Tunagee:


I wonder why people are still getting married, and i keep saying this: ''women are always the achitect of any destroyed marriage'' anyone can quote me. Very gullible being. So she has to be told that what she is doing is wrong?she does not have respect for the guy at all.
Her heart is with the guy, so poster carry your cross oooo!
Uncle poster, let her fall into this trap the devil has set for her like her ancestor eve. Then tell her off your marriage.

I had to go check Google to ascertain the number of years in a decade. 25 good years faa

This your fable sweet and long like an India documentary

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

U Neva tire fr her pusssy?

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

sorry bro.

Am d childhood friend bangging ur wife

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Don't throw her out... things like this is normal to happen sometimes in marriage...

Your job is to keep eye on her for now... make sure she's completely free from this guy...
But make sure you tell her if this continues then she may need to find another husband

But your wife na old woman now, someone that has been married for 25yrs, probably in her late forties. Even that her mate, will be 50 yrs or more. Is it now that she is looking for love elsewhere, after how many years? Better call her to order and make her stop that illicit affair.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

mehnn it was just a matter of time your wife slept with the guy, do you still Bleep your wife and take her out?

Tell your children in her presence... Let them know how wicked and stupid their mother is

You are one of those men who take women pretences serious. Every woman has ashawo vibes, be the man to unlock hers (seems you have failed here)

Are you the one that opened the business for your wife? Begin to cut her money supply and withdraw the money in her hands. She needs to be starved of funds, before she uses your money to maintain and f..... Kkkk another man.

Lastly, you married a foolish woman. Learn to be resolute with her because the only language stvvpid people understand is strictness and meanness.

For you to type this at 3:44am shows how pained you're.

If you read ubanja's post about how good girls fall for bad boys, you'll understand better.

Every girl has both a good side and a bad side.
This knowledge unfortunately has made me explore the bad sides of most females both physically and online.

Many ladies that appear good are very bad inside, they're just waiting for a bad guy to touch them and make them express themselves.

I know this from experience, many ladies have told me that I am a bad guy but they can't leave me because their boyfriends is very boring and I am very exciting.

After a while, marriage will get boring with time. The bad boys will exploit this if you're not watchful and vigilant especially over your wife.

It's a very crazy cycle and I pray you don't experience it, only few ladies, very few ladies are chaste up to 70%. You see the remaining, they're either just pretending or they don't have the opportunity to express themselves yet!!

Haaaa, my Mom's friend a good and virtuous woman, one who taught many the way of God and married a virgin even almost fell into the trap, from that moment I knew that no one can be 100% tested and trusted.

Many ladies message me about how bad some of their boyfriends treat them and yet they can't still leave them! And the simple reason is because their bad side is resonating with the bad side of the bad guy.

Most ladies just want to catch fun and vibe, they follow their feelings more than their logic.

It's very funny how once, I was chatting with my ex and she was requesting for a breakup or a space and within five minutes, she was requesting I updated my Facebook profile to show that I am in a relationship with her, this was someone requesting for a breakup few minutes ago. To test my theory, I updated my profile to show that I'm in a relationship with her only for her to tell me that she can't confirm the relationship because she's scared and that she didn't want some of her friends to mock her that the relationship wouldn't work bla bla bla. This makes me to understand to an extent that most ladies don't know what they want!

Haaa, ladies don't know what they want most times, as a man, you're the driver! When I was still a top notch bad boy, I can video a very "SU" sister, we will have fellowship or devotion together, study the word of God and even pray together for like two/three hours only for me to turn the conversation sexual and the lady will be moaning for me on phone. Is this not the lady that was fired up praying few moments ago?? I have done this with more than 100 ladies who claim to be sexual Puritans many of them are virgins but with the right tools, any lady can become vulnerable to you! I have done some really crazy things in the past but thank God I am repented now.

Good ladies find it exciting to fix bad guys, it turns them on. Ladies will claim they don't fight over men, they want to be the only one but all ladies I have dated have always asked me, "how are your concubines, my rivals doing"? Some have even confessed to me that I like it as you're baba for the girls, they'll say, I hate a guy that has multiple girlfriends but I like you that have many girls around you! Does that not show that ladies are confused?

Marrying is tough job. Fortunately for me, my parents are very opened, they've passed through many stages in their marriage and it makes me wow at how opened such people are towards each other! Anyone in the house can access their phones at any time, they talk about sex freely and liberally, they'll tell you the right path and still tell you that you can choose the wrong path but can you bear the consequences? They're marriage counsellors and they paint and give scenarios of marriage situations they face everytime. They're open about their strength and weaknesses. They make marriage so sweet and interesting!

The solution for you Op is to be a bad boy to your wife! Women love to hear bad things especially if it's coming from a man they Love.

I hope this my long write up helps someone. Thank you.

Also, Op can you say confidently that you've been faithful to your wife for 25years you've been together?

Did you once flirt with other ladies?
Did you once have an extramarital affairs?

A faithful man is hard to find, just like a virtuous wife is hard to find too.

We all blame women when they do wrong, what about the men that do much worse?


Op, your wife is confused and doesn't know why she is behaving irrationally, guide her and wake her up from her fantasy!

Haaa, ladies love fantasy more than reality.
Fantasy, emotions, excitement, ecstasy! All these unleash the bad side of women.

Women, ah women, necessary evils, beautiful yet deadly, enchanting yet disastrous. The onus is on you to save yourself.

Have a wonderful day ahead.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Please throw her out. .

No amount of commitment from you as a man will ever stop a woman from chasing her carnal desires.

Only God knows how many times she must have imagined the other guy's face whenever you both had sex.

Only God knows how many times she must have masturbated to the thought of him licking and tweaking her nipples.

Her age doesn't matter at this point. All she's thinking of is having another man who isn't her husband, ram her old 'cobwebbed' pusssy into a useless state.

She craves it and she'll definitely get it.

Divorce her. No other option. Your wife is a terrible person who thinks you're stupid and unworthy of respect. If you don't divorce her then she's right.

The earlier you realize that all 9ja girls are Oloshio, the better for you!

Throw the fool out immediately

Wow
2½ decade is something
Old flame never die
Well, do anything that makes you happy and give you peace of mind

Try and put an end to their conversation, to your capacity though. Set up investigation from different angle so as to catch her red hand if she doesn't desist from her evil act. It is important you pay attention to her every move so that she will not conspire with the man to kill you when she is fully involve with the man.

You have made a mistake marrying a woman with heavy social media presence.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her in the market or on Facebook.

Marry a virgin woman and enjoy your home.

Do otherwise and train another man's child.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures. The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem). So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

The guy have fvcked her before. He will fvck her again whether Tinubu wins or not.

You're a fool for marrying a woman you did not disvirgin.

Divorce her and take your children for DNA test.

Your wife is already deep in the lust game, its even bad that she doesn't really see anything wrong in what she's doing. The bitter truth is, whatever approach you take here she'll still bleep the son of man. Sit and think about any action you'll take critically donot act on the heat of the moment. My 2kobo.

Stop am sharp sharp

If someone has enjoyed the good part of a woman as the OP has done 20+ years! I do not expect such a person to be getting worked up over anything again. Women are not meant to be enjoyed forever!

Noted.

Throw her out na, make she cry like this

Slap her , some thing will reset some where upstairs.

Urheadmaster:


This your story sweet and long like an India film.










I can't wait to read the part 2 .

lol �

dontrulee:
For you to type this at 3:44am shows how pained you're.

If you read ubanja's post about how good girls fall for bad boys, you'll understand better.

Every girl has both a good side and a bad side.
This knowledge unfortunately has made me explore the bad sides of most females both physically and online.

Many ladies that appear good are very bad inside, they're just waiting for a bad guy to touch them and make them express themselves.

I know this from experience, many ladies have told me that I am a bad guy but they can't leave me because their boyfriends is very boring and I am very exciting.

After a while, marriage will get boring with time. The bad boys will exploit this if you're not watchful and vigilant especially over your wife.

It's a very crazy cycle and I pray you don't experience it, only few ladies, very few ladies are chaste up to 70%. You see the remaining, they're either just pretending or they don't have the opportunity to express themselves yet!!

Haaaa, my Mom's friend a good and virtuous woman, one who taught many the way of God and married a virgin even almost fell into the trap, from that moment I knew that no one can be 100% tested and trusted.

Many ladies message me about how bad some of their boyfriends treat them and yet they can't still leave them! And the simple reason is because their bad side is resonating with the bad side of the bad guy.

Most ladies just want to catch fun and vibe, they follow their feelings more than their logic.

It's very funny how once, I was chatting with my ex and she was requesting for a breakup or a space and within five minutes, she was requesting I updated my Facebook profile to show that I am in a relationship with her, this was someone requesting for a breakup few minutes ago. To test my theory, I updated my profile to show that I'm in a relationship with her only for her to tell me that she can't confirm the relationship because she's scared and that she didn't want some of her friends to mock her that the relationship wouldn't work bla bla bla. This makes me to understand to an extent that most ladies don't know what they want!

Haaa, ladies don't know what they want most times, as a man, you're the driver! When I was still a top notch bad boy, I can video a very "SU" sister, we will have fellowship or devotion together, study the word of God and even pray together for like two/three hours only for me to turn the conversation sexual and the lady will be moaning for me on phone. Is this not the lady that was fired up praying few moments ago?? I have done this with more than 100 ladies who claim to be sexual Puritans many of them are virgins but with the right tools, any lady can become vulnerable to you! I have done some really crazy things in the past but thank God I am repented now.

Good ladies find it exciting to fix bad guys, it turns them on. Ladies will claim they don't fight over men, they want to be the only one but all ladies I have dated have always asked me, "how are your concubines, my rivals doing"? Some have even confessed to me that I like it as you're baba for the girls, they'll say, I hate a guy that has multiple girlfriends but I like you that have many girls around you! Does that not show that ladies are confused?

Marrying is tough job. Fortunately for me, my parents are very opened, they've passed through many stages in their marriage and it makes me wow at how opened such people are towards each other! Anyone in the house can access their phones at any time, they talk about sex freely and liberally, they'll tell you the right path and still tell you that you can choose the wrong path but can you bear the consequences? They're marriage counsellors and they paint and give scenarios of marriage situations they face everytime. They're open about their strength and weaknesses. They make marriage so sweet and interesting!

The solution for you Op is to be a bad boy to your wife! Women love to hear bad things especially if it's coming from a man they Love.

I hope this my long write up helps someone. Thank you.

Well said although I abhor that institution called marriage with a passion.

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Which lucrative business is your wife into?

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post


I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

WELL that will be your decision, not for strangers to decide for you......your wife finds the man exciting.
In all you do, once u find that your wife is in love with another man(and u are sure about it), just leave before they conspire to outsmart you and hurt you.......

Wapgod:

Which lucrative business is your wife into?

Why you dey ask. You wan go rob dem?