U have enjoyed ur life well enough and now u want to rush a little girl of 21 into marry you , if you calculate her age now and urs you will be aging her up to 16years.

U better have a rethinking and leave that younger girl for us that has not clock 30year, and find those ones you have spoil during ur time and marry

"voluptuously curvy"
This guy marriage no be grammar oo. She go then turn to ridiculously curving

virginprincess:
Bia op,hope you are not deceiving this girl just to get inbetween her legs.

I smell scam too.....

Okonandmary:


You are talking trash

You are the simp.

Fyi, men date down, women date up..this is simple

Seems like you have been brainwashed to marry your age mate.

why can't men date up like women? l wanna marry a rich woman too

Evolutionlove:


Lol Scarcity Mentality

I have never been a Fan of Most Men though because I know most of you he-goats are lowlives..

are redpill or alfa male?

Get to know her first. Control your emotions.

Evolutionlove:


Lol Scarcity Mentality

I have never been a Fan of Most Men though because I know most of you he-goats are lowlives..

are you redpill or alfa male?

virginprincess:
Bia op,hope you are not deceiving this girl just to get inbetween her legs.

why do ladies say this all the time..is heaven btw her legs? And if he gets there won't she enjoy it too? The thing going between her legs is also btw the man's legs..

Berankis:
But I was never best friends with my wife before I married her. I just met her casually like this, I saw the determination in her too and we got married just like that and it's been great!
Look for a responsible lady and not a slay queen, you will be just fine.

Your wife, did she part the red sea for you when you met her?

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Get to know her first.at least you just made intentions known, you can still change your mind..I thought Yoruba were the most respectful people on Earth till I got a job in south west..They are not respectful at all.. Greeting 100 times per hour doesn't equal respect..Just after the greeting, some mumble insults. Just small issue u will know that they don't have respect ...You are 36, and your reasons for choosing a wife is not so solid..I am two years younger and have 6 years of marriage and I can tell you that outward disposition can't be taken seriously till you live together..You also discover newer things as the babies roll in..Curviness will go also after child birth and breast will sag..Ladies only appear hot when they are going out..All packaging go loose once they enter house and you go see am bare ...Them no send again because them don marry you and them don born..so take it easy..The only thing u should look out for is personality which hardly changes..

AlphaTaikun:

Dating is used largely to get to know one another OR your level of compatibility, and must not exceed 2 years otherwise lethargy sets in.

A minimum of 4 months to 1 year of dating before marriage is the most ideal for any serious man who wants to "wife" a young woman.

is sex compulsory in dating?

asuraking:
Wen u suppose to b ha best friend 1st,u go marry ha.lata,u go dey complain of marital issues.truely common sense is not common.

Keep kwayet, no be everytime that shit dey work.

I get people wey date for 9 years, I mean 9 years and according to them they were even friends before dating for that 9 years, but their wedding Hmmm. I don't just want to talk about another man's wedding here.

So such that kind of reasoning abeg.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Is she still in school?
Hope you are ready to continue paying her fees if she is in school?
Does she have a good job yet?
Hope you are ready to foot every of the household bills plus her own family bills occasionally?
Don't come a d complain that she is a liability ooo
Because you saw her age and knew her financial status before marrying her. Thanks

sammirano:
Flateee wan marry blessed Omoluabi e no go work. My dog for house can never marry from that place.

Onuku! You are a poor tribalist. Flatee kee you there �

You did the right thing.

Nilon:
baba when I go come chop rice?

It depends on the type of rice you want chop..

Monday left over rice?

Wednesday mid week rice?

Sunday rice?

Choose one? Local or foreign

I don't understand

You guys are the most vocal when you say things like "catch them young", " marry girls who are in their 20s".

This OP has taken the advice he has seen here severally and why am I now seeing comments like "a 20 year old has nothing to offer but her pusssy'

Na wa ooo. Poco was right after all.

OP, I sha wish you all the best.

The greatest disservice anybody will do to him or herself is to take advice from people who cannot say one thing and stick to it but will rather shift posts to suit the narrative trending at the time.

Munzy14:
It depends on the type of rice you want chop..
Monday left over rice?
Wednesday mid week rice?
Sunday rice?
Choose one? Local or foreign

Saturday rice

GOFRONT:
Some Nairalanders sef!!!

Someone has seen his choice of lady to marry.........Some are complaining say Op suppose do bestie bestie with the girl first.......they want Op and the girl to commit all sort of fornication first in the name of best friend best friend......

Some even said Op wan just chop her young honeypot, some even complain say Op is a mugu cos he is only after the lady's young backside......

Op, When you keep this lady to clock 30 before marrying her, These same set of dudes would say things like " Chaii Op wan marry evening newspaper"........"Op don go marry lady with a high mileage and many body count" among so many words of discouragement.......Op you cant please the world.

Op pls go ahead and marry her if that's your plan.........Catch her young........But then Op, my advice is pls try and make sure your GENOTYPES match each other...........GENOTYPE matters alot.

If you have been following the trend here, you'd have found out that it is not uncommon for men to come up after marriage to tell bitter stories of how their wives are misbehaving. Advicing OP to court his wife for a while is not out of place. I am not saying they should court for 10 years but at least they should observe themselves for a year. He should not assume that getting married to her will guarantee her loyalty. Those round hips he is fond of, many men will fantasise about them and will try to reach them, if the wife isn't loyal, she may succumb. Know yourselves.

Jflex07:
I just hope you are not making the same mistake my friend made because he made a hasty decision when he met his now wife. That was how she ticked all his boxes and had all the right curves then,but now water don pass garri..This girl quarrels with almost all his siblings and doesn't welcome visitors..op ,I wish you the best of luck!

The guy is only after her so called curvy body and all. You can smell his greed from miles away.
Curvy body ko...gynecologist ni

Teespice:
I don't understand

You guys are the most vocal when you say things like "catch them young", " marry girls who are in their 20s".

This OP has taken the advice he has seen here severally and why am I now seeing comments like "a 20 year old has nothing to offer but her pusssy'

Na wa ooo. Poco was right after all.

OP, I sha wish you all the best.

The greatest disservice anybody will do to him or herself is to take advice from people who cannot say one thing and stick to it but will rather shift posts to suit the narrative trending at the time.

at what age did you meet your husband?

Is this not despiration bro?

Dating for years doesn’t reveal the true character of a partner.

Likewise scouting a lady at a religious gathering doesn’t guarantee sweet partner.

Since you’ve decided…as I did then and no regret 0.001%.

Try check the girl’s parent parenting manner.
Eg living together
Living separately
Divorced

Her female siblings marriages ( if any)

These things matters 100%

ukaface:
This life sef
After you've finished been a play boy, you finally want to end up with a ' good girl'

Unfortunately, no one is ready to talk about this

But he didn't write she's a good girl. Just respectful and curvy. My own is even the age difference, but who knows, it might be for the best.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

You be complete ODE

doneback04:
U have enjoyed ur life well enough and now u want to rush a little girl of 21 into marry you , if you calculate her age now and urs you will be aging her up to 16years.

U better have a rethinking and leave that younger girl for us that has not clock 30year, and find those ones you have spoil during ur time and marry

Leave her for you guys so she will clock 30 with high body count and you can start insulting her right?

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Congratulations man
Wish you well

MuslimMuslim:
You are almost × 2 of her age.
16 years different is too much

It's not if he is really ready. Women need a provider and protector before they stand on their feet and older men are the best in doing that.

onlinestaff2020:
Are you a Jew man or maga that wants to marry out of the blue because you see one small girl wey get small backyard?

I pity you seriously.

You are rushing this small girl because you are 36 and want to please yourself...Guy, that's so selfish...That girl will finish you in due time because she is way smarter than you and she has seen that you are so desperate.

In short, you are a simp and can never be an alpha.

Girl wey never enjoy life out of school, nai you wan colonize.

OP is confirmed jew man. What gives the OP that this curvy girl doesn't have a small boy in her live? At this age you want to marry a young girl that there is 16 years age gap. Babe wey never do better groove and he is thinking of packaging her with marriage. Mumu still plenty poo. I just pity this OP

mattsejuro:


What confuses me most is how you waited till age 36 years of age only to hurriedly decide to make this huge mistake...

How is it hurriedly? He is going to wait for her to graduate. A full year. What is wrong with you people?

kingsceemark:


A Yoruba girl for the matter

don't be a racist. The problem is not that she is Youruba or Igbo. He is rushing too much.

His chance of a successful marriage is almost like a man who buys a lottery ticket for 10 naira and hope to win 10m. And goes ahead to plan his life around his hopeful wins.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Go for it.

That was my approach and I have been happily married for 20 years now. The lie of getting to know one another is what it is - a lie. People change based on life events not duration of courtship and most of those life events occur inside marriage. To say you want to know someone well outside of marriage is a common mistake. It simply leads to knowing their faults better, not in understanding your role in developing each other. She will make mistakes as you will but marriage is not about being faultless. Perfection is an illusion. It is more about finding a common mission and using shared values to achieve shorter term visions that support your mission.

BTW I notice you say curvy etc. Great but recognise you must love her inside because curves may change over time.

I wish you both the best of God's favours.