IyaebeTheGreat:
I'm very serious and I'll be so happy about it. This is beyond deceit abeg. Let me know if you both eventually click and serious about it

Mtcheew. I'm Serious.

Send Money first. Make I drop account number?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Fine girls and nyanga , I can count five guys here that are dying to have you but with what you wrote, I'll have to agree that ladies too give some kind of vibes that scare these guys away. Forget that ol gee something, you guys have some connections. Ok get hooked and I'll take charge of the reception in one of the best event centres in Abuja or Lagos.

You are funny.

Yes, we have some connections and are very good friends away from the veil of Nairaland. As in, to the deepest part you can think of (not romantically though). But then, not every friendship will end in a relationship.

Pansophist holds some extremist ideas (a teeny bit of misogyny) which do not sit well me. He’s a very amazing guy all the same and just the way I love my men. Although we fight a lot but I still love him regardless.

That aside, I’m very approachable but I have my rules. I do not send emails especially to men here. Maybe for friendships, but I have not thought about it at all.

Silentgroper:




Lol .. maybe...



I wonder if the above qualities would stick after marriage...


She seem like someone that'd do a u-turn on a niqqa after marriage.

LOL.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Take his words seriously because he means them. You wouldn’t because you only know him on a surface level. I know him more than that. Anything he says, he means them.

Pansophist is a man who wouldn’t spend a dime (investing) woman as long as they aren’t married. He can take you out on trips and alladat, but to carry a fraction of your burden? Count him out. So, if he asks you out today, think twice.

Men bend their principle when they fall, maybe he hasn't really met that woman. Are you underestimating the power of a woman? To your amazement ehn the pansophist you know today will bend his principles when he finally meets that woman who has his soul. There's no man on earth that can remain too stiff when the right woman enters his life, take this to the banks. The truth is you shouldn't date his type of person if he's truly not into you deeply else he'll borrow another hard principle plus his already stiff principle to deal with you.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I'm very serious and I'll be so happy about it. This is beyond deceit abeg. Let me know if you both eventually click and serious about it

What’s with you, Pansophist and I?

I think you like him even though you pretend not to. Have you thought about extending a hand of friendship away from NL? He's an amazing guy but he doesn’t believe in providing for a woman he’s not married to o. Just telling you respectfully now.

And I know you love men who provides.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Men bend their principle when they fall, maybe he hasn't really met that woman. Are you underestimating the power of a woman? To your amazement ehn the pansophist you know today will bend his principles when he finally meets that woman who has his soul. There's no man on earth that can remain too stiff when the right woman enters his life, take this to the banks. The truth is you shouldn't date his type of person if he's truly not into you deeply else he'll borrow another hard principle plus his already stiff principle to deal with you.

Well, to a certain extent, you are right. But, with Pansophist, he’s very rigid. And I avoid rigid people. Leave love, that guy is incapable of loving.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are funny.

Yes, we have some connections and are very good friends away from the veil of Nairaland. As in, to the deepest part you can think of (not romantically though). But then, not every friendship will end in a relationship.

Pansophist holds some extremist ideas (a teeny bit of misogyny) which do not sit well me. He’s a very amazing guy all the same and just the way I love my men. Although we fight a lot but I still love him regardless.

That aside, I’m very approachable but I have my rules. I do not send emails especially to men here. Maybe for friendships, but I have not thought about it at all.

Well, you need to start being flexible so you'll not miss your prince charming. Both of you are stiff hence the reason you fight alot but I can notice the connection (I've been following you two for a long time). There's this hidden attraction that you both try to deny and play with, may be to us here sha. To be with such kind of guy you'll have to be very flexible and allow him do his oga in peace. If something serious eventually happens my promise remains intact .

UyaiIncomparabl:


Well, to a certain extent, you are right. But, with Pansophist, he’s very rigid. And I avoid rigid people. Leave love, that guy is incapable of loving.

He's very capable of loving, his type loves very deeply and possessively but their feelings hardly come to play with any woman. I still maintain that he will melt when he finally meets that woman.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Well, you need to start being flexible so you'll not miss your prince charming. Both of you are stiff hence the reason you fight alot but I can notice the connection (I've been following you two for a long time). There's this hidden attraction that you both try to deny and play with, may be to us here sha. To be with such kind of guy you'll have to be very flexible and allow him do his oga in peace. If something serious eventually happens my promise remains intact .

Lol. You are so hilarious.

“Allow him do his oga in peace indeed”. Who’s dragging position with a man? Do your thing and take your glory, but as long as you try to do right by me, we will be good. Pansophist has too much westernized ideas he has to purge, my opinion. But then, I have heard you, Nwanyioma.

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's very capable of loving, his type loves very deeply and possessively but their feelings hardly come to play with any woman. I still maintain that he will melt when he finally meets that woman.

Hopefully so. But, he will never part with his cash. Na AKA chichi.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What’s with you, Pansophist and I?

I think you like him even though you pretend not to. Have you thought about extending a hand of friendship away from NL? He's an amazing guy but he doesn’t believe in providing for a woman he’s not married to o. Just telling you respectfully now.

And I know you love men who provides.

🤣 see as she turns the table intelligently, there's no connection here, me wey like pampering. You can't deceive me, you think I started noticing you both recently? It's a tey tey something.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hopefully so. But, he will never part with his cash. Na AKA chichi.

He will part and over part with his cash. I have four brothers and have mastered the behaviour of men.

Raalsalghul:


This Iyaebe of a lady, why are you obsessed with marriage?

That’s the goal of most woman no matter how successful and beautiful she is. Most women want a home where they can call theirs. So, what’s wrong with being obsessed with marriage? People are obsessed with different things ranging from kids, money, affluence, porn etc. How is being obsessed with marriage a bad thing? Oh, forgot you are one of ‘em anti-marriage advocates. Find peace.

Silentgroper:
is that lady of so.ifra ??

Not at all, Siofra is not wicked, just a playful controversial young lady.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Men bend their principle when they fall, maybe he hasn't really met that woman. Are you underestimating the power of a woman? To your amazement ehn the pansophist you know today will bend his principles when he finally meets that woman who has his soul. There's no man on earth that can remain too stiff when the right woman enters his life, take this to the banks. The truth is you shouldn't date his type of person if he's truly not into you deeply else he'll borrow another hard principle plus his already stiff principle to deal with you.

This might only happen at the start-up of the relationship ..

After a month or three, man Is back to default mode..


Once a man is principled, he is principled..

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. You are so hilarious.

“Allow him do his oga in peace indeed”. Who’s dragging position with a man? Do your thing and take your glory, but as long as you try to do right by me, we will be good. Pansophist has too much westernized ideas he has to purge, my opinion. But then, I have heard you, Nwanyioma.

Relationship are of mutual benefits, all rounds even financially..




Once you understand that then you'll have no problem with pansophist

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hopefully so. But, he will never part with his cash. Na AKA chichi.

would you part with yours to him??

Silentgroper:



Relationship are of mutual benefits, all rounds even financially..




Once you understand that then you'll have no problem with pansophist

What’s he to benefit? Financial gains or what?

Silentgroper:
would you part with yours to him??

It’s not a competition. Stop asking funny questions.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What’s he to benefit? Financial gains or what?

You didn't go to church just to be talking about your love life here?

BarrTheKing:
You didn't go to church just to be talking about your love life here?

I haven’t attended church in many months. What else? And who says talking about love are reserved for specific days?

Silentgroper:



Relationship are of mutual benefits, all rounds even financially.. Once you understand that then you'll have no problem with pansophist

These things easy for men to understand, but harder for women to get. As in, as I dey like this, I'll fall in love instantly like milk to my helper. As in, if any relationship go carry me comot from poverty, my brother, I'm already in love. God bless that woman

Na so one thread enter front page two days ago, how a girl dey call her crush immature because she toast him and he no gree. she didn't know that the guy have observed her love from far, come see say na suffer full inside.

Loving her will make him broker, wretched, and no peace. It has no value. But somehow, the girl expect the guy to be happy, because she "loves" him. The guy should be happy that you choose him as a perfect candidate to sponsor you.

But just like the jungle, the lion (men) have to understand the target (women), otherwise, he will starve. But since the target (women) always get chased, she sees no reason to understand the chaser. Hence women just don't understand men, end easily call our views controversial or the favourite one, toxic and mysoginist lol.

A Nairalander Divorcee should hook with me let's plan ours🚶🚶

Adootershima:
A Nairalander Divorcee should hook with me let's plan ours🚶🚶

You de find divorcee, not tear rubber

pansophist:


These things easy for men to understand, but harder for women to get. As in, as I dey like this, I'll fall in love instantly like milk to my helper. As in, if any relationship go carry me comot from poverty, my brother, I'm already in love. God bless that woman

Na so one thread enter front page two days ago, how a girl dey call her crush immature because she toast him and he no gree. she didn't know that the guy have observed her love from far, come see say na suffer full inside.

Loving her will make him broker, wretched, and no peace. It has no value. But somehow, the girl expect the guy to be happy, because she "loves" him. The guy should be happy that you choose him as a perfect candidate to sponsor you.

But just like the jungle, the lion (men) have to understand the target (women), otherwise, he will starve. But since the target (women) always get chased, she sees no reason to understand the chaser. Hence women just don't understand men, end easily call our views controversial or the favourite one, toxic and mysoginist lol.

I know it.


You see why women always attack you of mysoginistic comment, right? Did I tell you why he Rejected me or are you the said guy?

Stop being bias you men.

pansophist:


You de find divorcee, not tear rubber

Hahahahahahah
yes tear rubber no d gree sit, na tokumbo I want

UyaiIncomparabl:


I haven’t attended church in many months. What else? And who says talking about love are reserved for specific days?

So unbelievable that you are married (info reaching headquarters) babe la smart. That other way doesn't sit well with me for personal reasons, I hope you understand. Happy married life to you. God bless your home.

IyaebeTheGreat:

Respond to my mail.

UyaiIncomparabl:


That’s the goal of most woman no matter how successful and beautiful she is. Most women want a home where they can call theirs. So, what’s wrong with being obsessed with marriage? People are obsessed with different things ranging from kids, money, affluence, porn etc. How is being obsessed with marriage a bad thing? Oh, forgot you are one of ‘em anti-marriage advocates. Find peace.

Yeah, you have a point but singing it loud even to folks who might not be ready is what I'm against.

And it's just not Iyaebethegreat, it's a general Nigerian problem.

If there's any good lady (not with alarming beauty, just simple) who doesn't believe in social media trends but believes in having a honest conversation with husband about every decisions, plans, dreams, from both parties and not just arrive at unanimous conclusion but the best conclusion and who would not love & treat her husband the way the world does but the way it pleases God, pls message me in WhatsApp

Raalsalghul:


Yeah, you have a point but singing it loud even to folks who might not be ready is what I'm against.

And it's just not Iyaebethegreat, it's a general Nigerian problem.

Na now your day break!!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Na now your day break!!

Yes ke!