OmoIjebuOde:
My wife is a Nurse and she's about to relocate to the UK.

I will join her later with the kids. Are you now advising me to remain in Nigeria because of UK government?

IngrateWifeKids:
Having a Nigerian Wife and Kids in the UK is worse than slavery

Here is why

You will toil to make life comfortable for the so called wife and her kids (they are her kids in the final analysis you are just an expendable sperm donor) and she will still turn those same kids against you and get you kicked out of the family home or voluntary leave to keep your sanity, dignity and freedom.

She will engineer your departure from the family home once she starts receiving single parent handouts from the family hating british system

in the UK, the societal pecking order is children first then women then pets (cats and dogs) before men.

You've been kicked out / forced out of your children's abode and lives (at times by the UK police who will believe anything a woman tells them about her husband) and there are still demands on your finances by the UK system to pay to your kids or you feel obliged to give them some money even though the so called children are selfish and self centered and as dangerous to you as their mum an the lot of them (Mum and kids) are as ungrateful as Bleep. What the hell !!!!

Is it even worth a man marrying ad siring kids with a Nigerian woman in the UK or is it an exercise in futility and all round LOSS for the man on all counts ??

99% of Nigerian women in the UK are like this and God help you find the good 1% amongst these animals in human skin called UK based Nigerian women.

Let me stop here and I hope I have at least helped one man to at least avoid the dangerous trap of marrying a Nigerian woman in the UK or having kids with a Nigerian woman in the UK.

Men you have been warned

NUFF SAID

flokii:
I remember reading here sometime ago, how a man tricked his wife and kids back home only to return to his base abroad alone where he burnt all their travel papers and documents in the backyard of his house..
What is really happening?. why are the ladies behaving that way??
Same story same complains

OmoIjebuOde:
My wife is a Nurse and she's about to relocate to the UK.

I will join her later with the kids. Are you now advising me to remain in Nigeria because of UK government?

VeryWickedSimp:
No matter what this foolish OP types I still love ibkayee because she is different.

OmoIjebuOde:
My wife is a Nurse and she's about to relocate to the UK.

I will join her later with the kids. Are you now advising me to remain in Nigeria because of UK government?

Kobojunkie:
Who told you this story? Complete two houses with money she gets from benefits? How much was she collecting? £10,000's a month? Who was paying it to her?

otipoju:


I did not say "Bro". I said " Bros" there is a massive difference. "Bro" is used by the younger generation to address their friends. Our generation would use "Guy" to address a friend.

No wahala. Anyways as much as I m tempted to give out the info of the tragic incident, I know I have cousins on nairaland and saying exactly what happened might expose my identity so I'll plead the fifth.

She did not build the house after 17 years. No one knows when she started or finished but at the time of discovery, she had secretely completed two beautiful houses while she never worked and had been receiving benefits as a single parent while being legally married to my uncle. That's all I know

Kobojunkie:
So, where does benefit money come from? Or you have never lived abroad at all?

leisuretym:
Benefit “ itself have a meaning
It’s an English word, stop thinking like yahoo benefit boys , not every time they use the word they are talking about claims from government, have some sense, I see benefit boys has corrupted your brain. Stop doing yahoo .

Kobojunkie:
See this Okponu in this new year!

You have never lived abroad that is why you don't know that benefit money for those who don't have jobs comes from government and people in the UK are known to fraudulently collect this money as Otitopuju explained that his aunt had done.

leisuretym:
Yahoo yahoo man spotted

Kobojunkie:
I am yahoo yahoo because I pointed out that you have never lived abroad which clearly explains your ignorance of where benefit money comes from?

leisuretym:
...

Kobojunkie:
I am yahoo yahoo because I pointed out that you have never lived abroad which clearly explains your ignorance of where benefit money comes from?

Kobojunkie:
Again....I am yahoo yahoo because I pointed out that you have never lived abroad which clearly explains your ignorance of where benefit money comes from?

leisuretym:


Benefit “ itself have a meaning
It’s an English word, stop thinking like yahoo benefit boys , not every time they use the word they are talking about claims from government, have some sense, I can the see benefit boys has corrupted your brain.

Alusiizizi:
Sometimes try to pick up on detail. The OP mentioned 99%, which although probably not laser point accurate is definitely not too far off. Although don't take his word for it, try out a UK based Nigerian girl, or even a black girl for that matter, see what happens.

ZINNYBANKS:
Thats why you hardly see a man live long the way women live long ...

Creativity22:

If you feel your husband is maltreating you here in Nigeria. Why don't you divorce him and move on

1Sharon:


Do you know what benefits are?


This is why I say, if you've never been to the West, just STFU!

leisuretym:


You have made your point, you don’t respond to pigs online or they will wrestle with you and drag you in the mud, leave that guy alone , he doesn’t have a job, he will keep twisting your point till Jesus come

flokii:
I remember reading here sometime ago, how a man tricked his wife and kids back home only to return to his base abroad alone where he burnt all their travel papers and documents in the backyard of his house..
What is really happening?. why are the ladies behaving that way??
Same story same complains

Romanoff:


It is not possible for a woman you treat with love and respect to turn on you without cause. I don't agree o.

Emmanuel909090:


If you are married or you have plenty married friends, believe me you won't be saying this.

I would have sounded same way as you, but I have witnessed some cases.

Love is not enough, it only takes a woman that wants to stay to keep her home abroad, because misunderstanding is inevitable, and African women have pride much more than the men.

When 70% of people abroad complain and say same thing, you should know there is an atom of truth in it.

Most times this women regret, but it's always too late.


Not to forget. Love is for the man and respect is for the woman, even the bible says so.

You can never treat a man with respect and you won't feel loved, asides a man having issues with his brain.

Crystalom5:
lolz.

Some of you think everyone will be able to spend enough time with their family without them starving the very next day or been thrown out of school.

We've seen men in rain and sunshine trying to ensure that you have a warm roof over your head before your mother thinks of loving you.

1Sharon:


Was your 'uncle' living with his wife while she was on benefits?? And was he aware of what she was doing??

If he was , your 'uncle' and his wife will go to jail for scamming the UK government if they are caught.

Romanoff:


It is not possible for a woman you treat with love and respect to turn on you without cause. I don't agree o.

otipoju:
Is it that ITK is worrying you or you dont know how to read and comprehend ? Abi what kind of dumb questions and statements are you and Kobojunkie making.

They said someone did something secretely you are still asking wether the husband knows.

OmoIjebuOde:
My wife is a Nurse and she's about to relocate to the UK.

I will join her later with the kids. Are you now advising me to remain in Nigeria because of UK government?