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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 8:36am On May 09, 2023 |
Awakened38: Good Morning Awakened. I trust you had a great Night. I would like to ask what's your Gender?? 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 9:29am On May 09, 2023 |
Awakened38: Lol exactly. I'm not a Freak of Material Things. I'm Very Adventurous🏂 4 Likes |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 9:48am On May 09, 2023 |
Treassured: Hahahahahaha 😂 Looks like you're seeking a better half 😂 Anyway don't mind me; just kidding. I personally have a feeling that, important informations may sometimes be viewed or recieved with sentiment if it's identified with a particular gender as the source. I may be wrong, but personally, I've seen that happen with me a few times. Not that I take the information more or less seriously based on the gender, no, but there's the tendency to feel that this information may not apply to me because I'm of a different gender from the informant, or that the worldview of the informant is different from mine, so therefore the information may not apply as such. To that extent I personally prefer to remain gender anonymous here as much as possible, so my contributions can be seen with as little gender bias as possible . However, I can assure you that you're most probably right with your guess about my gender 😂. But if you're really interested in knowing, just do me a dm, and I'll gladly tell you. Nice having you here @Treassured. I can feel your positive energies. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 9:50am On May 09, 2023 |
Treassured: I feel you 😊 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by ahnie: 10:19am On May 09, 2023 |
Sorry for deviating from the topic....pls has anyone heard from Richy? God1000 have you heard from him, lately I haven't seen any of his post |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by God1000(m): 10:30am On May 09, 2023 |
ahnie:No dear |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by henrimoto(m): 10:50am On May 09, 2023 |
descarado:Extroverts and introverts are attracted to each other sometimes, if not all times. Why ? Each side/party likes one/two things about the order side/party. There are extrovert persons that are on the high side, they can talk, discuss,argue, mingle with passion from morning till dawn, when an introvert person is around such person (s), one of them must give room for the other. |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 3:25pm On May 09, 2023 |
Awakened38: First let me Apologize for my late Reply. It has been a quite busy Week for me. Hehe and I'm very eager to send an Emoji because this Post got me like. But I'm yet to Confirm your Gender lol🤣 You Write so Good. You must be a Poet. You will pass for the likes of ChimaAmanda and her likes. I'm Humbled. I'm bouncing Into your DM now🏃🏻 |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 3:31pm On May 09, 2023 |
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 9:25am On May 10, 2023 |
Treassured: Thanks so much for your generous remarks. Trust me you got my head bloated by your comparison of me to the likes of ChimaAmanda 😂; I nearly almost fainted o 😂. You're now the second person to speak to my writing potentiality. I thinks it's time for me to think seriously about the prospect, although I'm very lazy with execution. I've responded to your dm. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 9:28am On May 10, 2023 |
Treassured: Same here 🤔 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 2:10pm On May 10, 2023 |
Awakened38: ❤❤❤ |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 11:29am On May 13, 2023 |
Does this describe you? 😂 Hilarious!
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 5:30am On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 7:07pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Waoh I miss this Thread😎 Awakened38 I trust you have been Good hun? |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 5:01pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Treassured: Absolutely @Treassured . I'm doing as good as can be. Great to hear from you again. I've personally missed everyone. Hope you're fine yourself ☺. |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by oazeez1991(m): 8:03pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
As an HSP, I find it difficult to make friends cos I don't just have the energy. All I got are acquittances, which are always influenced based on the circumstances unfolding. I hardly seek for help, and I also dread rejection. Should one willingly offer to help me, but after my rejection, the person insisted and went on with it, I would automatically see myself being indebted to such person, and what would cloud my mind is a way of doing something as a form of payback for such generosity for the person. As a guy, I act too sensitive and emotional for one, as I feel things to the extreme and over analyze every situation. I feel bad when I say, NO to someone and do regret afterwards, even though my stand was the right thing to do. My conscience wouldn't just let go. The way I think doesn't most times, resonate with way other's think cos what seems to be abnormal and improper to me, is what the society adopted and glorified. Just recently, I received two goodnews which I wasn't expecting that moment, I just got super overwhelmed with it that my body became so hot and active, the adrenaline was just too much for me to curtail, that I had to go take a shower to calm myself a bit. I observe every little changes in someone or in a room, and I get to easily spot a fellow introvert. My personality trait was kinda rare and weird aswell, INFJ-T (Introverted, Intuitive, Feelings, Judgemental - Turbulent), plus I'm Melancholic in nature, coupled with my Cancer Zodiac Sign (even though most don't believe in this stuff, but I funnily do cos it mostly describe my person). Loving wisely has been something I'm finding difficult to do, cos I love easily and it's always to the extreme, and when I get hurt, it do affect me deeply. I presently still surfer from heartbreak of over 4-years ago and still blame myself for not listening to my inner self when it was showing me the glaring red flags which I overlooked, not until the shit hit me on the face. My mood swings wouldn't even help matter, this minute I'm happy, the next, I'm depressed. I mostly keep to myself and only relate with people I'm already familiar with to some certain degree and feel secure around. I hate anything violence and abrupt changes. I've read different books to probably help me out, even though, there are some improvements, I still feel somehow about my person. Books like, WHY U ACT THE WAY U DO; ATOMIC HABIT; QUIET, THE POWER OF INTROVERT IN A WORLD THAT WON'T STOP TALKING, etel. I joined some foreign Facebook groups like Empath, Old Soul, and the likes, I felt the westerners understand this differences in personality than we do here in Africa, and I also belong to an Introvert WhatsApp Group which also have been one of my coping mechanics, getting to have people who share similarities with myself, give this idea of, YOU AREN'T ALONE sense of belonging. It has really not been easy coping in a world dominated by those who shared a diverse personality with one. 4 Likes |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 1:00am On Jun 03, 2023 |
Awakened38: Oh Yeah. Thanks I'm doing good too. I hope we get to Spice things up on here☺ 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Brandiebird: 2:23am On Jun 03, 2023 |
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Psychopatheko: 3:31pm On Jun 03, 2023 |
Everything about this write up is describe me like am just tired am always having issues with people around me it’s just any little thing i tend to feel peoples pain like mine, it’s always extreme I stopped having friends, and I hate myself for feeling too much empathy I wish I can cure this, over thinking and also thinking about the future like now I already know the pain I’ll feel tomorrow like it’s just weird and most time it’s accurate 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 11:05am On Jun 06, 2023 |
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 11:16am On Jun 06, 2023 |
Psychopatheko: As you may have noted from the contributions on the thread thus far, you're far from alone. What you've got is not a burden but a gift from the universe. Let the reality of your nature be yes, "your own reality". Then you'll begin to see the incredible beauty and power that you posses. And yes, as with every good gift from God or the Universe, it comes with its blunt side. But the blunt side is necessary too. It's good to have you share your struggles here. Feel free to ask any questions here. I'll try to always find the time to share my perspectives, and I believe others here too will gladly throw in a word or two . Wishing you peace always 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 12:15pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
oazeez1991: Wow!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to share your struggles here with us. Believe you me, I can perfectly identify with you. So far, I think you come closest in terms of commonalities with I, but perhaps only because you've taken the pain of going into more details than most of us have done here. To be honest, I think you're doing very well already, in that, you're taking steps to both enlighten yourself and rob minds with likeminds. My advice for you is to stay the path, keep doing what you're doing. Continue to educate yourself using various available materials and associating with likeminds such as the groups you're already subscribed to. However, the most important thing you want to do is to realise that what you have is not a burden, but a gift. And please don't convince yourself of this or believe it, no, you need to realise this for yourself. It has to be your reality. And how do you do this? You do this by taking time to really analyse the trait(hsp), and then ponder, is it really the trait that's upsetting you or is it the fact that you're different from most, or that others see you as weird that is the problem? If you're different, remember that only a "different person" can make a difference in the world. You must get comfortable with being different, otherwise, you'll never be able to explore the wonderful gift that nature has bestowed in you, and you end up people pleasing all the time. Every great person I've ever known was considered weird. Stop trying to conform to the world. The problem with the world today is the problem of conformism; people ain't questioning the status quo enough, most are too afraid to be different. But all greats were those who dared to be different. That's why with due respect, I see some religious people as hypocrites; on the one hand they say they're followers of say Jesus for example, but they're not willing to be nonconformist as Jesus was, they're are not willing to standout from the crowd as there master. Brother Nature has bestowed upon you the potential for greatness - take it. And I'm not taking about greatness in terms of fame. If you're a truth seeker, by all means pursue that path. Spirituality has been my greatest strength. I experienced my awakening in pursuit of truth. Note that I'm not talking about religion but Spirituality in terms of self realisation. I have found peace in Spirituality. Wishing you peace 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by oazeez1991(m): 4:02pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
Awakened38: Thanks for taking your time to analyze and respond to my submission, likewise your valued advise. Your words are really soothing and comforting. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Psychopatheko: 8:26am On Jun 07, 2023 |
Awakened38: Thanks a lot boss I really appreciate I’ll take in your advice I believe it will work on me thanks again boss 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 9:04am On Jun 07, 2023 |
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Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Treassured: 11:03pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
All The Best Love❤ |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by shantti(m): 11:55pm On Jun 14, 2023 |
Am Highly sensitive too. What people say to me and how they say it to me affect me For years. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by shantti(m): 12:03am On Jun 15, 2023 |
I seriously need to relocate from this country where I would physically attend sessions that caters for hsp. My own is extreme. Am not understood here at all, like at all Everyone thinks I have great pride. |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by Awakened38: 6:11am On Jun 15, 2023 |
shantti: There are groups you can join online, where likeminds share their stories, struggles, and concerns daily. I believe they'll prove helpful pending when you are able to move. There are also materials on the trait online that better helps you understand yourself. |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by segcymoor(m): 9:50pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Awakened38: You are correct but then you are incorrect You can be alone even while in club Unquestionably, Happiness is found within but one needs to get to a level in spiritual development to attain such real genuine happiness Note: So called happiness mean many things to different people Money Sex Club Friend Oppressing fellow human .. just name However all this is shallow happiness Only Jesus may give deep and genuine happiness |
Re: Are You A Highly Sensitive Person(hsp) - Come In Here by segcymoor(m): 10:32pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Awakened38: You be M |
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