dammytex:

Uhmmm, I think it depends on what you want from the girl. So, I'll assume you are referring to a serious relationship.

Well, this is 21st century, so procedures don't follow the medieval pattern anymore.
It starts with friendship of course. I can only take it further with a girl that's my friend. In friendship, I know a lot already about her. We discuss about our problems, future plans, career etc. While being friends, I can have good insight about her background and expectations.

I fairness, I can tell if we can take it a step further towards relationship or not. I can never marry a stranger. In fact friendship is a true test of genuine interest. I can only marry my female friend.

To answer your question, I think it might take months. Time is also a good test of affection.

dipo+:

Quite true. It also depends on how much time I have for the lady and vice-versa. If the situation isn't favourable time-wise, i may not ask her our even if i have the intention to. All in all, I prefer to take my time to know her before asking her out and we may not even be friends as yet, as long as I think I have spent some valuable time in knowing her, i'll ask her out.
The only exceptn would be a quickie, which i'm sure the OP isn't talkin about

seedord247:

I hate to hear this sentence from a girl.

I'm still Thinking about it.

££VICTOR££:

If you know what you want and if you wanna get what you desire for, There is no need in delaying things, I can ask a girl out anytime as long as she got what i want and desire in a woman

#dontdull gf-ti-wo-lode

Mr, Cork:

Pweety4me. Sweeery i ask a chick out only when i need punnny. By the way, can I date you?

Somagirl:

If you like something you see, go for it!

It may or may not work out the way you want it to but life is all about taking risks.

Besides, there are lessons to be learned always.

Pweety4me:

Hmm seems a lot of Nigerian guys can't date out of their country.

Pweety4me:

The Nigerian Man and how he tends to always describe his interest when relating it to the supposed mentality or characteristics of a Nigerian Woman?

Somagirl:

If you like something you see, go for it!

It may or may not work out the way you want it to but life is all about taking risks.

Besides, there are lessons to be learned always.

12 inches!:

I think u shud eat the pudding when it's hot, There's this gurl I met at the beach and[b] I fancied[/b] I saw her regularly for a length of time and I wanted to 'take it slow' so I could get to knw her beta. so I didn't ask her out. Though she always hinted to it, I gradually lost interest jare, It always happens like dat. So once u av feelings u ask her out jare, dnt wait for more than 1 month max!

Pweety4me:

^^^Tufiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

It was 9jafetish my friend!!

& who said i am dating?how is it your business?

Pweety4me: ^^That makes sense, but what if she ends up seeing you just as a 'friend' and nothing beyond that?


I don't get it bro, what exactly r u looking 4?and what really can u get from a 5mins convo when it's some1 u barely know?

Ucheosefoh: As for me its the character of a gal that make me to ask a gal out I dont ask gals out after meeting them 4 the first time

kandiikane:
MY boyfriend waited three months before we dated but that was 'cause I was already in another relationship. .