olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Feminist. Dick go still Bleep nonsense from your ass. Na joke ooo.

what is he fighting for again in court ?
to retain the marriage or agree for a divorce ?

the marriage is gone and he should know

hakeemhakeem:
This is part of japa effect he should be strong and all are temporary challenge which he going to overcome. Tell him to brace up are look for another work

You just spoke my mind. Stay at home they wouldn't hear.

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

I'm sure you have a male child or will have if you don't have one yet. This things are not usually far away as we sometimes thought

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His village people should get ready to welcome him back home . Something tells me your friend is a threat to that woman. He most ve done terrible things to warrant all the allegation . Just get ready to welcome him back home . Keep some money for him to manage life here

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being. Reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women, I always prepare for the wost and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

Just look at what she was asking.

Fear women oooo

Yungmil:
Please guys a question that is bothering me


People that masturbate with porn videos


How do you guys cope with glo Network


My own is always hanging

Any time it hangs just hang along with it bro, that's the system

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Heathrow44:



shameless of u, taking someone else's story and posing as ur own, the least u could av done was quote the original writer of the story @ASUNDER, this story is not ur own but of course u are too shameless, u take someone's story. edit it, remove things and add urs and post it as brand new story from you, how low can u be, the same character is what u re in real life, a backstabbing, reap where I did not sow, reap other people's labour, a thief of intellectual property and a pirate, a con man , u re nothing but a thief without the gun 🔫

@Mynd44 Rule No 6, 8, and most especially no 14 broken

Are u new to NL? There are no real stories on NL, all news/stories here are either fabricated or copied from another source. Just tag along and have fun.
Nairaland aka "copy and paste land"

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

If it's your blood brother, I hope you'll keep this same energy

Just like everyone of you ladies want someone like Hakimi as a son but not as a husband.

You guys like soft landing.

People need to quit marrying these poverty of the mind ravaged women and bringing them across the pond. Also, avoid some of the ones you meet inland, they're only hustling. You'll become the hustle.

You cannot make someone who do not love you change the way they see you because you benefited them. She will use you, then transfer the benefit to the ruffian she's still in love with at okokomaiko.

Tell your friend to man up. Too many of us don see dis very shege before, but we bravely beat the challenge.

He need to lick his wounds, then go hustle like his last breath was about to leave him. He'll come back a Hakim.

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

So it is okay to destroy the life of the father of your children, make him completely finished and useless because he must have pissed you off.
May your sons, brothers marry this type of callous woman

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Who resurrected this same old thread of last year

https://www.nairaland.com/6448238/how-did-survive-divorce-uk

I went through this in UK few years ago. My story is 100% similar to this guy’s story. I went through hell…

I went through hell in family court. Social workers, Cafcas and family court system are behind women already but in my own, i fought like a biblical David.

In my own case, she left my kids behind to punish me. She withdrew all the money in the Account and left. It was my mum who was sending money to me to feed my kids…

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being. Reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women, I always prepare for the wost and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

Why should the woman have mercy afterall her husand was busy chasing everything in skirt

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being. Reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women, I always prepare for the wost and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

How can you expect a creature that bleed every month to have sympathy

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Here is the difference btw a man & a woman, even if the divorce is coming from the man he won't put the woman thru all the aforementioned, he may just want her out of his life and still does his responsibilities & will still allow the wife access to the kids but even if she has some bad characters but when a woman files for a divorce you will hear hell of a thing coming from her about the man, she will want to wreck the man down & make sure she turns him miserable where the matter go worse Na if she come get better Gbola wey pass the man own I sorry for the man. I wish the man quick recovery sha because he is in for rough ride.

Why is it that some people in sifia pain find it very difficult to open up until someone falls a victim or change a situation?

After Osinachi's death several women in abusive marriages began to speak up, if not for Hakimi's heroics this man would have still kept quiet and die in silence........ Nonsense!

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being. Reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women, I always prepare for the wost and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

You missed the point
Her questions are valid

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Because you are female, you have concluded that the OP has painted the guy as the victim because he is his friend.
I thought he only narrated exactly what his friend told him he was going through ?

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

You sef how one man go commit all these offenses? Its not possible na

olabrinks:
if he has committed adultery, physically violent, drug addict.. you don’t think that’s enough to divorce?

Let's assume he did all of the above, is that enough for his life to be ruined?

Herbiodun09:
Is the wife Nigerian?

Are you surprised ? Some Nigerian wives are worse than Hakimi's wife, especially once they are abroad.

Nigeria Advantage

I got the correct information here. https://crediblebhs.online/

efficiencie:


Strange women do these things and even worse. Strange women, olosho incorporated, are capable of every evil under the sun. They can cook up all manner of false charges to spite anyone. The strange woman has leveraged the laws of the West to finish the man and he deserves it. Men deserve their wives because they chose their wives based on their desires. And if your desires are immensely stupid you can expect the result of these desires to lead to catastrophe. I only hope he doesn't commit suicide. He should count all his losses as school fees, the price he needs to pay to learn the lesson he should have learned before getting married, move out of the UK to escape prison and restart his life afresh. If he survives this he will become a better mentor for others who are entering marriage as a compound fool but if he is overwhelmed by this and succumbs to depression then it is such a shame.

You are going to far - 2Pac is a good example. After the mother came up with useless reasons why she had to leave the man, she went further to lie to 2Pac that his father was dead. However, when 2Pac was shot, the father came to visit him in the hospital. It was then he found out that the father was paying child support to the mother and has been making efforts to reunite with the son but the mother blocked it.

Not all women, but a good number of women in the west will cut you loose just to that your property. Is even worst with the "version" of feminist that are telling women that they do not need a man.

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

Exactly. He should really beg his wife. Leave ego or na me help her. He will suffer alot. Me I can't bring any woman here until I'm 50. So if de evil spirit take over her I will leave the country. Every man should have a fall back plan. No body loves you. That's how the society is designed

olabrinks:
Because he is your friend, you have painted him to be the victim. Are these allegations or did he actually commit all these things listed? What exactly pushed the wife to divorce him and are there any ways they can reconcile, because it’s going to be a very very long battle for him starting afresh.

May this happen to every male member of ur family till the tenth generation... U put ur loved one through hell in the name of divorce. Woman are emotionally emotionless...

If something similar had not happened to someone (My brother's friend) I know, I would have thought this is a made up story. His own case was with a white woman. The guy was so broke that he signed up in an asylum just to put a roof over his head

sisisioge:


Pls paste the links again, I want to go read the outcome of the divorce. This is not working as is. Thanks.

Here is the original link. I even saw your comment there in 2021

https://www.nairaland.com/6448248/how-did-survive-divorce-uk

mployer:


You women has no iota of sympathy in you.

You are wicked down to every fiber of your being, reason I don't loose guard when dealing with women. I always prepare for the worst and stay one step ahead in the game.

Hakimi remains a hero.

Only a fool will loose guard in today's world with the kind of rebellious women roaming around looking for who to devour.

Long Live Hakimi!!!