pocohantas:
I can see you are a troublemaker.


But this one is your family problem na. I have been working since I was 22 (Post NYSC). If my brother says he has been working to provide for the females in the family, thunder fit strike am.

I shouldn't even be making that post.

There is a point people will talk so much nonsense and make all your hard work look like a waste of time.

Nature have already placed men in a position of suffering and carrying others on the back. Only a lazy man will not acknowledge that..and we won't complain as long as God continues to bless the works of our hands, but when some women want to ridicule it..mehhn.

Emaprince:
So I should pull out my worth and post

I never asked you to do that, dearest Prince. I am only saying the females in your house shouldn't kill you for your future wife. Some of us have been working and probably work harder than many men.

Emaprince:


I shouldn't even be making that post.

There is a point people will talk so much nonsense and make all your hard work look like a waste of time.

Nature have already placed men in a position of suffering and carrying others on the back. Only a lazy man will not acknowledge that..and we won't complain as long as God continues to bless the works of our hands, but when some women want to ridicule it..mehhn.

Okay, I get you now. No ones hard work is a waste because if e easy, everybody go run am.

While I am all for a provider male, I would be worried if a man I am romantically involved with is catering for so many females or people generally.

pocohantas:


I never asked you to do that, dearest Prince. I am only saying the females in your house shouldn't kill you for your future wife. Some of us have been working and probably work harder than many men.




Okay, I get you now. No ones hard work is a waste because if e easy, everybody go run am.

While I am all for a provider male, I would be worried if a man I am romantically involved with is catering for so many females or people generally.

Na from my dad anyway. But not like I dey feed everybody. I help those that I can. But there are some that are mandatory.

Eg..our lastborn in her early twenties, just finished her nysc last year.. and taking a data analysis course currently. I dey pay her 50k monthly pocket money. Nobody asked me to do so. I feel that it's necessary.

I have a few others that I drop something for monthly. I always pray to meet up these demands..and so far, I Thank God.

[quote author=pocohantas post=123358417] I can see you are a troublemaker.

How?

Truth be told there's a deliberate attack on marriages via homosexualitiies, porn, crazy philosophies against marriage especially by the social media, feminism even by posts like this. Notice that despite how many good marriages are out there,it's never popularized nor outrightly celebrated that good marriages severally exist.
Besides it's another reason why the cost of marriages should be 60/40 at least... So if it calls for a wrap, u go your separate ways with no much regrets (at least financially cos truly men are mostly the victims of marital jagajaga, if it sets in).

bukatyne:


Let's take the men's behaviors at face value:

What would make husband 1 an enemy of progress with the intent to ruin her career? He saw teachers who would be home every night, he did not marry; instead he went for a doctor.

What would make husband 2 a septic tank always giving his wife STDs like he is their chief distributor in Nigeria?

I would like to hear your justifications for their actions.

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If you check am well

He my not even be providing enough for the family
But he wants to ruin her life and career

iammo:
Divorce is never the solution, marriage is not meant to be perfect

This mentality has caused untimely death for many people male and female.

Jennyclay:
the man is just a foolish confused man who has no reasons for his action.

The man is also a randy man reason his wife keeps getting STDs.

Honestly, I just hate Nigerian men!! They’re so disgusting and irritating

He could have reasons for his actions though. But instead of victimising the wife why not just leave the wife?

Bouncin:
I bet those women suffering abuse in marriages are mostly people that married because of money. They will see good people but because they were struggling at the time, they will run and leave them to an already made man, expecting haven. Well, some do see the haven but majority see shege instead.

Sorry oo sorry oh.

The woman described in the OP is a doctor-to-be. Is she also starved of money?

Obaaderemi2:
This mentality has caused untimely death for many people male and female.

Seriously! Many untimely deaths and battered lives.

Almost all of Nigerian men beat women!

A woman should make efforts to leave the marriage if there is violence ( emotional and physical).

This thread made me

I wish Nigeria policemen are that good to help the women out of violence relationships.

Good thing Nigerian women are fighting back by leaving...not many are divorcing but it is a good beginning.

Tito24:
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If you check am well

He my not even be providing enough for the family
But he wants to ruin her life and career

Don't mind him.

How much does it cost to do surogacy here in Nigeria

Dalil8:
In all of this. Na men i blame. If you stop marrying women would divorce exist? NO

I'm more concerned about the money & properties lost by men during divorce (Alimony, child support). Remove that and trust me, men would marry and divorce for sport.

If u take away every single woman from the world today the only challenge would be procreation. But even that can be fixed, as there are babies that were grown outside the womb. Science and technology would fix that easily.

MEN, be like me. Modern men do not need women.

1. Make money, get all ur kids through surrogacy or whichever means you chose, that doesn't require women.

2. Hire a nanny or nannies to take care of your kids. That way u don't have to deal with all the baggage that comes with a Wife hoe.

3. Have fun.

No paternity fraud, no worrying about ur hoe cheating on you, no unnecessary female drama in ur life plus its 100% cheaper than having a wife

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nlfpmod:
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PREACH ON…

Sadly, so many Nigerian men primitively think they own their wives! SMH
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I stopped reading at “she was the life of the party”...if she wanted to keep being a groupie she should’ve remained single.
“Your friend was getting stds and she wasn’t cheating” lol. Who we go ask? You? Of course what do we expect you to tell us?

Lastly everyone is capable of evil men and women alike. I have no pity for anybody in a bad marriage they most likely rushed into it.
Anything you see take.

Until Naija females stop seeing marriage as highest achievement, una go continue dey see shege XXL.

Kobojunkie:
Your own blindness, dem no dey buy am for market at all!

Another sorry case.....lol

bukatyne:


You can decide not to enjoy your marriage, your business.

At least I have a marriage

Loneliness no be way o

Chemlite:

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Truth they say is always biter.