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No Finance, No Romance! by Gamine(f): 10:39am On Aug 30, 2007
yes ooh grin

i wonder why a man shldnt hav money to take care of us undecided

so men, take heed wink

u gotta have d Cash to roll with a Catch wink

u gotta have Money if u want the Honey wink

thank u
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by geevader(m): 10:43am On Aug 30, 2007
well well, it isnt all about the money u know.
Some couples got money but no lurv,
I think there shound be a balance of both, dont u think, wink
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by NaJaHaJe(f): 10:45am On Aug 30, 2007
Actually I don't think so.

Yes the guy has to have money but not for me. I don't need his money. He needs the money to polish his ego so he does not feel less of a man becos i earn way more than him.

Money is not everything. ( I am probably talking like this because I am very comfortable) But besides that; I don't need his money to feel fulfilled in a relationship!

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Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Gamine(f): 10:47am On Aug 30, 2007
its all the same thing

if a guy dosnt hav money, how will he polish himself

thats my main point

Even if i dont need his money

he should be willing to spend it on me! wink grin
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by dakmanzero(m): 10:51am On Aug 30, 2007
Hmmm.

So those of us with no money are once again, left out in the cold.

gamine thou breakest my heart cry
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by benit(f): 10:55am On Aug 30, 2007
Cheap talk
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by geevader(m): 11:01am On Aug 30, 2007
OK fine a guy needs cash-money to Behind himself up and all, but i feel its wat u have got inside that counts, am a guy and sometimes i dont have money but i still have my sense of humor and confidence cos i know its only a matter of time b4 i get that dough!!!
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by doyin13(m): 11:08am On Aug 30, 2007
geevader

People, this issue of romance and money has been on my mind a whole lot lately

See this is my dilemma

I am the next in line to the throne of the Awuajale of Ijebuland

Accompanying my title are assets worth over ten million dollars.

Now I need to find a woman who will marry me for who I am not what I have.

I have this plan:

I will travel to America to find my bride

I will live in the most decrepit conditions, prolly work at Mcdonalds.

My only luxury will be my able servant Semiu.

If a girl still finds me attractive then, I shall make her my queen.

What do you lot think?
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Easybaby(f): 11:17am On Aug 30, 2007
@post . . . I concur with you . . .No money . . .No honey cheesy grin tongue
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Seun(m): 11:18am On Aug 30, 2007
How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman? None? Well, it's the same principle.
You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security).
There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful. wink
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by NaJaHaJe(f): 11:24am On Aug 30, 2007
@Doyin13

would you like me to bark like dog?

I have been instructed to meet your every needs and I was hand picked by your father.
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 30, 2007
finance + Romace = Happiness to the power of 10

Romance - Finance = partial fulfilment

No Finance + No Romance = FRUSTRATION
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by NaJaHaJe(f): 11:37am On Aug 30, 2007
@Doyin13

would you like me to bark like dog?

I have been instructed to meet your every needs and I was hand picked by your father.
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Keziah(f): 11:42am On Aug 30, 2007
Seun:

How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman? None? Well, it's the same principle.
You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security).
There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful. wink

Seun what a way to put it! But i must confess that u are absolutely right in my opinion.
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Gamine(f): 11:47am On Aug 30, 2007
How many of you men will marry an ugly, fat, old woman?  None?  Well, it's the same principle.
You are looking for something (youth, fertility) and the woman is also looking for something (security).
There must be an intersection of demand and supply for the transaction of romance to be successful.

Seun u be correct guy jo!!!

finance + Romace  = Happiness to the power of 10

Romance - Finance = partial fulfilment

No Finance + No Romance  = FRUSTRATION
exactly ooh! grin


i cant love a man for money, for me, thats torture, it aint worth it!

i cant fall in love with a guy who dosent have money or the ability to make it,
for me, it just wont happen! wink

i cant
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Nobody: 11:51am On Aug 30, 2007
Really
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Gamine(f): 11:52am On Aug 30, 2007
yes, really

im sorry Darkie grin
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by nana(f): 11:52am On Aug 30, 2007
Well,i dont personally agree with this topic o.
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by doyin13(m): 11:56am On Aug 30, 2007
Well I think it is contextual.

I think people are willing to give it a go regardless of money
up to the age of say 23-24 before the women folk start getting
career minded and the like

For most of University I was as broke as the Nigerian Economy
but I had quite a few fruitful relationships. Most of the ladies had stars in their
eyes, wanted to see the world, and save the environment.

Well they have since donned their suits and set conditions on their relationships.
They now find my antics childish and lacking in ambition, the same antics that had them giggling and cooing
in my ears a few years back.

well I am now looking for a female who wants to see the world and save the planet
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by anney(f): 12:00pm On Aug 30, 2007
Romans minus No Finance can b very frustrating expecially when u are a good girl type , nairalanders my eyes see sometin 4 life .  d most annoning  tinis dt some guys no get money and they no fit give love , we ladies we must shine our eyes o
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Gamine(f): 12:04pm On Aug 30, 2007
well I am now looking for a female who wants to see the world and save the planet


this can only be done with money smiley
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by marjson(m): 12:06pm On Aug 30, 2007
grin MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING,  grin
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by ebony4life(f): 12:10pm On Aug 30, 2007
Money doesn't answer all, but it should be a pre-requsite, because we girls like to day dream, wen we come back from the la-la land it might be too late. So shine ya eyez. shocked shocked
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Seun(m): 12:12pm On Aug 30, 2007
On the other hand, i don't think I will spend all my money on a girl if I happen to be rich. Sorry girls!
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by Easybaby(f): 12:15pm On Aug 30, 2007
marjson:

grin MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, grin

Really? . . .how do you mean? cheesy grin tongue
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by magneto(m): 12:15pm On Aug 30, 2007
@ topic

funny thing about Naija girls is, they'll want to get the finance and withold the romance. u don see mugu!

No Romance, No Finance! . . .   gbam!
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by uchetobi(f): 12:16pm On Aug 30, 2007
who cares about the money?? il have mine anyways, as long as there is no complex, we willco exist
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by smartf(m): 12:23pm On Aug 30, 2007
no finance no romance?! little wonder men divorce at will and marry as much as they can
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by doyin13(m): 12:24pm On Aug 30, 2007
Gamine:



this can only be done with money smiley


well back packing requires little capital

i can get round Europe with hundred pounds grin

Unfortunately the ladies travel first class nowadays sad
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by shollebaba(m): 12:40pm On Aug 30, 2007
i will never think of getting married in my life. If money will be the main reason a lady is with in the first place though it the KOKO behind every necessary things that one needs but to use that as a yardstick 4get u in 4 so many trouble.
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by femionasan(m): 12:43pm On Aug 30, 2007
It will be very difficult for a made man to meet a lady and expect that she is in love with him. He will always have it at the back of his mind that she is in it for the money and that is a concrete reason why a lot of guys that are already successful before they met their wives most times cheat. As long as the money is there she will stay and when it runs out she will go. They also get treated badly. So ladies if u see a potential success in the making stick with him. More guys appreciate a lady that has been with them through thick and thin than one who shows up when its all Rosy. Trust me God gave ladies the sense of smell to locate a potential guy that will be successful, doesnt work all the time but it does most times.  wink wink wink
Re: No Finance, No Romance! by option4301(m): 12:49pm On Aug 30, 2007
@uchetobi,

Please tell all these greedy girls here.That is why they can never be satisfied with one man.Poverty is a curse!

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