Konjiboii:


Lol you are just all over the place, insult me with your flat chest. You keep bringing people into the picture like I give a fvck. If you no dey fear insult me direct make thunder finally seal your pathetic hole which only function is to piss, you are a low budget feminist with a sprinkle of rumola under bridge ashewo, Better make hay while the single thread holding your toto together never slack make that urgent 2k to feed your bastard child.

You v described how your mom perished

labake1:



No, I won't use arms but my gifts

Ohh, but the way you said it really piqued my interest o. Las las we all know what we want, heaven helps those who help themselves. 😂😂😂😂😂

phemmyfour:
Same way you rejected others that has been on your list and non of them tag you as "immature". Men too have right to say NO

Ezioku

Rejection is a part of Life


People both male and female have been rejected from jobs, schools, admission, offers, business proposals



So what is it. A man must not accept You as a woman because You asked him. He might have his reasons. I don't buy everything sold to me In traffic or in the shopping 🛒 mall. It's called choice


A woman must not accept You because You asked her. It's called choice


Some of your friends as you grow might not pick Your call again if they become more successful or for women if they marry before their fellow woman


It's called Life

Get used to it

Dybala11:

Ohh, but the way you said it really piqued my interest o. Las las we all know what we want, heaven helps those who help themselves. 😂😂😂😂😂

Don't think too much, everything will be done by words. Some will say I manipulated my way🤭

Goodlady:

You v described how your mom perished

Seems like you are out of juice, try to be more creative next time. This mum, mum talk is played out. You could have been a good contender if you had continue with the same energy 3 quotes ago.
Now you bore me.
Be gone harlot.
Grumble your way out of my mentions.

labake1:



Don't think too much, everything will be done by words. Some will say I manipulated my way🤭

Almost everyone engages in manipulation one way or another, although women are better at that game compared to their male counterparts sha.

mrblessed:
Immature because he turned you down? Aunty, you are the immature fellow here. Move on, please.

She's pained to hell, she can't breath again. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Konjiboii:


Seems like you are out of juice, try to be more creative next time. This mum, mum talk is played out. You could have been a good contender if you had continue with the same energy 3 quotes ago.
Now you bore me.
Be gone harlot.
Grumble your way out of my mentions.

What do I tell a depraved boy like you. I m not in your level. You're like meruwa errand boys.

Goodlady:

What do I tell a depraved boy like you. I m not in your level. You're like meruwa errand boys.

Are there established level in life? What level are you now? I don't blame you though, you inherited one sided reasoning and prostitution from your mother.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You approached a Nigerian man first? Like seriously? I'll rather choke than try that. If I too like you and manage show you small green light and you are not smart, I simply ignore your existence . Don't ever try it again ooo

the relationship that has lasted for me were the once i got approached......never looked down or took advantage......a time would come I. Your life that you'll see a guy you can kill for, then all these i can't approach him will not matter.

Notorioustroll:
Are there established level in life? What level are you now? I don't blame you though, you inherited one sided reasoning and prostitution from your mother.

Mr sadness, you are back from ban.
I

Konjiboii:


Seems like you are out of juice, try to be more creative next time. This mum, mum talk is played out. You could have been a good contender if you had continue with the same energy 3 quotes ago.
Now you bore me.
Be gone harlot.
Grumble your way out of my mentions.

Koshi lo. Who want you before. Black broke boy

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

mugu, so guys should say yes to any female who jumps @ us? No now!

labake1:








Awon misogynist eyan
Fuq off

stay mäd

Dybala11:

Almost everyone engages in manipulation one way or another, although women are better at that game compared to their male counterparts sha.

True

Lemos14:


But they reject guys everyday..that immature word they use is a shaming tactic to cope when they realise they've been rejected

Lol I may be seeing all the green lights .. I will be doing my research.. make you no go downgrade my level for street. . if I find out one low life has Ur number .. babe it's a red flag for me .. and I will automatically friend zone you .. facts is no matter how sweet the food is when flies don pech .. I stay away to avoid diaoria

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Facts is he did research and found red flags .. alot of people like me will just .. find something and cut you off

Goodlady:

Mr sadness, you are back from ban.
I

You ban me? No you use your 2-inch vagina ban me, right? I will reduce the nutrients in you.

Karleb:
This is the only reason I think a woman shouldn't approach a man.

If he rejects you, how are you going to handle that? Some men can be very brutal with their rejection especially if you don't meet their requirements.

Naija mentality
You guys need to be going out more. Over here, any of the gender can approach first. Rejection isn't a big deal. Naija women should normalize approaching guys first and wel come rejection as well.

Men face rejection every time, so they don't see any big deal in it

Rokiat:


Rule number one: never pursue a man.

you and your stupid rules, this is 2023

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

now u know how it feels, when una dey reject guys anyhow nko? The reason why he rejected you was because it was new to him, maybe he taught you were not serious

E pain u enter body well well
So cuz you're a lady any man should accept you..
Abeg Gettat!!

okoroemeka:
women don't propose to men,it devalues your worth,all the babes that proposed to me I nacked and moved on,flirt or try to get his attention but never open mouth to chase a man,it always ends in disaster

The way you guys sound like knacking a girl is like carrying a champions league trophy.....lol. It is quite sad for adults to have such mentality.

MrBrownJay1:


so because a guy rejects your proposal, he is automatically immature?!

very immature of her to say that.. when she dey reject people since immaturity no join oh..

Klass99:


You know in Africa we are mostly fixated on three things sex, marriage and kids. The fixation often determines the quality of threads and posts you see on NL.

Sure. But from my observation, Nigerians generally tend to carry marriage mata for head, in comparison to other Africans. Or perhaps it's a trait particular to certain ethnic groups in Nigeria...I mean...I don't know.

A certain male moniker (Myñd or Mînd or something like that) has lived in Kénya and as a resident, he observed that the Kényan women he worked with would never bring up the issue of their marital status. In fact, he later learnt that most of them were married but they never ever felt it was a matter worth discussing or even declaring. He was a bit surprised, but kinda impressed by the whole thing. Same way I stay mum about my family life even here.

In this part of Africa, we generally don't use marriage as a weapon to mock unmarried women.
We generally don't stigmatise single mothers.
We generally don't stigmatise divorcees.
We generally don't stigmatise childless women (or men).
We generally don't stigmatise menopausal women.
We generally don't stigmatise people living with HIV.
We generally don't stigmatise persons living with disabilities.

Disclaimer - Of course that's not to say that you won't find a few who do stigmatise others for whatever reason.

I don't know what the future holds for Africans, but we'll be okay las las.

Have a good evening Klass.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

So because he says no to you makes him immature?

Klass99:


Lol 🤣. The truth is I know my people (Nigerians) are overzealous about marriage and we dey carry the matter for head like die.

I definitely need to move to a different part of Africa because even I can't deal with the crazy and obsessive fixation on these things. I used to think it was just a NL thing but the thoughts and opinions on NL is a reflection of who we are, what we think, how we think and the things we value.

Please think about it.

Farfalla:


Please think about it.

In this part of Africa, we generally don't use marriage as a weapon to mock unmarried women.
We generally don't stigmatise single mothers.
We generally don't stigmatise divorcees.
We generally don't stigmatise childless women (or men).
We generally don't stigmatise menopausal women.
We generally don't stigmatise people living with HIV.
We generally don't stigmatise person

I particularly find this interesting. Are you sure I won't migrate to your side?

folake4u:


I particularly find this interesting. Are you sure I won't migrate to your side?

Folake please do. You're welcome these sides ooo! And please come adorning your gele. Always a sight to behold. You people, along with the Zulu (they call theirs isicholo) adorn the loveliest headgears in Africa in my opinion.👌

No one here will bother you with the usual petty crap -- alpha this, feminism that, body count this, virgin that. Nobody cares!! And, the more southerly you go, the more liberal people get.

I'd advise you to start making early preparations for Operation Japa 2024! 😂

Farfalla:


Folake please do. You're welcome these sides ooo! And please come adorning your gele. Always a sight to behold. You people, along with the Zulu (they call theirs isicholo) adorn the loveliest headgears in Africa in my opinion.👌

No one here will bother you with the usual petty crap -- alpha this, feminism that, body count this, virgin that. Nobody cares!! And, the more southerly you go, the more liberal people get.

I'd advise you to start making early preparations for Operation Japa 2024! 😂

Awwww.

Omg. I love the Zulu dressing too especially their dance moves. It really is a sight to behold. 😊😊

All these alfa meils, body count, virginity talk and what not convos dey tire person really.

Amen oh.😂😂