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Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by SmartyPants(m): 3:08pm On May 10, 2023 |
You won't let the boy fight, and you won't fight for him by talking to his parents?? If I were you I won't only allow my kid fight back, I will teach him WAR! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by WorldRichest: 3:10pm On May 10, 2023 |
victorVIC1: Let your son beat the autism out of him. Most autistic idiots become better when they are handled with iron hands. I have many examples in my former neighbourhood. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Kobojunkie: 3:12pm On May 10, 2023 |
gfelo:Mindlog, what do you suggest in a situation such as this? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Geovanni412(m): 3:14pm On May 10, 2023 |
victorVIC1: Your son should NOT strike with the boy He should grapple the guy and put him to sleep. If he can put the kid in the master lock or leg lock, that will be better. Your kid should go for submission manoeuvres to silence the bully. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Kobojunkie: 3:14pm On May 10, 2023 |
GOVERNORR:So, what exactly did you learn from that experience? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Buffalo2(m): 3:16pm On May 10, 2023 |
Oga, you better teach your chid how to confront adversaries or he ends up becoming a training material for bullies all his life. someone is suffering from autism and the next thing is to beating your child abi? e be like say he dey ment |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by TheGift: 3:17pm On May 10, 2023 |
victorVIC1: What's the alternative? Ask your kid to take a beating. Well, I don't know about fighting , but I think it is ideal to train your kids to stand up from themselves and never back down, even from a bigger bully. Because even if they lose the fight, they can keep their self respect. And the Bully will not try them again. Focus on teaching your kids self defense and immobilizing skills. They don't necessarily have to fight back. But they should never run away in fear of their peers. This is how they build self confidence. If the bully is an autistic kid then it's a special case and the above may not apply. However your kid should learn how to operate out of empathy and not hate or fear. You on the other hand need to talk to that kids mother; not as a fight or complaint but as one parent to another. Ask how she deals with it and she thinks your kid can deal with it. All the best. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by nedekid: 3:18pm On May 10, 2023 |
If you have sized the boy, that your son can shakara him "via motal combat" , then nothing wrong in him standing up for himself. But on the other hand if that other child na maniac, brut, abeg, no give him "moral" to go on suicide mission ohh.. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by BabaCommander: 3:19pm On May 10, 2023 |
scoobyblogspot:And build a school for his kids to school peacefully |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 10, 2023 |
I would have said you should register your child in a takwendo class or if you can't afford it, buy these old Chinese movies like drunken master, karate kids, new legend of shaolin,ip man, but since the attacker is autistic, just have a good dialogue with his mother. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by sunnymighty(m): 3:20pm On May 10, 2023 |
WorldRichest: Not sure you know anything about autism. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Dyfynezz12(m): 3:28pm On May 10, 2023 |
4 dis Nigeria way everything na gbas gbos Na im u want raise weak pikin,continue! When the Bible said 'right from the days of John the Baptist the kingdom of God suffereth Violence and the violent ones taken it by force' the Bible was referring to Nigeria cox No weak person can make it in this current Nigeria.So, train ur son to be a very strong man |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by MeaslesMumpsRub: 3:41pm On May 10, 2023 |
ahnie: Lol You are breeding bullies. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 3:46pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kasdat5: ^^^ Sir/Madam, you have no joy. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Streetmovement(m): 3:46pm On May 10, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking If possible enroll your son in a kung Fu class, make he beat like 3 years commot for the boy body, I hate bullies |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 3:51pm On May 10, 2023 |
Poanan: ^^^ On behalf of the crater at the top of Mount Fuji, I endorse this message. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 3:53pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: ^^^ The dynamic is different for males. Your dad got involved because you are female. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On May 10, 2023 |
Fujiyama:I never said I was female. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by randymirrors(f): 3:55pm On May 10, 2023 |
NoToPile: This was interesting to read. It means your son respects, loves and looks up to you. That's why he took your words to heart and your words encouraged him. I believe he sees you as his greatest support. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by NuCypher: 3:57pm On May 10, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:This is the worst advice anyone can ever give a kid. He should teach his kids about autism? He really should teach his 3-year-old kid about autism? Are you smoking something? In trying to be nice with your response, you are actually been unwittingly evil. Nobody should ever have to take this horrible advice. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 4:00pm On May 10, 2023 |
scoobyblogspot: ^^^ I was brought up this way...I was never given that talk every father should give his sons in particular, about bullies. I am not repeating that mistake with my kids - I have told them NOT to be the aggressor but they are under strict instructions to immediately return rocket fire whenever bullies and other troublemakers engage them. Those are the rules. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Kobojunkie: 4:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
NuCypher:1. We have here an autistic child as a neighbor. We started teaching the kids early about autism as a result so they know not to shun the boy or take whatever he does personally. The boy is able to come over from time to time on play dates as a result, and the kids do not make a big deal of him and his noisy, sometimes irrational mannerisms, as a result. The world does not go in a straight line. More times than none you have to take yourself off that path you have been stuck on for so long in order to understand and accommodate perspectives different from that which you have forever been used to. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 4:01pm On May 10, 2023 |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by randymirrors(f): 4:04pm On May 10, 2023 |
Poanan: Beat him ko, beat him ni. See your twisted mouth like beat him. I'm sure you're very local. Illiterate or semi-illiterate. It's illiterates that beat their children anyhow. You talk like you lack exposure. Why would you beat a child because you want to correct him on how to handle bullying? You're not ok. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by swiych(m): 4:04pm On May 10, 2023 |
My mom tell me say no more head of fish 4 me, I scattered d bully face with blow d next day, from dat day onwards he started dreading me. My mom was like " u wey dey chop to d extent say ur belle go wan burst, u go let ur mate wey he mama dey hardly buy ice cream or buns 4 dey beat u, nor worry no more head of fish for u again, and she know say I like head of fish dat year". D next day, na me go find d boy. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Fujiyama: 4:05pm On May 10, 2023 |
gfelo: ^^^ Don't fret. All you need to do is redirect her aggression to 'self defence only' - and she'll be fine. Besides, she's still a baby. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Kobojunkie: 4:06pm On May 10, 2023 |
swiych:Yet the average Nigerian is bullied every day at work, by their leaders, etc., thinking it best to make excuses in other to continue in that bullied state. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by novia22(f): 4:08pm On May 10, 2023 |
This post just dey make me laugh... |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Poanan: 4:08pm On May 10, 2023 |
randymirrors: Obviously looking for attention. Can't stoop to your level else I get dirty. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Opatoranking(m): 4:26pm On May 10, 2023 |
The boy In question is autistic …. Proper work should be done on him by his parents. Dear sir, do not wait till he uses a sharp object on your son before you will put a stop to the act. Nobody here, I repeat nobody here will accept other wards to bully their child regardless of any medical conditions. Experience they say is the best teacher. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Karleb(m): 4:36pm On May 10, 2023 |
Yes. Also train him on how to fight back. But teach them restrain. |
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