bluefilm:


So he should marry an evening newspaper who has already seen the entire life?

No he shouldn’t but marrying a 20 years old girl like like playing with Shege

doneback04:
U have enjoyed ur life well enough and now u want to rush a little girl of 21 into marry you , if you calculate her age now and urs you will be aging her up to 16years.

U better have a rethinking and leave that younger girl for us that has not clock 30year, and find those ones you have spoil during ur time and marry

A Comrade has spoken

Because you have money to waste on a smooth waist you refused to use ur hear.

nenyewrites:


It's not if he is really ready. Women need a provider and protector before they stand on their feet and older men are the best in doing that.

Not 16 years older

MuslimMuslim:

Not 16 years older

Its funny coming from you

advanceDNA:


Its funny coming from you

Why?

onlinestaff2020:
Are you a Jew man or maga that wants to marry out of the blue because you see one small girl wey get small backyard?

I pity you seriously.

You are rushing this small girl because you are 36 and want to please yourself...Guy, that's so selfish...That girl will finish you in due time because she is way smarter than you and she has seen that you are so desperate.

In short, you are a simp and can never be an alpha.

Girl wey never enjoy life out of school, nai you wan colonize.

So you suggest he settles for a hoe who has enjoyed life out of school?

swagguElite:
Nothing a woman will do, will shock you coz your age should have exposed to the most already, so you can absorb some of her childish attitude and manage your marriage well.

You have said it all here. Just like d same things I went through. When I met my woman 2yrs+, she was barely 18... She's now 20. I have to be matured and strong enough to tolerate her childish behaviors with the help of her mom n Aunty, whose so much take me like their brother. Now, I am enjoying my woman to the core bcoz she has realized I mean so well for her. She is so matured and kind-hearted woman I ever wish to have. Thanks for being patience.

In that teen and early twenties age, they must surely misbehave. If she didn't cheat, with time her childish behaviors will fade away gradually

MuslimMuslim:

Why?

I hope u dont take this the wrong way....but u muslims marry underage alot...even ur prophet did it with an even wider age gap....i know ur your religion allows it so i get that anything goes as along as its permitted in islam.....
so i hope u get why its funny to me that a muslim thinks a 36year old shouldnt marry a 20 year old...

advanceDNA:


I hope u dont take this the wrong way....but u muslims marry underage alot...even ur prophet did it with an even wider age gap....i know ur your religion allows it so i get that anything goes as along as its permitted in islam.....
so i hope u get why its funny to me that a muslim thinks a 36year old shouldnt marry a 20 year old...

Who said I am a muslim?

MuslimMuslim:

Not 16 years older

Donald Trump used over 20 years to senior his wife...

But 20yo girl isn't ready for marriage the OP will regret his decision.....

The girl will later think maybe if she had waited if she could hv found someone better....

20 yos are girlfriends buy if you find one that is truly ready for marriage then you are extremely lucky....

MuslimMuslim:

Who said I am a muslim?

Okay....i guess your moniker is just a moniker.....Apologies

asuraking:
Wen u suppose to b ha best friend 1st,u go marry ha.lata,u go dey complain of marital issues.truely common sense is not common.

pray for them to have a wonderful union. No marriage is perfect! Chronic Bachelor

advanceDNA:


Okay....i guess your moniker is just a moniker.....Apologies

It is not just a moniker. If you were active in politics section, you would understand

this one dey find who e fit manipulate, I kuku trust Yoruba gehs, those hoes ain't loyal

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

I support you bro � and wish you best of luck. Don't mind those chronic Bachelor's afraid of taking bold step. I did the same 8 yrs ago to God be the Glory I have four wonderful kids.

Bro u said u don't want to waist any girls time big lie,u don dey old so u felt it's time to get married,all those times u are forming playa boy no be girls time u dey waiste?

Werey "I hate to waste a lady's time" after 36years of age.

Boomboost:


Guy, so you're saying a broke you is not worthy to talk to Banky W or your State Governor? Not having money makes a human being unworthy of speaking to another human being?
So one has to make money to be worthy of talking to...?

Mehn, reason this your talk o...

My own for you is, Treat people of the lower class well, don't think people have to work hard and be in your class to talk to you.

WORTHY TO TALK is F**king different than WORTHY TO INSULT...
I called you out on your trash, and you're running towards motivational quotes and speeches?

Read your comment again and see whether you're were talking or insulting a full grown 36 years old man.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

be bless

Boomboost:


Guy, so you're saying a broke you is not worthy to talk to Banky W or your State Governor? Not having money makes a human being unworthy of speaking to another human being?
So one has to make money to be worthy of talking to...?

Mehn, reason this your talk o...

My own for you is, Treat people of the lower class well, don't think people have to work hard and be in your class to talk to you.

Before sitting on the Judge's seat, you can go back and read how everything started. Nairaland made it so easy that within seconds, you could have clicked our usernames and see how it all begin.

Let me do that for you, dear sir.

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

Go ahead, you have my best wishes.

I can't advice you now until u give me d girl address or her phone number am I making sense at all

nextdoor84:


Onuku! You are a poor tribalist. Flatee kee you there �

wretched flatskull selling gala in the holdup. I will feed You and your generation both unborn. Eranko

DollarBuddy:
So there's this cute 20 year-old Yoruba babe who lives with her elder brother, a senior Gynecologist in a government owned hospital in my area. She is so down to earth and very respectful.

To cut the long story short, this Yoruba girl has been entering my eyes like Omo detergent since the year 1241 AD

As I no want to talk too much, or to be seen as a player, I arranged for us to meet at an open space, an eatery. When she showed up, we only had a short chat before I told her straight up, that i want to marry her. If you see as babe shock ba

Anyways, I mean it. I'm 36 and the Yoruba girl would be 21 by next year September. She has agreed that I come to greet her brother. And I'll be doing that pretty soon.

She is just my spec. She is very brilliant and voluptuously curvy. She'll be graduating from the University by next year.

I hate to waste a lady's time, Godwilling as soon as she graduates by September next year, we're tying the knots.

If her boyfriend hears this?

OhiOfIhima:


You have said it all here. Just like d same things I went through. When I met my woman 2yrs+, she was barely 18... She's now 20. I have to be matured and strong enough to tolerate her childish behaviors with the help of her mom n Aunty, whose so much take me like their brother. Now, I am enjoying my woman to the core bcoz she has realized I mean so well for her. She is so matured and kind-hearted woman I ever wish to have. Thanks for being patience.

In that teen and early twenties age, they must surely misbehave. If she didn't cheat, with time her childish behaviors will fade away gradually

Learned Counsel, I'm proud of you. That's the reality. May God bless your family.

36 to 21 When she is 30, ur preek fit no dey work again

Lalami3232:
OP I wish you nothing but success sha. I pray make this one end well for you because a typical 9ja girl of 18-24yrs has little or nothing to offer aside their toto. This one fit dey different sha, but I no go take risk because most young girls nowadays get very young(immature) brain. In those days our grandmothers dey marry at 15-18yrs and dem fit take care of the home, but now E no be like that again.
The only advantage you get be say her toto never see perilous times like those wey dey above 25yrs. But in a nutshell sha, I wish you luck though marrying a 21yrs old 9ja girl be like 5odd gambling for bet9ja.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "Instead of you to go do yahoo, Oga go learn programming and thank me later"

omo Iya, ma kpami na

MissLAP:


As a woman, if you have plans of enjoying life before marriage, that's cool but it's a very risky game to play especially now that women are submitting themselves to men for marriage.

hmm, lemme just believe they're still good women... I'm impressed.

DollarBuddy:


Boss, I too sure die, say this girl is mine. Forgerit, I used to be a playboy and I know how girls row.

I've lost some via some mistakes like, "lets just be friends first". Oga, when you meet your spec, no waste time oh, another sharp shooter go first you shoot him shot.

You've got a point tho. But I'm very convinced I've seen what I want.

So yes, marriage it is!!

Thanks for stopping by.

How about her? Are u sure you’re what she wants?
Or don’t you know the marriage can crash if tomorrow she discovers you’re not what she actually wants, that she rushed into marriage .
And for you don’t be too sure she is all you want, physically she might be , but what of character, attitude?are u sure she’s not suffering from any particular sickness or disease?
Bro no matter what ,you guys are supposed to court for some time it is very very important.

onlinestaff2020:
Are you a Jew man or maga that wants to marry out of the blue because you see one small girl wey get small backyard?

I pity you seriously.

You are rushing this small girl because you are 36 and want to please yourself...Guy, that's so selfish...That girl will finish you in due time because she is way smarter than you and she has seen that you are so desperate.

In short, you are a simp and can never be an alpha.

Girl wey never enjoy life out of school, nai you wan colonize.

WHO TOLD YOU SHE WANTS TO FINISH SCHOOL AND ENJOY LIFE?HOME BREAKER AND DEMONIC ADVISER,THERE ARE A LOT OF YOUNG UNDER GRADUATES FEMALES BETWEEN THE AGES OF 19 - 24 WHO ARE WISHING THEY MARRY IMMEDIATELY THEY ARE GRADUATING AS THEY ARE GOING FOR YOUTH SERVICE THEY USE MARITAL STATUS TO REDEPLOY.WHAT WILL A YOUNG GIRL OF SUCH AGE BE WAITING FOR AFTER GRADUATING AND HAVE THE DESIRE TO MARRY?ENJOY SEX,ALCOHOL AND DRIVE AROUND WITH YAHOO BOYS OR MARRIED MEN?I KNOW A LADY IN MY CHURCH WHO WISH THAT IF ANY SUITOR COMES FOR HER DAUGHTER'S HAND IN MARRIAGE WHILE STILL IN THE UNIVERSITY AND A TEENAGER AND THE DAUGHTER LIKES THE MAN,OFF SHE IS SUPPORTING THE IDEA.LO AND BEHOLD THAT WAS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED,SHE GOT MARRIED AT THE AGE OF 18 LIKE REGINA,AND TODAY SHE IS HAPPILY MARRIED FOR LIKE 14 YEARS LIVING WITH HER HUSBAND WHO IS SO SUPPORTIVE AND FRIENDLY WITH HIS MOTHER IN-LAW AND THE WIVES SIBLINGS TILL DATE.DO THE MATHS 18+14 = 32 WHAT KIND ENJOYMENT DOES SHE NEED THAT HER HUSBAND WOULD NOT HAVE GIVEN TO HER?