apostle96:
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Toks2008:
I have read stories of several guys who come online to wail after a lady they spent so much for dumps or cheats on them and one begins to wonder if these guys expect the ladies in question to sign away their lives to them because they spent on them...

So I'm here to give this straight up advice to guys... if you have not reached the level of maturity where you are able to spend on a lady or give her money or anything at all and still expect her to dump you without having regrets... Please keep your money or material gifts to yourself.

Spending on a lady is your choice, and no matter what you do for any lady, she can still dump you for another man.

Be wise.

Toks2008:
I have read stories of several guys who come online to wail after a lady they spent so much for dumps or cheats on them and one begins to wonder if these guys expect the ladies in question to sign away their lives to them because they spent on them...

So I'm here to give this straight up advice to guys... if you have not reached the level of maturity where you are able to spend on a lady or give her money or anything at all and still expect her to dump you without having regrets... Please keep your money or material gifts to yourself...or better still, give what you can afford to lose.

Spending on a lady is your choice, and no matter what you do for any lady, she can still dump you for another man.

Be wise.

rooy:
Mr Tokunbo, you're very correct.

Until these guys discipline themselves that their spending doesn't/shouldn't attract perpetual loyalty, they'll keep getting dumped repeatedly, and heartbroken ceaselessly.

She stays or go, her choice regardless of how much he spent. And whether he, the spender choose to stay or leave after investing, is his choice.

Their expectations are too tight that they seek after perpetual loyalty until they get burned.

Toks2008:
It is not uncommon to hear stories of guys lamenting their investment in a lady, only to be met with betrayal or abandonment. It raises the question: do these guys expect loyalty in return for their financial contributions?

Firstly, it's essential to acknowledge that relationships are complex webs of emotions, expectations, and individual desires. While financial gestures can certainly strengthen bonds and express care, they should never serve as a bargaining chip for loyalty or devotion.

Furthermore, true emotional maturity entails the ability to give without attaching strings or expectations. If you find yourself giving with the anticipation of reciprocation, it may be a sign that you're not yet ready to navigate the nuances of relationships.

Here's a straightforward piece of advice for guys: If you're not emotionally mature enough to handle the possibility of being let down after showering a lady with gifts, money or any form of sacrifice, it might be wise to rethink your approach. Consider keeping your resources to yourself, or only give what you're comfortable losing.

Remember, the decision to spend on a lady is entirely yours, but it's essential to recognize that no amount of generosity can guarantee a lady's loyalty. Ultimately, she may still choose to move on to someone else.

Stay wise