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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SirJerrie(m): 5:19pm On Dec 18, 2022
Frist of all, I can't even blame you for taking her back cos you did what majority of the guys insulting you would do(Majority let their d1ck think for them, but they come online acting all tough!!).
You made a mistake (letting your third leg make decisions for you)... But, You're human, we all make mistakes and taking her back was DEFINITELY a mistake.


Secondly, YOU DID NOT USE HER.. YOU DID NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER.. SHE HAS NO BASIS FOR PLACING A CURSE ON YOU.

Don't let NOBODY Guilt-Trip you.

She took you for a Fool. Thought she could USE YOU....
She is a Liar, a Cheat and a Thief!!!

You were Housing her, Feeding her, Even Sourced a job for her(she fvcked it up, you paid to bail her out).

Is she an orphan?
Is your house an Orphanage?

She Was using you..
The moment you left her, she became useless.. Meaning she was leeching on you all along, without you she won't survive.

She's only trying to manipulate you...
To pin her failures and miserable life on you.

DON'T FALL FOR THAT!!!!
Don't Let Her Out Fear in your heart
Don't pin any misfortune you encounter later on as a result of a "curse" she never and cannot place on you!!!



YOU DIDN'T DO SHIITT TOO HER..
SOMEBODY YOU DID NOT EVEN MEET AS A VIRGIN!!!
UNLESS THERE'S SOMETHING ELSE YOU'RE NOT TELLING US, SHE HAS NOTHING ON YOU!!!

IF YOU FEAR FOR ANY ATTACK ON YOUR LIFE, REPORT HER TO YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND THR POLICE...
MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THAT IF ANYTHING SHOULD HAPPEN TO YOU, SHE SHOULD BE HELD RESPONSIBLE!!!

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SWATMan: 5:44pm On Dec 18, 2022
Kobicove:
Truth be told, you used the girl!

Immediately you realized you had no long-term plans for her in your life you should have ended the relationship instead of keeping her for just sex! undecided

Moreover he deflowered the girl. He also found reason to leave her especially finding out that she was sleeping with a priest yet, he was cool with it. The fact that he decided to continue with her despite all the evidence that should have made him to end the relationship but instead he made plans to use and dump her afterwards makes him culpable. Those telling him nothing dey happen or, that he didn't do anything wrong are either spiritually ignorant, or completely naive. He should just pray that the girl doesn't carry out her threat, cause the scriptures says that "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SirJerrie(m): 5:51pm On Dec 18, 2022
SWATMan:


Moreover he deflowered the girl. He also found reason to leave her especially finding out that she was sleeping with a priest yet, he was cool with it. The fact that he decided to continue with her despite all the evidence that should have made him to end the relationship but instead he made plans to use and dump her afterwards makes him culpable. Those telling him nothing dey happen or, that he didn't do anything wrong are either spiritually ignorant, or completely naive. He should just pray that the girl doesn't carry out her threat, cause the scriptures says that "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"


He did not meet her a Virgin!!!

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Karleb(m): 8:23pm On Dec 18, 2022
obinna58:
If she's going only spiritual then you have nothing to worry about, it doesn't work.

Bitter truth.

The guy has done no wrong, nyansh is not an investment.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Olatara(f): 8:29pm On Dec 18, 2022
Only few people on Nairaland will tell you the truth. To give yourself peace, just call the girl with another number and apologize to her.

That's all

Don't go back to dating her, don't allow any manipulations. Tell her to move on. Render some little assistance (be part of her success story). No fear.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Karlifate: 8:30pm On Dec 18, 2022
Sounds like a Scorpio or Cancer lady.


Manipulative & vindictive.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Give400: 8:33pm On Dec 18, 2022
SWATMan:


Moreover he deflowered the girl. He also found reason to leave her especially finding out that she was sleeping with a priest yet, he was cool with it. The fact that he decided to continue with her despite all the evidence that should have made him to end the relationship but instead he made plans to use and dump her afterwards makes him culpable. Those telling him nothing dey happen or, that he didn't do anything wrong are either spiritually ignorant, or completely naive. He should just pray that the girl doesn't carry out her threat, cause the scriptures says that "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
Where did I say I deflowered her?
Are you sure you read the story

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by anslemarinze52(m): 8:33pm On Dec 18, 2022
From Yur write up... Yu didn't use her
Na her head no wan calm and as it was if she had a better/Richer Guy wooing her she would have left.
So use your head brother man.....
That's an empty threat buh still don't fold still be more spiritual.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SWATMan: 8:46pm On Dec 18, 2022
SirJerrie:



He did not meet her a Virgin!!!

Thank you for the observation. Anyway I have laid my thoughts. Don't joke with a scorned woman.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Chris2863(m): 8:50pm On Dec 18, 2022
Op, don’t take her threats for granted. These daughters of jezebel can be something else. If you can get proofs, arrest and make her write undertaking. Let’s start from there!


This kind of stuff happened to my real gee and the outcome was really scary

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SWATMan: 9:06pm On Dec 18, 2022
Give400:
Where did I say I deflowered her?
Are you sure you read the story

Sorry for the mix up.
These are some things you realize as you get older?

No women is perfect.

If you choose a Submissive woman, you must accept that she has to depends on you.

If I choose a beautiful woman, you have to accept expenses too.

If I choose a working woman, you must accept that she cannot handle full household chores.

If you choose a housewife, you must accept that she doesn't earn.

If you choose a great woman, you have to accept that she is tough and firm.

If you choose a Brave woman, you must accept that she has thoughts of her own.

A woman has her “Good things" that defines who she is and makes her unique .�.
You may not be entirely innocent because we have not heard her own side of the story. Learn from this experience and be careful. Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.
I am a counselor by the way. Good luck!

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by AmancalledGod: 9:27pm On Dec 18, 2022
joceey:


My brother dont be scared of her pls.Dm me i will direct you ,what you will do for your self spiritually as back to sender what ever she or any man born of woman or any woman born of woman that see you as an enemy or try to take your life ,harm or hurt you,they will end up doing themselves great harm.It will not cost u much just 300 naira will do that for u spiritually.If you are interested may GOD be with you
Can you teach me the process, how can i contact you brother man
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by wiseone28: 10:25pm On Dec 18, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks
Before she use you.. why not use her first?
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by joceey(m): 10:49pm On Dec 18, 2022
[quote author=AmancalledGod post=119257776]Can you teach me the process, how can i contact you brother man [/quote
.
Pls dm me
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by joceey(m): 10:50pm On Dec 18, 2022
AmancalledGod:
Can you teach me the process, how can i contact you brother man
Dm me pls and i will teach u
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Spanishmilf(m): 11:11pm On Dec 18, 2022
Why can’t she fix her self spiritually lol

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Spanishmilf(m): 11:11pm On Dec 18, 2022
wiseone28:
Before she use you.. why not use her first?
u quote the whole page for this?

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:11pm On Dec 18, 2022
Killbillz:
U did nothing wrong but to save urself. Let the biitchh go any length. There are laws to everything. Fück fear and be prayerful on ur own. She can't do nada. Na her head e go fall put provided ur hands a clean

Where I fault OP, is that when he has no long term intensions with her, he should have find a more decisive way to end things rather than want to sleep with her to gain his 50K back, the profit on the business covered that, and he should have just over looked. He has small restitution to do as well.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by wiseone28: 11:16pm On Dec 18, 2022
Spanishmilf:
u quote the whole page for this?
Sell your button phone and buy a better phone

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Nobody: 11:18pm On Dec 18, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

angry
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Nobody: 11:19pm On Dec 18, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

can u repet the question sir?(no ofeinse) angry
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by BornGuilty: 11:37pm On Dec 18, 2022
joceey:

Dm me pls and i will teach u
Bro, I would appreciate it if you teach me also. I have already sent you a message.
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by advanceDNA: 2:19am On Dec 19, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Report to police first....
They will invite her to cime and write undertaken for threat to life and if anything happen to you...na she be first suspect

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Tradepunter2: 3:10am On Dec 19, 2022
Kobicove:
Truth be told, you used the girl!

Immediately you realized you had no long-term plans for her in your life you should have ended the relationship instead of keeping her for just sex! undecided

You guys are funny..... The bible says wages of sin is death, what is sin? Transgressions of the commandments or law of God.

There are no variants of sin whereby one is is smaller, they all carry same weight...

Vexation of the holy spirit is when you have been convicted by the Holy spirit that what you done or about to do is sin but still chose in his heart to continue...

The moment you conceive it in your heart the holy spirit leaves you to your faith....

So all am saying is that no man can curse what God's have blessed..... Now the question is what is his position with and in God?

As long one is in sin he or she is free game for satan

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by SenecaTheYonger: 3:36am On Dec 19, 2022
Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Did she cheat on you or anything?
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by BluntTheApostle(m): 6:54am On Dec 19, 2022
You made a terrible mistake taking that woman back for konji's sake.

A woman who had become toxic, and yet you took her back.

My brother, you have brought back drama into your life, and this time, it is drama raised to power 1000.

I don't know how far she can go, but I will advise you not to take her threats lightly. Report at a police station. The police will make her sign an undertaking that nothing must happen to you.

After that, she will be the one praying that nothing happens to you.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by GoooodHardDick: 7:12am On Dec 19, 2022
Give400

We have said it countless times here that never you go back to your vomits after breakups and a girl who still communicates with her ex must be avoided.

However, be rest ASUU that the werey is using reverse psychology on you and those rubbish curses won't work! If curses dey work, buhari for don dey die since. U did well son. Throw the Olosho out of your house ASAP and also get her arrested if you wish to. She belongs to the streets and to the streets she will remain

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Clinghton: 7:36am On Dec 19, 2022
Instead of abandoning her on a strange land you should have taken her back to her parents, at least come up with a plan.


Right now I think you should sit her down and clear your mind, avoid any secret meeting with her.

Explain how you should her cheating lifestyle which made you leave.

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Spanishmilf(m): 8:32am On Dec 19, 2022
wiseone28:
Sell your button phone and buy a better phone
you will die poor
Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by Qatar2022: 9:13am On Dec 19, 2022
Make sure you do not promise that girl marriage

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Re: My Ex Is Threatening Me by bigdammyj: 10:02am On Dec 19, 2022
Noted.

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