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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by seguno2: 6:17pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.

Should you not have opened a new account for this, to keep your anonymity
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by sowetojaccy: 6:18pm On Nov 14, 2022
My candid opinion:
Confront her and tell her the things that bothers you,
It's not as serious as you think,
It's just ur mind set,
Know this and know peace.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Goodbadbowy419: 6:18pm On Nov 14, 2022
A weak simps die horribly

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by elinaxy(m): 6:18pm On Nov 14, 2022
Too bad! I can bet my balls your wife is collecting it somewhere else, I feel pity for you, a whole 3month no be beans. They no born her well after all the stress of marrying her, paying for long list and all of that she will now come and be starving me of sexual pleasure

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 14, 2022
Until you all learn to hold fellow men accountable you will continue to have vapours in your marriage.

The "boy" even has the guts to reach out to the husband. I'm impressed grin

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Nov 14, 2022
Bamrems:
This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


he

Garbage!
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Atarakpa: 6:19pm On Nov 14, 2022
Tell us about your side chic. I want check something
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by maasoap(m): 6:19pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
She betrayed you twice.... One was cheating, while the other was stealing and you're still staying with that deadly black mamba because she's supporting you financially? Condoning nonsense because of the little cash she throws at home?


Continue staying there, very soon she will plot with that her colleague furcking her to send you to the great beyond.

On top of that, she's denying him sex. In addition to receiving calls that she knew would anger him. Some men sha!

Copy: Adun27
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Germi9: 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
She betrayed you twice.... One was cheating, while the other was stealing and you're still staying with that deadly black mamba because she's supporting you financially? Condoning nonsense because of the little cash she throws at home?


Continue staying there, very soon she will plot with that her colleague furcking her to send you to the great beyond.
We men can be very greedy,he knows what to do but because of greed he doesn’t want to lose her,probably the fvck or the financial support

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by B2B23: 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.


She has rediculed you in front of that her colleagues hence the guts to call you. They see you as a simp because you easily forgave her before.

She insults you when her colleagues is Bleep!Ng her.

Free her and start monitoring her phone , all you need nownis evidence to bolt her out before she carry another. Man pikin give u.

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by oxiide22(m): 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.
hhhh grin E dey sweet me

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Makowonda: 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
BROS!!!You get mind O!See the ka'in woman wey you carry put for house.Shege Jaguar!
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by stacyadams: 6:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:


I don't know how to send private message here, can you pls advise me how to confront her because it's confusing to me


u for cool down gather concrete evidence before u let am know,u can still cool down ,lock up and gather concrete and cement evidence then present am to d parents and throw her goddam tinker box outside grin


But una c y I talk say na woman go pay my groom price So that any day she begin foock outside I go know say I no waste shishi on top the yeye marriage.. "To your tents o isreal" shebi na so bible talk am grin
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Romanoff(f): 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
agabaI23:
Hi, I like your fingers

Thank you.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Heelstarr: 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
My dear brother, collect her phone unexpectedly and peruse it, then thank me later. Dont be a weakling. Your wife is cheating. short and simple.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Akinboyo1: 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
Bamrems:
This is what is happening to your wife, if she is in her late twenties, there is slightly an increase in the testosterone level in her body as they start preparing for menopause. The level of oxytocin starts decreasing and they feel the effect of testosterone more as guys do in their teens and early twenties.

Most women don't understand why all of a sudden, they start losing interest in their husbands and find young guys around more attractive. They lose interest in sex with their husbands and fantasize about their young lovers. They start to develop emotional connections with these young guys and become distant to their husbands because of guilt.

Most men fail to understand or don't believe their faithful or loyal wives have started stepping out and even deny the obvious signs which most times come with abstinence from sex with them and emotional bonding with their lovers. It's actually frustrating for both parties, most women because of the high level of dopamine they get from their lovers are conflicted with either leaving their husbands or becoming angry with them.

Although it is suggested that it's a way of nature making the older eggs fertilized by younger sperms. Very soon your wife will ask for either separation or divorce if you fail to confront her to choose between you and her lover.
You can Pm me I'll advice you on how to confront her and call her out, so she don't play with their emotions or gaslight you as women in this stage do to justify their cheating as being unhappy or the man not doing enough in the relationship.

I have a lot to write but time won't allow me. I see a lot of me crying here saying their wives are stepping out or leaving them because of this same brain hormonal chemistry happening in their women.


he


Please, I need to ask, is there TESTOTERONE in female's body?
I think this is a male hormone and has nothing to do with females o.
Please shed more light.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by obaaderemi: 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.
grin grin Dem suppose ban you.

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Smoketight007: 6:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
Stop watching po*n
Stop jerking off
Stop pleasing yourself
Your hands is not the same as the good wet pussy

You deserve a good wet pussy from a real girl

Porn women are professional actors

Porn teaching you to be a spectator

Everybody get choice but chose Nice things

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by PlayMaker14: 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2022
Germi9:

We men can be very greedy,he knows what to do but because of greed he doesn’t want to lose her,probably the fvck or the financial support
In the voice of Asari Dokubo; “May God nor allow dem kill am”
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by maasoap(m): 6:22pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:


Lol at the end of what ? I talk say i need advise nah story you come dey read

grin grin grin

Like some people said, bug her phone.
Duplicate her WhatsApp with you chrome browser.
Install silent call recorder on her phone. Those two should provide you enough information with time
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Sureboyy(m): 6:23pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.
Nothing to say much here but you are a Weak Simp of a man because why the hell would your wife cheat on you and you'll forgive her??
Coupled with the fact she initially connived with someone to steal from you

Why the heck is wrong with some men these days
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Nobody: 6:23pm On Nov 14, 2022
maasoap:


On top of that, she's denying him sex. In addition to receiving calls that she knew would anger him. Some men sha!

Copy: Adun 27
What should he have done? The earlier you realize that online chest beating has no effect in solving real life issues the better for you.

If it was that easy to fix, would op create a thread?

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Lufthansa: 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2022
Bro, your suspicion is much right. They are bleeping each other and nothing more.

Trail her movement or get someone to do that and you will find out the truth.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Dynamiq(m): 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.
Please can you remind me of the name of the cartoon/skit from which you got this picture? I have been looking for it.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by 07kjb: 6:24pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:
Please some weeks ago, I found out that her colleague (a male) calls her often. I told her but immediately she flair up and went to work with anger, she told me that the boy was calling him for work meanwhile they will see for sure the second workday, when you left home angrily without even fighting her.

The boy sent me some texts on WhatsApp explaining that she wants to collect a phone from my wife blahblahblah, I never replied the text, the boy called me twice on the second day and I didn't pick, my wife told me that the boy saw her face look angry and that's why he asked what was wrong with her and she explained to him, she told me that was why he was texting me.

Yesterday, I found out that the same boy still calls my wife and my wife calls him too, when I raised the issue again she flair up telling me the boy was calling him to ask her welfare.
What is confusing is that the first time they talk different things, why would a reasonable guy continues calling her after he knew it caused fight the first time, why would she continue too when she knows that it's threatening her marriage.

My wife has been denying me sex for 3 months, tell me if that's possible for a girl who loves to Bleep.

My wife has a child for me and she has been supportive financially, she does house chores everything, but she had betrayed me twice before, one was cheating, the other she stole money coniving with my cousins at my former business.

Please somebody advise me what to do.


Till now I still chat some of my married female course mates no strings attached

Just investigate properly
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Ayodeeji(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
My brother, you need to calm down and trust God to help you at such a time like this.
You need to Invite Jesus into your home as there is no storm in life that He cannot calm. He however listens to those that invite him. John3:16
However, the first thing you need to do is to have an heart to heart talk with her( when you are not angry).The target of Satan this last days is against family. There are 3 major issues in marriage that the enemy looks for loophole in among couple which are. 1. Communication 2. Sex. 3. Finance
My candid advice is for you to get a Godly counsel (Your pastor or any known practising christian around you)
Furthermore, marriage is a union of 2 forgivers and it's totally different from the film you watch on television nowadays.
Thank you.

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by betshopagent(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
PlayMaker14:
I hereby ordain you as a FULL GROWN SIMP.


Damn, you're a complete weakling.
naija my pipul.una no dey ever dull. grin
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by Sureboyy(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.
I really don't even get why some people stay with unfaithful partner
Is it that they are scared to leave of what?
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by emee701(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
Godmother:
The worst thing you can do is bring your marriage issue onto nairaland. By the time these small, small, unmarried folks with very little marriage experience finish with it, you'll be divorced, bitter, and full of regrets.
Olosho stfu. You are just like his wife
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by TooMuchSense1(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
Romanoff:
Your suspicion is based on previous trust broken and I know too well that trust once broken cannot be put together like before.

Before you keep confronting her, have evidence, calls aren't enough, the calls could be innocent and really work related.

Sha check her phone to set your mind at ease.

Una wey dey stay with unfaithful partner, the Lord is your strength o.
Romanoff the Relationship Expert grin grin. When it comes to relationship matters, your comments are always very sensible.
Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by AyeMoJuba: 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2022
Adun27:


We were not married when she cheated

This is not an excuse to exonerate her as a cheat
You married a slut and she can never change because sluts never change.

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Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by victorazy(m): 6:26pm On Nov 14, 2022
omotoshodontee1:
the boy dick is sweeter Dan urs,she now find sexual pleasure from him..ur marriage is in big mess cos once a girl is dickmatized,nah only God fit undicmatized her...sorry bro

U no get conscience i swey

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