Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

That man isn’t trying to marry you or expecting another wife or child, giving you the condition that he will
Move in with his ex to help financially seem like manipulation to me. Will he also allow your ex to move into his home with his kids if you were the one staying with him. Don’t make me conclude that most women have fish brains.

Say NO, if he decides to move out, move on and find yourself a single man you can build your life with, make penis no de sweat una too loose una brain cells

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Why some of you women decide to complicate your lives amazes me.

What are you doing with a man with all these baggages?

Tueh!

Not every mumu topic man supposed dey react to

Break up with that mumu man.

lol

Did your parents lay any curse on you?

Please answer this question before I answer yours.

DonBenny77:
You be mumu?
Break up with your yeye boy friend.
Why must you end up with a single father of three that still relates with his baby mama.
Why have you chosen to settle for the least
Are you handicapped?
Which kind wahala be this

Help me ask oh, Kai.

For a man to open his mouth and have the gut to tell you that, it means one thing, you're not VALUED. you must have shown him your weakness and probably DESPERATE

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

You are the most foolish person I’ve even seen.
So this is what will happen!

1 move your boyfriend’s Ex and her kids into your office.

2. Do transfer of ownership of your house 🏡 to your boyfriend’s name

3 . Do not disturb them when they are mating or allow her to bring her own man into the house

I ADVICE YOU BETTER GO FOR DELIVERANCE CAUSE THIS ISN'T LOVE BUT PURE STUPIDITY

HOW CAN YOU A WOMAN WITHOUT ANY KIDS SETTLE FOR A BROKE ARSE MAN WITH 3 KIDS AND AN EX HE STILL CARES ABOUT AND OBVIOUSLY STILL FVCKING? AND WHO HAS NO SELF DIGNITY BUT TO MOVE IN WITH YOU THEN MOVE IN HIS FIRST WIFE AND THREE KIDS TO COME LIVE WITH YOU BOTH

INDEED YOU ARE EXTREMELY FOOLISH

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

Thank you for that brain resetting question. I believe she was sleeping before but these your question we awake her to consciousness.
The lady in question sees red flags and she still throws her eyes away

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

the townhall wants to bring balablu, blublu,bulaba and their mum to your townhouse...ori gbogbo yin ti buuru paapo

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Ex kor Y ni

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

His ex isn't moving in. It's his kids.

Edit. You're correct. Sorry!

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

ur present is about to become ur ex.

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Is this a rhetorical question?

You gotta be kidding.
Your boyfriend must take you for a fool.
...and I don't mean this metaphorically or hypothetically or rhetorically or poetically or theoretically or in any other fancy way.

DonBenny77:
You be mumu?
Break up with your yeye boy friend.
Why must you end up with a single father of three that still relates with his baby mama.
Why have you chosen to settle for the least
Are you handicapped?
Which kind wahala be this

Real mumu

Pray and trust God for your own life partner.

This leech does not deserve you.

He is just using you to keep his family going.

Dont fall for his trap.

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

The relationship has too more baggage coming with it

From the looks of things, he hasn't fully gotten his ex. If they were irreconcilable, why do they still want to co-habit?

It's supposed to be the opposite.

I would advise you to not only put your foot down and say no, but end the relationship. His kids will forever resent you, blaming you for destroying their family.

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Why keep yourself in this situationship? Your bf is selfish to think of housing his ex in your house. That's not normal. The earlier you ditch him the better for your sanity because you'll end up regretting it. She'll lure him back into her claws with sex...heck they could even plan to swindle you off your money or property. Be wise.

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

Mumu!

Sweetvie:
Aswear, some people just mumu anyhow
Which kind yeye love be that one sef...The guy just dey use her head 😂
Mumu love 😂😂
Sharp guy don see maga... Na to just send her comot for the house remain 🤗🤧

Abi o I just believe say this story na fake , husband and wife don see maga , she for kukuma accommodate him community join , some people no dey learn.

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

abi ooo… o wrong now

Gben5:
I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?

The answer you should give him is a big “No”.
He is the one responsible for his kids not you.
Don’t let love cloud your sense.
Guy wants to shift his responsibilities on you.
Better be wise.
The relationship isn’t a do or die affair.
If he doesn’t agree, the relationship can end and he can pack his ex and their children and go elsewhere.
Irresponsible man.

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

My elder brother do this one. It happens especially during crises or flood

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

I tire!!!!!

Op just the whine us 😀

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

What a man would not do for her is what she wants to do for him.

Women, try and use wisdom sometimes. Everything is not love.

Isabi4lov:
Abi o I just believe say this story na fake , husband and wife don see maga , she for kukuma accommodate him community join , some people no dey learn.

The wey some people tak dey reason sef i no just dey understand. How person go get 3kids... He com still dey follow the ex dey talk, like normal level, you com dey call that kind person your boyfriend no be juju be that . Dem bin wan maga am finish before dem go com clear am say, na she be the third party 😂

Aswear, this story na fake🥴

Bad advice methinks.
She has sense.
That's how polygamy comes in.

Jennyclay:
Would your boyfriend also allow you to accommodate your Ex in his own house if you were to be a single mother?

Don't you have sense ?

They will soon send you out of that house either dead or alive.. No give yourself brain. If you happen to be in that shoe will he accept it?

You boyfriend has 3 kid. How old is you?

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You go soon get sense by fire by force
.... Mumu

quote author=Gben5 post=120398639]I have a townhouse with three bedrooms. My office occupies one of the bedrooms, but six months ago, my boyfriend of two years moved in. To protect his five-year-old son and also two elder daughters, our plans to get married have been delayed.

He came to me to tell me that his ex can no longer afford her apartment due to the drastic rent increase and is preparing to leave Accra and relocate to her parent's home. According to my boyfriend, he doesn't want to stay far away from his children and doesn't want to keep his children away from their mother.

He is proposing that they move in temporarily with us. This will mean I give up my office, or he moves in with his ex to help out financially, and both of those options will destroy our bond. What do I do?[/quote]