still spread like rumour... we all have our cravings. Its just good to have control over them |
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