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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by advanceDNA: 3:18pm On Apr 23, 2023
VinnyBaba:

OP

My issues with ur Thread is:

Why all those COMPLAINANTS are women. 😕

Does it mean Women Don't watch Porn@all? sad

Baba......na women way be that oooo....they never take responsibility for anything..... they will soon come and tag this ur post misogyny, hate and toxicity....they will even say men made them watch it..

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Animegirl(f): 3:18pm On Apr 23, 2023
LeyeWrites:
You can in the comfort of your room.


In a public forum, no. You can't go about spreading lies.


Small boy don't quote me again

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by DonroxyII: 3:21pm On Apr 23, 2023
adisacool:
It had no value to marriage.
You cant conclude this !

It may be immoral Sinful But that's it's not educational albeit Valueless might be a Fallacy ...

Sex education is a Taboo in Present Days Africa unlike olden days and many Marriages are crashing because of lack of Spices to Sex and the antecedents to sex as many do not know how to please nor pleasure one another ..... The just see sex as Open and Pour Comot .. Naaaaaa!

Do you know why some aristos hookups are the best housewives of nowadays while the intellectual folks are crashing .... Because aristos n Hookups are Experienced in the games of Pleasing their relationships while the Bookworms ain't!

It takes alot to have marital Bliss and if we are all afraid of delving into the forbidden issues then some would have to resort to somewhere else to have their fill

Meanwhile You need alot of Maturities and Damage control to do afterwards On Porn Whether Softcore or Hard-core because Your Average Women can never be a P.orn.star who has been drugged, sedated and Acting on many Hours packaged together as few Minutes .... It's all Messed Up But thanks to Mainstream Media alot of Spices are now being Added and there are many educational pieces online if you ain't go for Hard-core!
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by DonroxyII: 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2023
jaeyking:

When you look at it.
It offers no value, things like Mouth Action, head and anal sex gained more prominence from porn

Ladies craving for big dick, men craving to make women squirt was intensified by it.
Knowing fully well, these are actors and actresses who fake this tinx or probably use enhancers

Porn kills slowly
It sexualizes the human thought
Killing love and replacing with lust
Even in marriages
Let's not even dwell into its addictive nature.

Also, the value of Sex to Women has Increased unlike before where sex is see as means for Procreation for Women and enjoyment for men ....

Till date Many women don't understand Orgasm and the lack of it is affecting their psychology.......

This is Information Liberation Age and the beauty of Caucasian Race for Humanities!

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by justli: 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2023
suckmedownthere:
For the good side, learnt a couple of new sex styles, positions and tricks to keep out boredom and help keep us fit and healthy........ tongue

Judging by your ticker, one could you're addicted to it. But here is the thing, unless if your partner is a public property and wildly stretched out, what do you need all the so-called education for? It does no one any good.

The real problem is the unrealistic expectations you set for yourself. All the styles you crave, the novelty you fantasy about , all the beauty and sizes you hope for, but at the end you settle for what you have an that's an anticlimax. Its a terribly pathetic way of living through life because you keep chasing illusion and every single time falling back terrible disappointed your cravings can never be satisfied.

Compared that to the life of a couple that are not exposed to porn: it doesn't matter the quality of sex as long as the two mates are physically and emotionally involved, the sex is terrific and amazing. But for you , your porn exposed woman judge your performance based on scripted porn play , and sadly you also judge yourself likewise.
It's a sad life for porn users. The media sold them a dummy

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Spandy(m): 3:26pm On Apr 23, 2023
I am married to a woman who doesn't like sex, and also a stubborn woman. When she eventually allows you to have sex with her, she does nothing to make sex pleasurable. Sometimes I will decide to give her space for like two weeks before trying my luck. I am a very shy and guy and each time I plan to get a side chick, it ends up a disappointment.
I got involved in mastubation because of these reasons. I am praying that God change her for me.

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by rinzylee(m): 3:31pm On Apr 23, 2023
damosky12:
Pornography is like an hard drug. It begins, first, as a way of temporal release... Then it gets beyond that and becomes a stronghold. It can get so deep that people addicted to it don't want to admit it's the problem.


But the moment you realize it's a problem and you're willing and ready to get rid of it, you're a step closer getting rid of it...

Emptiness!!!

That's the word.


Your soul, spirit and energy is drained.



Immorality is corrosive.

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Spandy(m): 3:32pm On Apr 23, 2023
No! Its not true! I didn't get addicted when I wasn't married, it was the sexual frustrations I got from my wife that made me see mastubation as a second option to having the sexual pleasure I desire
Sixfeetbelle:


I think it started before they got married. By the time they were though, it had already become an addiction they couldn't stop no matter how they tried
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by hardon1(m): 3:36pm On Apr 23, 2023
Wait o, which porn are they talking about? is it a different porn they are talking about abi na same one wen I dey watch atimes undecided undecided undecided

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by hardon1(m): 3:40pm On Apr 23, 2023
rowland545:
I don't know wat u people are saying....make I quicky check my naijauncut telegram channel

Abeg give me the telegram link grin grin
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by hardon1(m): 3:44pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by damosky12(m): 3:45pm On Apr 23, 2023
rinzylee:


Emptiness!!!

That's the word.


Your soul, spirit and energy is drained.



Immorality is corrosive.

Are you alright? Did you carefully read the post well, or you aren't just dull?

Where's the immorality in the post you're quoting?
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Ubanz: 3:46pm On Apr 23, 2023
There are people who are not addicted to porn but are addicted to masturbation.

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by lereinter(m): 3:56pm On Apr 23, 2023
donbachi:
I did everything bad in my growing up..never watch porn and self service.


Really
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by lereinter(m): 3:59pm On Apr 23, 2023
Spandy:
I am married to a woman who doesn't like sex, and also a stubborn woman. When she eventually allows you to have sex with her, she does nothing to make sex pleasurable. Sometimes I will decide to give her space for like two weeks before trying my luck. I am a very shy and guy and each time I plan to get a side chick, it ends up a disappointment.
I got involved in mastubation because of these reasons. I am praying that God change her for me.

That's the only benefit of being a muslim

No woman can give you sex frustration

Your wife is enjoying it, carry your cross

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Zealag(m): 4:04pm On Apr 23, 2023
Porn is good and also bad as well.
It's better to watch porn and self service than to rape or become a pedophile or go out and contact an STI.porn might save you from going out and encountering danger in the night life.
Porn is not good for couples,unless they wanna explore or need it to spice their sex life e.g learning of different styles.So it's good and also bad.

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by pocom16: 4:05pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.

Na you sign the approval letter Abi.

Oshi

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Starz825(m): 4:07pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.
beware how you call hell....

its obvious you don't know anything about God....

its not God's will that people should go to hell...so mind aw u use the word hell

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by tunmoj(m): 4:24pm On Apr 23, 2023
Savage!!!
DARLINGTON869:


For the love of decency and sanity, why is ur monicker "suckmedownthere" Pls don't get me wrong, I am not judging you or anything like that but are you aware ur parents did naming ceremony for you and a pastor or Iman actually prayed over your head
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by SaLongs1(m): 4:24pm On Apr 23, 2023
People do exaggerate everything, has anyone ever watched a Rambo or Commando movie and proceeded to act like one?

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Dirpetaner: 4:27pm On Apr 23, 2023
dont watch it!!!! worse than cocaine
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by superCleanworks(m): 4:38pm On Apr 23, 2023
DARLINGTON869:


For the love of decency and sanity, why is ur monicker "suckmedownthere" Pls don't get me wrong, I am not judging you or anything like that but are you aware ur parents did naming ceremony for you and a pastor or Iman actually prayed over your head


for the love of WHAT IS YOUR BUSINESS? why does it matter to you? or is it because you feel the MONIKER is owned by a female then that ultimately gives you the UNCONTROLLABLE urge to barge in to start talking about decency & sanity? Holier than thou, Woman wrapper

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by suckmedownthere(f): 4:57pm On Apr 23, 2023
superCleanworks:


I can do what I like say what I like eat or drink what I like Bleep who I want any time any place..... As long as I dont intrude anybody's privacy THAT'S FINE BY ME....
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Chinny024(f): 4:58pm On Apr 23, 2023
Fut9ure:
See them all screaming the disadvantage

Nobody gonna mention its advantages

WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES 🤣🤣🤣🤔🤔🤔
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Chinny024(f): 4:59pm On Apr 23, 2023
suckmedownthere:
For the good side, learnt a couple of new sex styles, positions and tricks to keep out boredom and help keep us fit and healthy........ tongue
ARE YOU MARRIED?
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by suckmedownthere(f): 5:00pm On Apr 23, 2023
justli:


Judging by your ticker, one could you're addicted to it. But here is the thing, unless if your partner is a public property and wildly stretched out, what do you need all the so-called education for? It does no one any good.

The real problem is the unrealistic expectations you set for yourself. All the styles you crave, the novelty you fantasy about , all the beauty and sizes you hope for, but at the end you settle for what you have an that's an anticlimax. Its a terribly pathetic way of living through life because you keep chasing illusion and every single time falling back terrible disappointed your cravings can never be satisfied.

Compared that to the life of a couple that are not exposed to porn: it doesn't matter the quality of sex as long as the two mates are physically and emotionally involved, the sex is terrific and amazing. But for you , your porn exposed woman judge your performance based on scripted porn play , and sadly you also judge yourself likewise.
It's a sad life for porn users. The media sold them a dummy
You can say what you want to and believe what you want to....... I really don't give a Bleep... about that........ cool

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by SisterAnn(f): 5:01pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.
Hiaaan!
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by suckmedownthere(f): 5:05pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


All those styles, positions and tricks will send you and your spouse to everlasting Hell Fire.
The ONLY style and position God approves is the Man On Top Missionary Position.
Anything else, Hell Fire 🔥 straight.
Be warned.
Your missionary style you say was approved is written in the books of psalms or proverbs.... The same people who brought civilization to your forefathers who were roaming the bushes naked is same people doing porn....

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Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by SisterAnn(f): 5:07pm On Apr 23, 2023
Gospel2Day:


Wait till we get to the judgment seat.
You will wish you believed me.
All those styles and positions were invented in Hell to destroy humans eternally.
It is porn that popularized those whor-ish activities.
The fact that you picked a practice you saw in porn makes you culpable.
Repent now or regret forever.
Peace.
Jesus loves you ❤.
What verse in the bible prescribed the missionary sex position over others?
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by suckmedownthere(f): 5:09pm On Apr 23, 2023
Chinny024:

WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES 🤣🤣🤣🤔🤔🤔
Most of these people that claim to be holier than Jesus knows and still do doggy styles, but how the Bleep did they know the numerous sex positions...... MAYBE THE HOLY BOOK
Re: How Did Porn Impact Your Marriage? by Paulnoma(m): 5:15pm On Apr 23, 2023
suckmedownthere:
For the good side, learnt a couple of new sex styles, positions and tricks to keep out boredom and help keep us fit and healthy........ tongue

[/b]no good side[b]

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