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Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 9:07am On Dec 08, 2022 |
He can be jailed, juvenile prison; rape case, he will be jailed. Promotions: |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by lendahand(m): 9:27am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:don't act when you're mad. Take time and relocate elsewhere to heal but don't divorce her because you will regret it. Talk things out with her afterwards and make her know she lost your trust to an extent but I repeat DO NOT divorce her. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Aurelius1(m): 9:50am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:Please keep the house updated. May the Lord God give you and your baby the strength to overcome this trying time. I feel like crying for the little girl. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 08, 2022 |
This is the deepest shiit i've read on Nl. A two year old? Dear op, you did well by arresting that woman you called a wife. It crazy how women are selective when it comes to accountability. So because the rapist is her brother, she covered it up and foolishly confided in one idiotic prophetess with a loud mouth. She chose her brother over her daughter ! Chose her prophetess over you! Who does that? I hope other women will learn from this. Please arrest the 14 year old too even the mother join. Talo ni family radarada I'm so pissed right now! 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Aurelius1(m): 9:56am On Dec 08, 2022 |
hifocus:Are you blaming the op because his daughter got raped? What's your point exactly? |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Freemasonry: 10:04am On Dec 08, 2022 |
I understand how angry you must be, and your anger is justified. However, remember that your wife is also traumatized even more than you. First her beloved daughter is abused by her own flesh and blood, her own brother gives her the unkindest cut and family ties forces her not to punish him as he deserves, lastly; she's forced to hide this from you not because she doesn't trust you, but because of the sordidness of the whole situation. By your own admission, she has lost weight. A testament to her inner turmoil and distress. This matter has been eating her up, and when she was almost bursting open had to confide in someone, just to gain clarity and consolation. Bros, it is not your wife's fault that her brother defiled your daughter, her only offense is keeping it from you. Now let me ask you, if the situation were reversed, would you have acted differently, or would you be tempted or persuaded to grieve quietly and nurse your child? When you answer these questions honestly, you'll gain the clarity that you seek. PS: At your earliest convenience, get that little monster arrested and commited to a juvenile home. Also get someone to give him a proper arse whooping for good measure. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by diogo23: 10:09am On Dec 08, 2022 |
STARGREEN:Really? Shut up my friend |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by diogo23: 10:10am On Dec 08, 2022 |
DaInferno:For hiding it from him |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by jimmychang: 10:12am On Dec 08, 2022 |
I was angry when I first commented.OP I think your wife has suffered enough in jail already.Go and release her.Then go to the village and Bleep shit up or expose or arrest the boy and don't ever contact them,cut them off as a form of punishment and ask your wife to choose between her extended family and her baby. Imagine if you are not alive that is how your baby girl would be destroyed.I mean protect your family more now.Your wife made a mistake at least she has seen you are not someone to joked with.Just to have a stable family for your daughter don't divorce her.If she moves mad later you can divorce her.Sir but dint trust her. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by syntekelite(m): 10:17am On Dec 08, 2022 |
@clathrin@,mens83,@ibechris...are you guys for real...... Oh boy.. see nairalanders with diff epistles that makes no iota of sense,some even claiming wise ones all to sound woke.. A woman can spite her own child to protect a future killer/sexual predator. She didnt even bother to take her child for help both psychologically and medically. She came back to the same house and lived with the father of the child for weeks and kept mum, meanwhile she would have had sex with her husband,cuddled,cooked his favourite food during the same period-(shows a demonic heart). During holidays her husband can unknowingly take same child to the village of the demonic rapist so her daughter can be raped again and again. The womans silence is demonic spiritually and in criminal law she is an accomplice together with her mother.. She has destroyed every atom of trust,self confidence and happiness her daughter has,except the father quickly changes things around.. Imagine someone even said she lost weight cos she felt bad... Her 2 years old daughter for crying out loud..... My advice for you op.. bail her immediately but never sleep under the same roof with her ever,and in the village go with armed military men to her house...never go alone nor let them know where you will sleep.. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by edunaragold(f): 10:24am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:this case tire me, because my case is similar to mine, |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Suunnn(f): 10:26am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:Devastating it is in every aspect and all ratification Please try to bail your wife i know how you feel and think and it is indeed disappointing of her, bail her maybe not a divorce but give her a new treat of discipline i mean with actions that would not only give her every reason to judge rightful also do and act rightful Your wife did not do well not telling it to you no matter what in as much as you raised the child together, she should have done that somehow someway. She wanted covering up for her brother i understand but should have also disciplined him her own self at least, because there is no how you would hear of it and knowing she punished him as well still go on to inflict more punishments. Somehow you would not have been very upset, it would have been adjusted.. What if that little child tend to grow with "my mum's younger brother raped me and there was nothing she did about it"? That child would have inner hatred for her mum i tell you... She did wrong and very very wrong, please treat your child take great care of her too.... Contact me for your academic assignment, articles,, research works,,, thesis. WhatsApp Me.. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by ezugegere(m): 10:29am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Your wife erred by not telling you. But this is probably because because she knows your temperament. Putting your wife in jail for more than 24hrs without trial is WRONG and AGAINST the law. If care is not taking, you may live to regret your action. That is why you should not act hastily when you're angry. If I were you, I would not arrest my wife; It is the boy that I would deal with, and mercilessly. Your wife is also a victim as much as you are. WORK ON YOUR TEMPERAMENT SO THAT YOUR CLOSE ONES WILL NOT BE SCARED TO OPEN UP TO YOU IN THE FUTURE. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by co787: 10:32am On Dec 08, 2022 |
lendahand: Yes I am so angry now I wish i had the power to take the law with my own hands I would have gone to nnewi to cut that useless boy penis then shot him and put the useless penis inside his mouth but i am trying to be calm because I want the law to do its work like I said earlier i will not save the marriage it is already over all I want is justice for my baby girl 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Rajahbite(m): 10:44am On Dec 08, 2022 |
You took the right and very good step by arresting your wife. It shouldn't end there, do all you can for the sake of your daughter to get your mother-in-law and your brother-in-law arrested too. Make sure to prosecute them and let justice take it's course. Rape in any form should not be condoned. SAY NO TO RAPE ! ! ! 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Glowqueen3(f): 10:44am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Very nonesense advice from you. Who knows if her brother raped the little girl more than once. My advise to him is non of your business,l advised him,It's up to him to take it or leave it. You are not supposed to say it's a nonsense advice at all. it is your type that wouldn't advice the Op at all but go around the forum tackling those who have advice to give.Mtchew. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by cayorday89(m): 11:30am On Dec 08, 2022 |
The way everything pan out is understandable except the woman foolishly confiding in a prophetess who will only use her to shine either in form of fake prophecy or telling people she saw the vision and made the woman tell her when she asked. Op, I honestly don't know what to advice you concerning your marriage but that 14 year old boy needs to be severely dealt with as that is not his first time and let him know there are consequences for all actions which his mother and sister are not ensuring. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Meedass(m): 11:37am On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:honestly I feel your wife has posted about this before.. it feels like I have read a post about this. Anyways your wife knows how you would react and this she decided to keep it away from you which was very wrong of her .. and she is over protective of her brother!! You should pay close attention to your daughter.. let your anger be towards the boy, and find a way to fix your marriage!! Marrying again will be hard if you end it all 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Timantech(m): 11:37am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Release her from the police with the following instructions, arrest and charge your brother to court for rape because that boy will keep raping other girls till the day he dies so the prison is a better place for him.. Then forgive your wife and heal up. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Justbehave(m): 12:24pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
ibechris:This one can never reason well. Look at the trash he wrote. I'm sorry for men that are being fed by the wife's like this ibechris. Shame on you all. Common sense did not ell you that she would have also hidden the truth from her husband if the baby had died. Chai. Tueh for simps and sissies like you. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by adontcare(f): 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
That's how my husband younger bro defiled my 2 yrs old daughter. My husband refused to send his brother away reason is that he is their only breadwinner and must take care of his 9 other siblings and parents. The sisters and brothers live with us. That's how I moved out from the house oo. Ah. I had two girls then. Later we reconciled and I had a male child now. All his siblings hate me because I asked my husband to send the boy away. Na curse I lay on all of them oo. Now my girl is 12 now and none of them are living with us again. Their lives is nothing to write home about. Evil people 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by NigerianAngelo(m): 12:48pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787: Arrest the brother. Leave your wife. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Aguogba(m): 12:53pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:Sorry I didn't know the age. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by supernova96(m): 1:04pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
How can you say his wife did the right thing by not telling him. So are you more concernedabout your brother or your daughter. The wife not telling him was the beginningof the problem. If my wife tries this kind of thing,the marriage is over.this is a 2 years old child we are talking about. Someone who cannot defend herself. Let's not even get into the prophetess angle,that part is another nonsense. Kreddy: |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Tegabadguy(m): 1:17pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
co787:pls 4give her |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by BRATISLAVA: 1:19pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
spartachico: @bolded could be the case here Coupled with silly traditions concerning child abuse |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by jimmychang: 1:20pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
supernova96: The guy na rapist |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by supernova96(m): 1:24pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Some kind comments I am reading here is very disappointing. A 2 years old girl was raped,the mother of the girl covered it up and the father had to hear from outside sources and some of you are saying forgive and heal?? For a 2 years old innocent child Have you met a 2 year old recently? Do you see the innocence in their eyes? What sort of a parent would you be if you can cover up this atrocity?? OP I am so sorry your daughter had to experience this,please deal with all involved appropriately, forgiveness is for God not for you,yours is to deal with the culprits. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by mightykay(m): 1:34pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
When anger and arrogance meet together inside an immatured man that has small change, this is the resultant effect. The OP should be below 30s or very early 30s, an autocratic, self centered and very pompous but reasonably financially stable husband. Except for money, no woman should pray for such a man as husband. What happened was terrible and horrible and nobody wishes it for his enemies but when something terrible like this happens that's when ur real characters will come out. WHY DID U ARREST UR WIFE? WHY? I MEAN WHY? Oh! because she didn't tell u right? That was the only offense she committed, this also shows u re insensitive to the emotional trauma ur wife has bn tru, honestly u er not fit to be a husband with this act of urs. Ve u asked urself why u er not told? Then I will tell u now 1. Because u er not a friend to ur wife, u er egocentric, ego freaky and control freak man cos if u er intimate with ur wife she will not hold such sensitive issue for long before telling u. Ur wife is quite wrong for not telling u but don't use sledgehammer to kill mosquito, the arrest was unwarranted. LET ME TELL U THIS: (1)in the next 5 years, u will regret arresting and divoicing ur wife. (2) in the next 15 years ur daughter u er seeking justice for will be disappointed in u and regret u as her father cos of ur today's action for denying her to enjoy the motherly love and care and u let her face traumatic situation in the hand of strange woman that will be worse In summary of this epistle is that ur wife doesn't offend u, but u er the one that is too harsh to be told everything that happens around u cos she fears u which is not gud in marriage. Though u er not the only one having this extreme control freak characters. U can do anything to that animal that did this horrible thing but arresting and divoicing ur wife don't make sense at all. THE ONLY ADVICE I VE FOR U: Try to work on urself to be a better husband and a friend to ur next wife. Thanks I'm expecting ur blacklash |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by smyo(m): 1:38pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Divorcing your wife shouldn't be an option instead arrest his brother in question so he can face the law. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Riscawendy(f): 1:52pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Your wife knew the kind of man you are that was why she didn't tell you. Accept it or not, If she had told you, you wouldn't have reacted differently. There's an adage in Igbo that say " obughi ihe Nile nwanyi huru ka ona Koro diya" meaning ( ls not everything that a woman sees that she tells her husband) Oga l know you are pained but please go and release your wife from prison. As for the divorce don't even think of it, your daughter have been sexually abused at this age and you want to also seperate her from her mother, this will definitely not end well for her. Is okay to the angry but time heals every wound. |
Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by Klass99(f): 1:53pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
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