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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Munzy14(m): 3:13pm On May 14, 2023
Exmilitant:
These foreign names wey una dey call children dey vex me. Wetin be Charles and Daniel?
Whatever happened to Izuchukwu, Uwem, Adebola, Ovundah?

God help Africa!!
I tire o😁
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Danniedpastor(m): 3:14pm On May 14, 2023
maasoap:

None of them gave him another English name, that's acceptable.
Your in-laws might not be deep in village stuff to be able to give a native name. They give the kind of names they are used to.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Tobianojoel(m): 3:20pm On May 14, 2023
ceejay80s:

They aren't foreign, we christians name our kids after a Saint or men of God in the Holy bible
Eg Saint Charles , Saint daniel
Charles is not in the bible. It's an English name.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Stevven(m): 3:51pm On May 14, 2023
You need stand your ground but still bro , go for a DNA test. Something is wrong.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by GboyegaD(m): 4:25pm On May 14, 2023
Elliotwaveforec:

I no kill myself oga! If you wan kill yourself, find rope o.

Then stop acting pained over someone's decision
What he calls his child is not your business.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ajakuai(m): 4:47pm On May 14, 2023
I only know about grandparents giving native names and not to encounter an existing English name by his parents.

Telll them to call him by any native name of their choice instead.

Your case is peculiar.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Setia888(f): 5:00pm On May 14, 2023
So sad bro, but everything is okay

slot gacor
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ceejay80s(m): 5:32pm On May 14, 2023
Tobianojoel:
Charles is not in the bible. It's an English name.
There was a Saint called Charles abi?
Father thansi is a Nigerian and a Saint,
Francis is a Saint but not in the bible
Patrick a Saint but not in bible
Abeg make una allow me my life
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by zedegit: 5:33pm On May 14, 2023
joeargy:

The problem is he is answering that name, we live close to them hence the frequent visits...if u call him Daniel, he will say ehh!!

Change location when your rent expires and limit visitation.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by OtunbaJ: 6:29pm On May 14, 2023
Ever8090:
People just get problem for this life I swear,...what is wrong with grand parents giving their grand child a name?.. some times not even grand parents,but even neighbors calls children different names,..

This so called civilized and religious generation will be acting mumu like mumu....
na ur type woman go use her money or collect their father money come marry u, u go say nothing is wrong with it. Mr Uncivilized n pegan generation
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by OtunbaJ: 6:34pm On May 14, 2023
JeffreyJunior:
I don't really see an issue in this.

Grandparents always have preferred names for their grandkids and oftentimes, the names are born out of their belief in reincarnation.

My grandma called me Obim until she died because she believed I was reincarnation of her late husband and she practically begged my dad to name me after the man which is why my Igbo name is Obi×××. U are correct nothing is wrong with that, but urs is a native name, if the in-laws call the boy by native name of their choice is ok but countering the englishe name the father gave the boy

Your inlaws mean no harm, please let it go.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ohuko: 6:37pm On May 14, 2023
Exactly
Never live near your inlaws


donbachi:
change location
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by blackboy2star(m): 6:48pm On May 14, 2023
My dad always call my daughter Elizabeth
My wife and I 'Naomi'
My mum 'Atilayo'...

She will decide when she grows..
Not an issue for me as the name on the birth certificate won't change
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by slevan: 7:58pm On May 14, 2023
What is wrong with you?
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by MemoriesAndMe: 12:47am On May 15, 2023
@OP, I don't think there's anything to worry about. Grandparents often have their own fantasies too and may have decided to name their grand-child that.

My mother still calls my kids by names she chose for them, but all that's is temporary, the kids know their real names. So don't worry about anything bro.

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Bimbilla(m): 7:16am On May 15, 2023
Nothing to worry about they maybe protecting him against his bad people they may not want some people to know his real name
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Cujo007: 8:50am On May 15, 2023
I had a similar problem when my son was born and I had to do something about it quickly. My advice to you, if you don't like it, nip it in the bud fast. Don't concern yourself right now about who is going to feel bad about it. What matters right now is you and your son. When you are at their place, if anyone calls him what you don't want, correct the person right there and then to the hearing of everyone. When you've done that about 5 times, they'll get the message
joeargy:
Hi everyone, I will appreciate ur advice...

My son is 2yrs old , when he was born I and my wife named him Charles but my wife's mother and father can't stop calling him Daniel, when ever my son is at their place for holidays or visits, they call him Daniel and all their neighbors and friends now call my son Daniel.

I remembered I told my wife about it and her mother heard and felt bad, he is my son and not theirs, I understand grandparents give their grand children names too, I have a name from my grandparents but they call me by the one my parents gave me...

What do I do house?

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Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by JALOZIE: 3:17pm On May 17, 2023
there is nothing wrong for grand parents to give their children their preferred name its normal. its not something you have to panic about ,eave them.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Pootle: 6:40pm On May 17, 2023
joeargy:

The problem is he is answering that name, we live close to them hence the frequent visits...if u call him Daniel, he will say ehh!!

grin grin
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Exceed15: 4:06pm On May 21, 2023
Change location. Take him far away from them
.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Exceed15: 4:22pm On May 21, 2023
ibkayee:
If the gentleman doesn’t want his own son to be addressed by another name I don’t see the issue.

This is how overstepping boundaries gets normalised in a lot of Nigerian homes, it always starts with something seemingly trivial

I’d be interested to know the wife’s feelings

God bless you bro.
We are different and what bothers us are different. Let's respect the op opinion.
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ibkayee(f): 5:47pm On May 21, 2023
Exceed15:


God bless you bro.
We are different and what bothers us are different. Let's respect the op opinion.
Lol tani bro eh?
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by Exceed15: 3:54pm On May 24, 2023
ibkayee:

Lol tani bro eh?
Oh sorry my lady.. lol
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ibkayee(f): 4:05pm On May 24, 2023
Exceed15:

Oh sorry my lady.. lol
cheesy
Re: My Wife's Family Calling My Son Another Name by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:39pm On May 24, 2023
JALOZIE:
there is nothing wrong for grand parents to give their children their preferred name its normal. its not something you have to panic about ,eave them.

I think you are missing his point, giving a
name to child is your own honour as parent

If grandparent name child their are taking that honour away from you

Grandparent had the opportunity have child and name them

So why are you taking away that honour from these parents ?

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