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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by freeDR(m): 5:43pm On Dec 19, 2022
ibechris:




Association of fools.

Why are poor people like u always joining unprofitable association. Glorifying what is evil before God and man.

Just listen to a man born by a woman talking like an idiot.
May u be damaged same way he damaged that girl since u are happy.

Chairman of association of headless people.



In actual fact, you are a ballless sissy. A simp. A good for nothing woman wrapper.

I'm sure your mother will not be proud of you.

Since it's your life mission to fix damaged slutty women, go to the brothels and make wives of them.

Slut worshipper. Pussy slave.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Ebymyk(m): 6:08pm On Dec 19, 2022
Any time you are about to break up with a girl... Delete all your pictures and the pictures you shared with her.. That's rule number 1..

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by HONNESSTY(m): 6:36pm On Dec 19, 2022
Guy don’t dare a woman because the tears of a woman is deep. If I were u firstly, I will report this to the police so that she will sign statement that if anything happens to you she will be held responsible. Secondly, since u are a bit okay financially while not give her some money so that she can start a biz? Finally, let her know the money u helped her with doesn’t mean u are taking her back into your life. Pls don’t let her know where u are living
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Dybala11(m): 6:55pm On Dec 19, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks
Your problem started when you put free sex above your safety and peace. God help you o bros. grin
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Dybala11(m): 7:00pm On Dec 19, 2022
ibechris:
A girl u have damaged just like what u have said here can do anything to destroy u.

U need to apologise to her having acknowledged that u contributed in damaging her.

I was deeply touched when u mentioned on how u squeeze her body to further cause her pain.

Just like i said,u need to apologise to that lady seriously.

Accept that u messed her up and find a way to beg her.
Bros, did you even read and understand the story before you made this comment? grin
The only way your comment can make any sense is assuming that the OP is a liar. grin
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by OvertheTop(m): 7:16pm On Dec 19, 2022
micflo28:
OP you are the real reason people commit suicide, you broke and went back to her to finish her up. When you break up, never look back. What you didn't see at first instance isn't still there. Sex rode you back to her. You said she cheated, if she was loyal to you, what's the possibility that you will marry her. I bet you have an array of girls you are testing to see the most suitable to marry from, don't women also have that right to choose from an array of men to marry from. Please, never accuse a lady of cheating until u either marry her or put a ring on her finger, else she is searching as you are doing so too. Don't return to the girl, but forgive her and set her free. If she had your semen while you were copulating with her, then you have a course to worry. Please, if you don't want a woman, three weeks is enough courtship to tell her to move on, don't let people get too attached only for you to kick them out into the cold lonely street. Avoid long unserious courtship. Know what you want in a girl from the onset.


But a Girl can do it to guy right?
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Sunnyja: 7:42pm On Dec 19, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks
One valuable lesson l have learned in life is that when people talk too much of about what, how and where am going to damage / destroy you, just know that they are doing NATHING.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by frontwave(m): 7:52pm On Dec 19, 2022
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks
[/quote] youruba says he who deliver judgement based on the story of one party is a bad person, but haven said that what I will just tell you is that in any situation you find yourself, prayer and moving closer to God is the answer...the Bible say that we can't be living in sin and say the glory of God should abound try to find a stable and more upright partner to be with and keep praying...forget her and her threats...God is with us.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by piagetskinner(m): 8:16pm On Dec 19, 2022
Mehn the story long Abeg.. I no fit read..

Wetin happen in the end.. ?
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by MNDY(m): 8:23pm On Dec 19, 2022
Enny2013:
N u cudn't threaten her too?

The guy fcu.ked up there at the event.
I usually tell people, if you threaten to deal with me whether physically or spiritually, I will tell you there straight-up how I will be watching out in every way and even advise you to better eliminate me with your strike. I will also tell you that once I see any small sign whether from you or not, I will strike back harder. This will make the person threatening to be scared.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by MNDY(m): 8:27pm On Dec 19, 2022
freeDR:


In actual fact, you are a ballless sissy. A simp. A good for nothing woman wrapper.

I'm sure your mother will not be proud of you.

Since it's your life mission to fix damaged slutty women, go to the brothels and make wives of them.

Slut worshipper. Pussy slave.

That MF you are replying is an irredeemable simp. A lost cause.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by MNDY(m): 8:35pm On Dec 19, 2022
Mensonges:


Stop saying this nonsense that you can't even prove.

So na only girl fit do man strong thing just because the man don enter am?

As the man dey enter am, the girl no dey enter the man too?

You Africans with all these your stupid and weird superstitions sef. sad


You dey mind dem?
Someone like me. I no send whether woman or man. You can't dare threaten me. I will tell you there and then to make sure you eliminate me on your first strike. Otherwise, if I see any sign whether from you or not, I will use vex strike you harder and/or kuku eliminate you. I nor get any joy at all. I will let you know how I will be on the lookout in every way henceforth.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Chris2863(m): 9:06pm On Dec 19, 2022
Mindlog:


What happened to him?
babe paid some cult guys abi people wey she dey Bleep to kill the guy. They did as instructed but God saved my guy. He was hit on the shoulder instead of the head that they targeted. Unfortunately for them, two out of the four guys were captured by some street guys as one of their bike men left them out of fear. Her people started pleading for out of court settlement but for where! The matter still dey court like this and aunty don spend almost 9 months as she no fit perfect her bail conditions while on trial
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by KennethEnyi(m): 9:08pm On Dec 19, 2022
Kill her.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Burgcudi(m): 9:14pm On Dec 19, 2022
What local govt and state did she hail from ?
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Xkale1996(m): 10:03pm On Dec 19, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks
u really make a mistake by taking her bck, and record ur conversation with her and sue her to court and in case if anything happen to you she is the cause or find protection too
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by grandstar(m): 11:12pm On Dec 19, 2022
Give400

You both need help. You both need therapy. Both of you need to change. There may be deep love for each other if you put on the new personality.

On the other hand, be firm you want the relationship to end. If she felt you left her empty handed, try and find a way to compensate her. Talk at length on what can be done for her.

I would ask both of you to start a bible study. Both of you lack God in your life and you're living aimlessly because you lack God in your lives (Read Psalms 19:7-11, Proverbs 2:1-6,

4 He taught me and said: “May your heart hold fast to my words.
Keep my commandments and continue living.

5 Acquire wisdom, acquire understanding.
Do not forget, and do not turn aside from what I say.

6 Do not forsake it, and it will protect you.
Love it, and it will safeguard you.

7 Wisdom is the most important* thing,h so acquire wisdom,
And with all you acquire, acquire understanding.

8 Highly esteem it, and it will exalt you.j
It will honor you because you embrace it.

9 It will place an attractive wreath on your head;
It will adorn you with a crown of beauty.”

10 Listen, my son, and accept my sayings,
And the years of your life will be many.

11 I will instruct you in the way of wisdom
I will lead you in the tracks of uprightness.

12 When you walk, your steps will not be hindered;
And if you run, you will not stumble.

13 Hold on to discipline; do not let it go.
Safeguard it, for it means your life.

Please comment a bible study today and get to know your heavenly father, Visit www.jw.org and request for a free bible study today.

Also, note that drawing close to God enables you to resist the Devil (Including spiritual attacks from demons). That anyway shouldn't be your motive of drawing close to God.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by callthefred: 11:31pm On Dec 19, 2022
Report threat to life to the police ASAP. That will put fear in her from taking any steps and make her know that your family are also aware. Don't underestimate a woman please. They can act before thinking thriugh
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by callthefred: 11:31pm On Dec 19, 2022
Report threat to life to the police ASAP. That will put fear in her from taking any steps and make her know that your family are also aware. Don't underestimate a woman please. They can act before thinking through
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Elsueno: 12:02am On Dec 20, 2022
Give400:
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.


I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged.
I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.


That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life.




She wasn't innocent true true, But U USED HER, in d first place U just wanted free p**y from her, when she returned even B4 knowing about her 'escapades'.


And after finding out she is doing her own thing, instead of using that evidence to cut her off, U decided to totally damage her by smashing & enjoying them bobies.

I don't know much about spiritual, but some of dat diabolical shyt works especially if u ain't religious & guilty of what she accused u off...Let's even say it doesn't work, since she is ready to die for revenge, just make sure she doesn't know where U sleep or ur movements B4 she either pours acid on U or set ur home on fire(God forbid)

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:32am On Dec 20, 2022
By the time calamity strikes you far in the future, none of the guys forming "alpha" in their comments will be there to fight spiritual battles with you.

You knew you don't want a woman, yet you kept on exploiting her sexually'. Since you think it's mere threat, continue to foool around, time will tell.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by LedRock: 2:37am On Dec 20, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
By the time calamity strikes you far in the future, none of the guys forming "alpha" in their comments will be there to fight spiritual battles with you.

You knew you don't want a woman, yet you kept on exploiting her sexually'. Since you think it's mere threat, continue to foool around, time will tell.
But the girl cheated on him na, we don’t see you when girls talk about how they manipulate a guy to collect all he has and break the relationship later.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by JohnOkolo: 3:25am On Dec 20, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks


Free kitten kill you there you don see wetin Konji don do you abi. What you did was very mean knowing she is a dependant
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by LilMissFavvy(f): 3:50am On Dec 20, 2022
What makes you think he never cheated on her in their relationship? We are only hearing his own side of what happened.
LedRock:
But the girl cheated on him na, we don’t see you when girls talk about how they manipulate a guy to collect all he has and break the relationship later.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Ehmmah588(m): 4:25am On Dec 20, 2022
OP if you don't lock her up till she and her family sign undertaken,then you're a foolish weakling
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by uche393: 7:41am On Dec 20, 2022
call her and carefully make her talk about threatening your life, then arrest her and make her sign undertaking that if any scratch happens to you she will be held responsible.

as long you didn't promise her marriage, she won't win you spiritually.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Give400: 9:18am On Dec 20, 2022
Khayceeofficial:
One thing I made up my mind to try to avoid by all means is taking advantage of people's feelings. It's sacred to me and this is one of the few commandments that guides my life.

OP, you dhe brag sey u dhe kpansh and squeeze her fallen boobs, admitted to taking her back cos of free s*x and all that. You're feeling like a king through your verse but now she's threatening you and u come Nairaland dhe lament.

Why keep her in a relationship if you never had any plans asides se* with her?

In this life, what you give is what you get and irrespective of the kind woman being that lady be, you'll definitely get the reward for having taken advantage of her just as u said.

Any man who lacks self control over his libido deserves anything he gets. Go face your demons yourself cos u asked for it
So you never saw nothing wrong in what she did but saw wrong in mine, right? Nice
Thqnks for your contribution
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by LedRock: 9:22am On Dec 20, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
What makes you think he never cheated on her in their relationship? We are only hearing his own side of what happened.
If he cheated then they’re both guilty. She sef fuckup abeg.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by AmancalledGod: 12:17pm On Dec 20, 2022
joceey:

Dm me pls and i will teach u
How can i dm you better still drop your WhatsApp number
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by tollyboy5(m): 12:51pm On Dec 20, 2022
Moh247:
Get a good Pastor or spiritualist and report the matter... With Good prayers on back to sender she would end up messing her own self up
The babe no serious.
When she saw that all her first choice are gone, she resort to her plan B.

God forbid me accepting to be plan B except the lady is ready to accept all my crazy terms and conditions.

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