Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

Buy her 2 helicopter
Give her $1m

Come back and share your testimony

Autobot05:
Buy her 2 helicopter
Give her $1m

Come back and share your testimony

this is serious bro

Astro999:

this is serious bro

Do I look unserious??
Whether it's playing hard to get or maybe she outrightly doesn't like you but you best get other things to do and stoo focusing on silly girls.

Autobot05:


Do I look unserious??
Whether it's playing hard to get or maybe she outrightly doesn't like you but you best get other things to do and stoo focusing on silly girls.

Hard to get? But she's already my girlfriend.

Astro999:
Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

U are dating urself for now...it may get better or worse....lots of relationship start this way... and thats because women dont usually ask men they like out..

They get approached by guys they sometimes dont like deep down even though they say yes to dating u....feelings can later grow or never grow...its always 50/50

U can either walk away so u dont get used cos the person who doesnt have any feelings invested has the upper hand to exploit the other....

Or u make her like u.....dont be stupíd in ur quest to make her like u by spending plenty money.....u will just turn maga while another nigga will be offing pant..

Astro999:
Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

I dint think she can be any clearer than this, Get the f**k out of her life she's not interested. Don't push, Don't try hard just go get another that is interested in you.

advanceDNA:


U are dating urself for now...it may get better or worse....lots of relationship start this way... and thats because women dont usually ask men they like out..

They get approached by guys they sometimes dont like deep down even though they say yes to dating u....feelings can later grow or never grow...its always 50/50

U can either walk away so u dont get used cos the person who doesnt have any feelings invested has the upper hand to exploit the other....

Or u make her like u.....dont be stupíd in ur quest to make her like u by spending plenty money.....u will just turn maga while another nigga will be offing pant..

This makes a lot of sense

falcon01:
I dint think she can be any clearer than this, Get the f**k out of her life she's not interested. Don't push, Don't try hard just go get another that is interested in you.

I really like her . Maybe I should give it some time. If she does not change then I will quit the relationship. Because I believe in same energy

Astro999:


I really like her . Maybe I should give it some time

No! DON'T, don't you dare!! It's not worth fight for something that doesn't want you. There's shakara girls do you know she wants you but is doing shakara that's the only instance you can give it time but this is a Big No!

falcon01:
No! DON'T, don't you dare!! It's not worth fight for something that doesn't want you. There's shakara girls do you know she wants you but is doing shakara that's the only instance you can give it time but this is a Big No!

When we are together we vibe well. The problem is she does not call or text or even check up on me when we are apart. I think she likes me too. I just don't understand

How old are you?

Do you live with your parents or a guardian?

Do you fend for yourself or others are responsible for your well-being?

faceLAGOS:
How old are you?

Do you live with your parents or a guardian?

Do you fend for yourself or others are responsible for your well-being?

Lolz. I am not a kid bro.
I live alone yes I fend for myself. Why?

Astro999:

Hard to get? But she's already my girlfriend.

You are dating yourself 😅😁😀🤣😂

Astro999:


Lolz. I am not a kid bro.
I live alone yes I fend for myself. Why?

Alright.

Just asking, anyway.

Astro999:

When we are together we vibe well. The problem is she does not call or text or even check up on me when we are apart. I think she likes me too. I just don't understand

How long you been with her?

falcon01:
How long you been with her?

One month. But we have been friends for years

Autobot05:
Buy her 2 helicopter
Give her $1m

Come back and share your testimony

gbamsolutely😁

she does not dig you bro , know your self-worth

A woman that likes you,na you go run ,but it's one sided I pity you, you are dating yourself

Astro999:
Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

you are a mumu man boy

Ballzproblem2:
she does not dig you bro , know your self-worth

ogbenimax007:
you are a mumu man boy

Choose your words carefully mate. I am probably older than you.

Astro999:

One month. But we have been friends for years

alright this is what you gonna do, don't text her, don't call her, keep yourself occupied with other things or get another girl infact leave girls matter if you can they'll come to you. Just make sure you are not thinking of her be busy try hard to ignore her. She's gonna talk to you about how you don't call or text again just tell her you've been busy and continue ignoring. She'll come back again and complain, this time tell her You see her as a friend and it was a mistake asking her out. She'll disturb you and keep disturbing you. Never ever give her what you've given her this past month! She has lost it let. Do this and come back and give your testimony. It's a known fact that no matter how ugly or annoying you are to a girl if you give her attention then decide to stop it, she'll miss it and will want it back!! But if you actually want her after the second coming back you can show her face small but not as you used to if you used to give 100% give her 20 to 30% that's all.

falcon01:
alright this is what you gonna do, don't text her, don't call her, keep yourself occupied with other things or get another girl infact leave girls matter if you can they'll come to you. Just make sure you are not thinking of her be busy try hard to ignore her. She's gonna talk to you about how you don't call or text again just tell her you've been busy and continue ignoring. She'll come back again and complain, this time tell her You see her as a friend and it was a mistake asking her out. She'll disturb you and keep disturbing you. Never ever give her what you've given her this past month! She has lost it let. Do this and come back and give your testimony. It's a known fact that no matter how ugly or annoying you are to a girl if you give her attention then decide to stop it, she'll miss it and will want it back!! But if you actually want her after the second coming back you can show her face small but not as you used to if you used to give 100% give her 20 to 30% that's all.

You are very wise man. Thanks

Astro999:

this is the painful truth bro , I knowno it hurts I have been there before, nothing new,stop calling her and texting her just watch how it will happen lol , guy strong your mind.

Ballzproblem2:
this is the painful truth bro , I knowno it hurts I have been there before, nothing new,stop calling her and texting her just watch how it will happen lol , guy strong your mind.

I will do just this. Thanks guys

Astro999:
Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

sorry, u are the only one inside the relationship

Astro999:


I really like her . Maybe I should give it some time. If she does not change then I will quit the relationship. Because I believe in same energy

mumu, leave her now and focus on your self

If she's not a financial wahala, fvck toto and ignore her being incommunicado.

Astro999:

Hard to get? But she's already my girlfriend.

I, myself prefer face to face convo than digital communications... Some people I don't like texting or calling but, when we meet eh... She could be like that.

Astro999:
Good evening nairaland. I just started dating this beautiful girl. I like her very much, but the problem is she does not call me or text me first! I do the calling and texting and it makes me feel I am the one putting all the effort.

Even when I text her she replies with single words like ok , fine, yes, no. I talked to her about it but there has been no change. What can I do?

Maybe she doesn't feel the same way about you or you're calling and texting too much.