| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Abokisulay(m): 8:18am On Nov 26, 2022 |
Cut her lose for your sanity, at that stage in ur life you need Peace of mind. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by immortalcrown(m): 8:31am On Nov 26, 2022 |
Joeyfizzo:
wat are u saying...a colleague of mine do send me porn without prior notice...he just sends it n laugh ... It doesn't mean I'm questionable. If your marriage has lasted for more than 2 decades and you are not a pervert, you will stop your friend from sending you porns and you will immediately delete the porn. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Prince001(m): 9:17am On Nov 26, 2022 |
immortalcrown:
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?
This story is not complete. Show your wife this post and let her tell her side of the story. Then, I can say something. I say this because I wonder what led to your friend sending you porn, you that have spent more than 2 decades in marriage. This seems to be a case of a pot calling a kettle black.
He that comes to equity should come with clean hands. What? A guy sent him porn not a lady. Is it a crime to watch porn? But its a crime if someone's wife sending that to her "lost friend" Definitely the wife want to try and cheat but still feeling kind of guilty about carrying it out. According to ur comment u are Simp but there's still time for u to be a born again alpha male!!!! |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by immortalcrown(m): 9:21am On Nov 26, 2022 |
Prince001:
What? A guy sent him porn not a lady. Is it a crime to watch porn? But its a crime if someone's wife sending that to her "lost friend"
Definitely the wife want to try and cheat but still feeling kind of guilty about carrying it out. According to ur comment u are Simp but there's still time for u to be a born again alpha male!!!! Porn is porn. It doesn't matter the gender of the sender and the gender of the recipient. What kind of man that has spent more than 2 decades in marriage will be welcoming porns from a friend? Apparently, he is doing the same thing he blames the wife for. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by AlphaTaikun: 9:56am On Nov 26, 2022 |
chachanga:
Quarrel openly...
Get family, Church etc involved...
Make sure you have witnesses.
Don't accept her apologies privately. Cheating spouses and manipulative partners are most happy when they're able to take you through cycles of "private-hurt/private-apology" when caught because it hides their guilt, shame and lays foundation for them to continue. It makes them believe they can easily manage or handle you. You don't want to be handled by a manipulative narcissistic cheat.
Get marital counseling where necessary.... You'll be shocked what you'll hear. But committing to the process will yield great results for you.
Do what you can to re-spice your marriage after all your making up. Re-ignite your love, up your dicck game.
It's 2 and half decades of beautiful memories you've made together... Don't let teenagers here tell you to throw her away.
Nicely put. My exact line of thinking. Never accept a private apology from a cheating woman who has been secretly sexting or sharing an erotic vid in this real or imagined story. The man has to work on his inner game too and be creatively mysterious because a rut or predictability usually sets in after just 1 to 5 years of marriage NOT to talk of 25 years of marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by palsenator(m): 10:13am On Nov 26, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
If you are the real person in this scenario, then you are stupid for posting this serious issues for kids to comment on. Most people that comment on NL are admission seekers and ain't matured. Some of these kids are not older than your first child. By now you should be able to read sincerity from the body language of your wife after many decades together. If she's really sorry, why not forgive and help her to manage the situation after all , you have seen any reason to believe they had sexual contact. Find a reason to forgive and move on and if you can't , in your best interest, divorce her. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by MansoryMX(m): 10:13am On Nov 26, 2022 |
jagtinic:
So you follow your wife everywhere? If she gets a man's number and save it with a female name. Do not think you have it handled. That wife you think you have cornered will just be laughing at you with her boyfriend. Or maybe you have her chained in her a garage.
First of all I don’t go about policing my spouse and stop talking like a sissy or kid. My spouse has a business and she engaged with both male and female on a daily basis. Secondly why will a man walked up to a married woman and asked her for her number if he isn’t foolish? Lastly no reasonable married woman who is faithful to her husband will do such mistake. Lastly, married people set boundaries and principles for each other to follow in order to protect their marriage. You won’t understand because you are not yet matured. In the case of this person, he had every opportunity to avert the issue even before it began but choose to display negligence in his part as her husband so I blame him for his woes. A lot of married couple have this issues because they pay little or no attention to it. One doesn’t necessarily need of police or monitor their spouse. Just tell your spouse your do and don’t. It’s is that simple. Why will a fellow man be calling your wife regularly, you knew from the on set and you kept quiet? Except the Op is not giving us the full story if him and his wife are separated but still living together. It just doesn’t make sense. And there is the porn thing. That’s absolutely disgusting for me! Sharing porn video to your wife you got from your friend. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by balarabe01(m): 10:28am On Nov 26, 2022 |
Get a sidechick, impregnate her and bring her into the house, thank me later. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by ORIAYO70(m): 11:00am On Nov 26, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
If u truly lover her forgive her... She was just spicing up her life.. but congratulations to you.. you discovered earlier... She was just been carried away by sch friend fantasies.. forgive her n give stern warning, bro still keep alert. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Peacefulwarlord: 11:25am On Nov 26, 2022 |
NEVER FORGIVE a cheating woman. She begged because she was caught, not because she feels bad. She is will continue with the act. Humans are habitual beings. My advise is to send her packing, I want to assume that you have children already, focus on yourself and your children(run a DNA test) I know over 2 decades is a long time, but some decisions need to be made for your own good. If care is taken, she will kill you. bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Fantazy(m): 3:03pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
For almost 3 decades of marriage you both should be in your 50s (matured in marriage) if not more than, and this is happening. I'm speechless! |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by livebullet(m): 3:47pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
TheRareGem1:
Two and half decades is such a long time. Try and manage the situation for the sake of your children. It hurts really but your wife is your wife.
Na Dem be this |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by etoete77: 3:57pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Just be patient give her sometime |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Wapgod(m): 3:58pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Firstcitizen:
Why you dey ask. You wan go rob dem?  No, Somebody fit go into the business |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by GindoX(m): 4:12pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Hmmm, she promised not to repeat such... Free her and observe.. if it repeat, you know what to do. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Kingsmm55: 4:15pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Guy...my man throw her out...once the seed of sexual deceit is planted.. It must germinate... |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Munzy14(m): 6:05pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
I am trying to figure out which Tribe named "Vagina" ToTo When you give room for rubbish, It will give way for more rubbish. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Munzy14(m): 6:15pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
So you and your colleague, na Mojo una dey send to eachother? If he send you preachings of Joshua Selman you no go accept?  25yrs in marriage and you and your wife be acting like secondary school bf/gf that are tired of eachother..  Your wife is your Woman, and mother of your kids..Discipline her in your bedroom with your local government , and please be a little bit naughty with those dirty vulgar words  In case you dey Churchill whatsaap group, arrange some Odogwu bitters.. Odogwu must act like a man..Firm and rigid. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 26, 2022 |
Ransomware:
Bro. I am not critisizing the advice at least not in total. The part about public opinion or public shame has more to do with sympathy rather than a solution for his marriage. In Nigeria we hold on to what society thinks that we forget our well-being, just to have witnesses so that tomorrow, they won't say I am a bad man.
But let's view it this way. If his objective is to fix his marriage, what will happen to his wife's image and self dignity when the dust settles and they are back all lovey dovey. U think those witnesses will not use that against him and his wife one day? He may have forgiven and moved on but the town will always use them as a bad example,Unless he has no intention of saving the marriage, then he can call the whole town and disgrace the woman as well as bring up questions of his inadequacies, true or not.
Marriage is not a contract, it is a convanant between 2 people with ONLY God as the witness. 2 of them should go to the deepest part of their house, sit as close the can to mother earth and speak to each other, not yelling, not disgracing each other or trying to win an argument.
The woman should be honest as well as the man. This is a marriage of more than 20 years. If that woman was always like that, he would have seen this a long time ago.
And if they man has always been trading porn with his friends, the woman would have found it out as well as activities that follow porn addiction. Both of them have been seeking adventures both of them are bored with the cyclic nature of marriage unfortunately for her, she was the one that was caught.
FYI, I am not here to critique anyone. I am just try to let the man see from a different perspective. I however see his maturity with the way he asked the man not to throw away his marriage. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Patriotsleague: 12:59am On Nov 27, 2022 |
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Shigo1390: 8:33am On Nov 27, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Slap her like 40 times her brain will reset..... |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by loffyloffy: 9:56am On Nov 27, 2022 |
You said some gifts you kept in the house, your wife gave it out to this do called friend from primary or secondary school? How? Do you mean they have actually meet in Person?
If that is the case, how can you now have a guarantee that they have not had slept together?
Your wife is weak, and she has been either consciously or unconsciously seduced by this old friend..Your laid back approach to the whole issue, just made it easy.
I would not say leave your wife, No..if she is sincere about stopping the interaction and you give her closer attention going forward..the situation is quite redeemable..
She needs more adventure than she is getting from you at the moment, that may be a reason why she fell into this trap |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by onome2013: 10:56am On Nov 27, 2022 |
THE EARLIER YOU TERMINATE THE FRIENDSHIP THE BETTER FOR YOUR FUTURE, IF NOT, YOU WILL REGRET THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. SUMMON HER TO A VERY CRUCIAL FAMILY MEETING CONSISTING OF BOTH FAMILIES AND PLAY THE BALL OUT OF YOUR COURT FOR THEM TO DRILL HER TRADITIONALLY AND CUT OFF THE CANCER THAT WANT TO DAMAGE YOUR MARRIAGE. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 12:51pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
duduade16:
Na him disvirgine her any time dey meet dey will Bleep, ladies don't use to forget the experience Any man who disvirgin her will always get cookie |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 12:53pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
motionarena:
sorry bro.
Am d childhood friend bangging ur wife  Hahahahhahah please |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 1:08pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
dontrulee:
Also, Op can you say confidently that you've been faithful to your wife for 25years you've been together?
Did you once flirt with other ladies?
Did you once have an extramarital affairs?
A faithful man is hard to find, just like a virtuous wife is hard to find too.
We all blame women when they do wrong, what about the men that do much worse?
Op, your wife is confused and doesn't know why she is behaving irrationally, guide her and wake her up from her fantasy!
Haaa, ladies love fantasy more than reality.
Fantasy, emotions, excitement, ecstasy! All these unleash the bad side of women.
Women, ah women, necessary evils, beautiful yet deadly, enchanting yet disastrous. The onus is on you to save yourself.
Have a wonderful day ahead. This is true a Man who unluck the bad side of a woman will always own her |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 1:15pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
COOL10:
No amount of commitment from you as a man will ever stop a woman from chasing her carnal desires.
Only God knows how many times she must have imagined the other guy's face whenever you both had sex.
Only God knows how many times she must have masturbated to the thought of him licking and tweaking her nipples.
Her age doesn't matter at this point. All she's thinking of is having another man who isn't her husband, ram her old 'cobwebbed' pusssy into a useless state.
She craves it and she'll definitely get it.
Wow how can someone prevent that from happening |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by COOL10(m): 3:05pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Hassanmaye:
Wow how can someone prevent that from happening What exactly? |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 3:07pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
COOL10:
What exactly? Preventing wives from having fun with bad boys |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by COOL10(m): 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Hassanmaye:
Preventing wives from having fun with bad boys You can't. |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Hassanmaye(m): 4:13pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Limaqueen98: 11:40pm On Nov 30, 2022 |
advanceDNA:
Limaqueen98 come and carry one of ur people, later u will say only men cheat ...women are saints lol this type is definitely not my people I de fear to carry this one |
