Single ladies that say they are single because the guys they fall for are "liars and cheats" have themselves to blame. The problem is guys that come in the package the ladies say they want are usually turned down by the same ladies especially when young. They prefer the flashy guys with 'swag' and 'game' to a 'good man' with character. They then try to switch up at 30 but its too late.

The good guys seeing that their decent behavior does not get them far with the ladies then switch up and dish to them what they want. Men usually do what works to get the ladies. The 'good men' having watched you get screwed literally and figuratively by the 'bad boys' would not want to have anything to do with you.  They won't want a woman whose 'pearls' has been trashed by 'dogs' while they get the residue.

That is why they are plentiful in churches desperately searching for mugus to marry them. The problem is that men notice these sisters but usually ignore them. The wise sisters usually allow themselves to be taken off the 'market' in their prime. They don't want to turn 30 and be competing with ladies in their early twenties.

i just dnt knw y pple r nt sayin d truth. Over 80percent  men neva married cos dey no get GOOD JOB to take kia of marital life, only of few has good job bt neva get d rite girl. And dt fact is wot is affecting d ladies. I stil remain single cos of no beta job. EOS

kalokalo:

Single ladies that say they are single because the guys they fall for are "liars and cheats" have themselves to blame. The problem is guys that come in the package the ladies say they want are usually turned down by the same ladies especially when young. They prefer the flashy guys with 'swag' and 'game' to a 'good man' with character. They then try to switch up at 30 but its too late.

The good guys seeing that their decent behavior does not get them far with the ladies then switch up and dish to them what they want. Men usually do what works to get the ladies. The 'good men' having watched you get screwed literally and figuratively by the 'bad boys' would not want to have anything to do with you.  They won't want a woman whose 'pearls' has been trashed by 'dogs' while they get the residue.

That is why they are plentiful in churches desperately searching for mugus to marry them. The problem is that men notice these sisters but usually ignore them. The wise sisters usually allow themselves to be taken off the 'market' in their prime. They don't want to turn 30 and be competing with ladies in their early twenties.

Just one question and you wrote this long essay. Na wa ooo

Because I'm not married.

Cipriani:
Just one question and you wrote this long essay. Na wa ooo

He must be fresh out of a relationship.

Because I love me, myself and I more!

Pls, let's me use this opportunity to ask men. Why is it dat 98% of men while in a relationship want to Be Intimate with the lady? I mean even when I am not the type dat demands for their coins.

Heb. 13:4 says "Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled". Though am not a virgin but it's a decision I had made 3yrs ago neva to sleep with any man any longer till am married.

@confilass: Only a virgin has d right 2 make that statement.a guy who is due for marriage in d nigerian context(got a good job nd swag,a nice ride,nd lovely crip) wl want to taste d punny b/4 any serious commitment except his middle name is mugu nd his other name is magga especially wen d lady is not a virgin.So u gave it 2 a window shopper nd wen d serious buyer/guy comes around u want 2 deny him.don't tell me u were violated at 15 nd since then u'v decided 2 abstain.why didn't u deny ur boyfriend(s)/aristos? Is there something u'r hiding from ur suitor which is more than ur virginity dat u couldn't protect?a friend of mine is seriously having issues wt his wife b/c of no_punny_b4_marriage issue.his wife had an operation in her reproductive system as a result of a malign growth in her system which d doctor said it was as a result of earlier operation(likely abortion) carried out around dat area.D lady hid d mark on her abdomen from dis guy until after marriage even wen d guy knew she wasn't a virgin.D lady claimed 2 b 'born again'. Hope u'v not got issues.Do u know that responsible guys are scarce?Do u know dat ther ar many ladies wt ur kind of character/qualification who ar willing 2 get intimate wt a serious guy once they ar REASONABLY CONVINCED dat he is serious especially wen they'r not virgins?Do u know u may not b this rigid by d time u turn 38,God forbid.Do u know dat ther ar virgins of ur age/standard who ar looking for husbands too? Wish u good luck.

@OP.I'm still single cos am still searchin 4 MRS RIGHT.

@ ogugua88,



@ Somagirl,
are u from Somalia?


@ 2tek,
Interesting piece!!!

Trying to get things straight with the man upstairs. That's why I'm still single.

Single cos am single.

2tek:
Pls, let's me use this opportunity to ask men.  Why is it dat 98% of men while in a relationship want to Be Intimate with the lady?  I mean even when I am not the type dat demands for their coins.

Heb. 13:4 says "Marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled".  Though am not a virgin but it's a decision I had made 3yrs ago neva to sleep with any man any longer till am married.

@confilass: Only a virgin has d right 2 make that statement.a guy who is due for marriage in d nigerian context(got a good job nd swag,a nice ride,nd lovely crip) wl want to taste d punny b/4 any serious commitment except his middle name is mugu nd his other name is magga especially wen d lady is not a virgin.So u gave it 2 a window shopper nd wen d serious buyer/guy comes around u want 2 deny him.don't tell me u were violated at 15 nd since then u'v decided 2 abstain.why didn't u deny your boyfriend(s)/aristos? Is there something u'r hiding from your suitor which is more than your virginity dat u couldn't protect?a friend of mine is seriously having issues wt his wife b/c of no_punny_b4_marriage issue.his wife had an operation in her reproductive system as a result of a malign growth in her system which d doctor said it was as a result of earlier operation(likely abortion) carried out around dat area.D lady hid d mark on her abdomen from dis guy until after marriage even wen d guy knew she wasn't a virgin.D lady claimed 2 b 'born again'. Hope u'v not got issues.Do u know that responsible guys are scarce?Do u know dat ther ar many ladies wt your kind of character/qualification who ar willing 2 get intimate wt a serious guy once they ar REASONABLY CONVINCED dat he is serious especially wen they'r not virgins?Do u know u may not b this rigid by d time u turn 38,God forbid.Do u know dat ther ar virgins of your age/standard who ar looking for husbands too? Wish u good luck.

@OP.I'm still single cos am still searchin 4 MRS RIGHT.

Chai, you don start. Answered a question with a question, small biblical passage, and played lecturer, psychologist, and preacher. I hope confilass survived your automatic artillery many questions.

Offer stone to a man or woman who has never sinned. Make we see who go stone who. No one holy pass sha. To each his or her own.

Am single because toaster don't believe me wen I say I got no bf, dey want to lie to dem so dat dey can play wt me wt no guilty conscience,am still single oo
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^^ Contact mr cork for him to make you double!

Am single cos am selective if my lesbian partner, Need a woman with brains & beauty,

@ 2tek, I appreciate ur preaching. It's a personally decision that no age limit can change. Is it a guarantee that when a guy is serious and u're intimate with him that he'll marry u.

Bible says "God has mercy upon whom He wants to, "

I was born that way.

Not a very easy question with both sides taking part of the blame - a lot of people living in their own fake worlds.

Am single because i have not yet fund a good one, all i see is bar and hotel girs.

Remember! if you are a green snake under green grass you are no longer Single<<<>>>


I remain single until my day comes.

I'M SINGLE COZ I DNT HAVE TYM FOR LIARS THAT CALL THEMSELVES MEN BESYDS I;M ENJOYING THE ATTANTION,

It's none of ur business about my status

Life as a single pleasantly offers the right to choices but the married has {no} pleasure in one choice only.

Op Dunno y am single bt i ll go with the usual excuse. . . I havent found Mr Right.

@ Uk Emmaxin,


@ Evagreenfields,
U look lovely!

In Nigeria we have only 2 marital status i.e. Married or Single so as far as most Nigerians are concern so long as they are not Married they are single not withstanding whether you have a girlfriend or not.

So the question should be why are you not in any relationship? I know some of my friends in Nigeria that have girl friendssss and yet they still call themselves SINGLE

lyf is mor simple wn single.

chilling for the right man to come along. not desperate, dnt intend to rush

asagal:

lyf is mor simple wn single.

diva90:

chilling for the right man to come along. not desperate, dnt intend to rush

Nice one dear. Don't worry your time will come when its time.

Yoru_Igbo:

In Nigeria we have only 2 marital status i.e. Married or Single so as far as most Nigerians are concern so long as they are not Married they are single not withstanding whether you have a girlfriend or not.

So the question should be why are you not in any relationship? I know some of my friends in Nigeria that have girl friendssss and yet they still call themselves SINGLE

In the old days, it was either Married or Unmarried. People changed it to single because it was not "politically correct".

When I wasn't dating, I was single.
When I was dating, I was single.
When I was engaged, I was single.
When I got married, I am not single.

People now use words like "involved". "complicated", "in between mates", "bootycallers". and "Frennies". Frennies are friends who are pretend married couples.

coz am a sister in a seminary.