Offpointng:
Remain like that bro. You're empty doesn't mean you're not happy cuz statistical study makes us believe Relatives from the father's side are close to very useless. but Ion know your full story sha, but Papa wey no look for you all these years till you turn 25, what gives you the assurance he'll care or give a F about you?

Which statistics and study?

You're a VeryWickedMan
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VeryWickedMan:


My son I'm your Dad. Send me money if you want to see me.

Try asking your mom again even if it will get her angry, she might after a while tell you….24yrs is a lifetime for her to be angry against someone else no matter what they might have done.

That hatred must be consuming your mom inside out and it is not good for her health, so putting her in a position to answer that question will help her confront this year long hatred and might enable her come over board, discuss the issue with you, tell you what you need to know after your dad and the healing process will begin for her.

In essence you can bring about healing and your mom’s restoration by asking her.

If that fails and you still want to know publish the details about your mom, early childhood, names, places, relatives, etc, online and say you are looking for your dad…someone that know someone might see it and pass the link up to you.

Prechgold1180:


No bro
She marry am normal old day wedding
I still get some old pictures for head when everything new fresh

Omo the thing tire me

baba I love ur spirit. Ask her where ur papa. Na d mistake women dey make.

Mleeperbother:
Wetin u wan use your father do? 4get about the guy.

Don't you know sometimes baba says you must use your father. You heard the guy say ha has houses, lands, cars, so comfortable. Where do you think all that comes from at 25

Henrikjay:



Go and meet some of your mother sister's and brothers if she has any still alive , Explain to them your intentions of knowing your dad. ... I am not too sure the story your mom told you about the reason she left your dad is true ... I dont buy one sided story .... Sorry to say this dont be surprise that he is not your biological father and that may be the reason she left with you and don't want to take you back to him cause you may not be his son ..

I m 70 %. Sure it’s bcus of my elder bro death

Till date some people still addresses her with mama Junior
That’s my elder bro name
Some time Dey miss the name and address me as junior

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

u forgiveness,tell her is taking away heaven from her.tell her i say that she should forget and forgive,for heaven's sake. Then she will tell u with time.

It's no big deal, I didn't see my Dad till I was 20

PoliteActivist:


Don't you know sometimes baba says you must use your father. You heard the guy say ha has houses, lands, cars, so comfortable. Where do you think all that comes from at 25

Change how you think

Nur be everybody Dey into diabolic stuff

Hey mate
You shouldn't kill yourself as you have time to find yours that's if you wish to meet him. Lucky you cause I didn't meet mine he died in 2011 and I got to know in 2017, last I spoke with him on phone was 2010.
Didn't even know it was him until it was too late, I lost home and never got to see his face... Sad world and today I'm 30!

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Mount pressure, your mom must tell you who your father is..
If not she is being Wicked..And now you've become a man, that act of hers must stop.

Go and find your root..That man will celebrate you when you return.

When men keep allow a troublesome wife go with their kids, they know one day, those kids will return home.

Go and find him..And hear his own side of the story.

You just dey find wetin no lost up and down rest. I'm 28 I don't know my dad too. I have not met him. I tried reaching him too, got his contact, called him, he acknowledged I'm his daughter but we are like strangers to each other. We don't talk on phone, he's not eager to see me. His family over there he's everything to him so me slf lock up. I moved on. So baba you maybe disappointed after knowing who ur father is.

Sultty:
hell hath no fury than a woman scorned

The woman is just being evil by preventing the son from knowing his father. Her "fury" is negatively affecting the child

You get money ooo... Leave your Papa alone!

Sounds like the novel 'chimere'

iammee:
You just dey find wetin no lost up and down rest. I'm 28 I don't know my dad too. I have not met him. I tried reaching him too, got his contact, called him, he acknowledged I'm his daughter but we are like strangers to each other. We don't talk on phone, he's not eager to see me. His family over there he's everything to him so me slf lock up. I moved on. So baba you maybe disappointed after knowing who ur father is.

At least you know your Dad and where you came from.

Recently I took a young man of about your age to a village called bode in auchi... He had the same predicament... He had hated his dad for so long but after hearing from his dads family and how they welcomed him... I was teary... He got to find out that his has moved to USA after searching endlessly for him. His mom took him there to meet his dads family after so much pressure from the guy.

Princeton92:
Hey mate
You shouldn't kill yourself as you have time to find yours that's if you wish to meet him. Lucky you cause I didn't meet mine he died in 2011 and I got to know in 2017, last I spoke with him on phone was 2010.
Didn't even know it was him until it was too late, I lost home and never got to see his face... Sad world and today I'm 30!

Take heart

Sometimes I get so sad thinking about this

Danibonk:
Bro fulfills your curiosity ask your mum and find your dad he will have his own explanation too for abandoning you

His mom "moved out" I don't think his father abandoned him

Justbehave:
Are you fatherless?

Gbam!

Prechgold1180:


I m 70 %. Sure it’s bcus of my elder bro death

Till date some people still addresses her with mama Junior
That’s my elder bro name
Some time Dey miss the name and address me as junior

If these people know about your brother, they should have a fair idea about your dad too I think

Munzy14:

At least you know your Dad and where you came from.

I don't know him. That's not how to know someone. I blame myself everyday for reaching out to him. He's a complete disappointment

everythinggirly:
You get money ooo... Leave your Papa alone!

Some certain things Dey wey I Dey fear
Even if I nur meet my dad
I just wan confirm if I get step siblings wey I nur know

For life like this
I know get full brother or sister
Just half half
Like half brother

Your mum is wicked. You need to do your findings to locate your father.

Prechgold1180:


Change how you think

Nur be everybody Dey into diabolic stuff

Na joke na my brother, don't you see the shiny teeth?
But seriously, come to think of it, how did you amass all that at 25??
Not saying you could be into yahoo - no such thought ever crossed my mind for a second

.

esere826:


If these people know about your brother, they should have a fair idea about your dad too I think

Yes
I plan on doing my findings when I get home

I plan on traveling home this month

Would keep everyone posted

It would be nice, if you knew your dad and his children, at least see them once, it helps, for instance, you may date your step sister and not know it. And perhaps if you have children's they may end up dating, your step sisters or brothers children. This is one good reason to know.

Put a gun to her head. She will talk when she feels the cold steel, she will spill it all. Most women are wicked, unforgiving , psycho-tripping murderers.

Prechgold1180:
Good evening house

Sorry to bore you with my issues


My mum and dad separated 24 years ago

Reason for separation
My only biological bro died from malaria
My dad was unable to come up with money for treatment

My mum moved out took me with her
She remarried 2 years after
Gave birth to 4 leaving me with 4 step sibling
Some years back I heard my mum saying my dad has other children ( I don’t even know them ) I don’t even know my dad

I am a graduate now

So comfortable in life
Got lands houses and cars to my name

My problem now is I feel empty whenever I think of my dad
More like I don’t know my root

I plan on visiting mums home for Christmas
The problem is she hates my dad so much
any thing about that topic gets her angry

I don’t know how to convince to go show me my dads house

I don’t know possible ways to get her to show me my dad hus

Don’t even know if my dad is good
Don’t even know his family
Don’t even know my village
Everything I call family is just from my mother side

Zero from my dad side
I wish I can know them

Op ,if you are a real man. I am given you an assignment.

The task is to get to know whom your father is without your mum and your father know about it .

Can you do it?

Ok, let me give you an expo before you Start. You can get information about your father from this people. Your Grandma, your grandpa, your I uncle, your mother long time friend , a longt time neighbor that your mum talk about etc.

Make sure you promised anyone you approach from the aforementioned people above that you won't tell your mum about your discussion with them.

Make sure you did not revealed whom you are to your father when you meet him to get to know what kind of person he is.

Also if possible study the relationship between your father and other of his family.

Then decide if you should continue pretending you don't know your father and you do not want to know him to your mum

Or read to emnrazed your father and beg your mother to forgive your father of possible.

Your founding about your father would tell what you should do about him.

Good luck

moshino:


You're a graduate you own lands, houses and cars, very good. Since you can't get your mum to show you your biological father, why haven't you hired a private investigator to find your dad.

Omo
I can’t waste money on that for now
Let me just try my self for now