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I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by SultanOfAbia: 9:44pm On May 31, 2023 |
I began to get close with a girl I'm dating for months. She started spending night in my house recently. This is the 4th time I'm spending night with her and I keep noticing something strange about her Due to the fact that I am a night crawler work late till around 2am I noticed that the smallest sound wakes this girl up. She can be in deep sleep snoring, if you just drop pen for ground. This girl will wake up. She can be sleeping long hours if I move chair, just small sound. This girl will wake up The sound of slippers moving is enough to make this girl wake up from deep sleep. Any small sound this girl will wake up I opened a can of malt, the sound woke this girl up. She will wake up look around and go back to sleep. Is this a sign of trauma?? I feel like she doesn't sleep at all.. it's weird how alert she is during deep sleep. I'm even thinking of dumping her It's scary that she can easily wake up if pin drop for floor. Any small sound she will just wake up. Is this normal? 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by brain54(m): 9:47pm On May 31, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:You too wey Dey notice every… No be the same boat una Dey so? 57 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by SultanOfAbia: 9:54pm On May 31, 2023 |
brain54:Bible says no sleep for the wicked I don't know if this is a sign that this girl is wicked? Maybe that's why she can't sleep well 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Creamypie(m): 9:58pm On May 31, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:infact na me you dey refer to in this message. it is very normal. Na brain alertness/sensitivity to enviromnent (recticular activating sytem, found in the mid-brain, pons, medulla, and part of the thalamus) Na so me be. Further more, the place am sleeping must be dark, I must not face window, no noise at all, whether from phone Call, music, even discussion between 2 persons. If its day time, I dey use cloth cover eyes so reflection of light no go enter, so I can nap. I can't sleep straight from night till morning. Totally impossible. I dey wake every one hr, stay awake for 30 mins, doze off, wake up after 50 min, stay up for another 30 mins.during this period of short sleep and wake up, every slight movement in d compound dey noticed from my bed. This circle continues till past 4 am, then I can sleep partially deep till 5:30. Am used to it 54 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by brain54(m): 9:59pm On May 31, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:If you too are sleeping… How come you notice her actions? I guess you are more wicked… because atleast she sleeps even though disjointed. You don’t even sleep at all. Just watching her actions. Wicked soul! 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Administration1: 10:04pm On May 31, 2023 |
Trauma dude, |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Emma513: 10:06pm On May 31, 2023 |
NO TIME TO WRITE MID NIGHT TEXT TO ANOTHER LOVER. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by SultanOfAbia: 10:38pm On May 31, 2023 |
Emma513:I swear even ordinary phone notification she go wake up look around and fall back to sleep. It's crazy!! The fact that she sleeps early around 10pm while I sleep late around 12 or 2am. I have to leave the room , cuz if I stand up move around she will wake up. If chair shift small she go wake up. Im tempted to ask her if she be witch.. How can someone be so alert during heavy snoring sleep. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by SultanOfAbia: 10:39pm On May 31, 2023 |
Administration1:One night I mess for chair, it woke this girl up... Omo if I marry this one, I no fit cheat in peace. Her alertness during sleep is something else!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Clinghton: 10:51pm On May 31, 2023 |
Might be natural not all people are heavy sleepers, ask to know if it has something to do with her past. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Rosaline5000: 11:04pm On May 31, 2023 |
I dont know whether it's trauma but I am exactly like that, a very light sleeper, any little noise makes me to wake up. What actually caused my problem was when I was small like 8 years or so, we had Arm robbers raiding our streets and I remembered been so scared that period, we lived in an upstairs apartment with another upstairs building facing us, so one day that upstairs building facing us was robbed, the Robbers robbed 4 apartments out of the 8 apartments then few days later they came back to rob the remaining apartments. I remembered been so scared not just about the robbers but the thought of been so hopeless, the Robbers robbed for hours and no help came even when somebody from one of the flats called the police, they didn't come. So everybody start saying that we are next and the Robbers were coming for our building, I swear i couldn't sleep, every little sound wakes me up and I am always praying, begging God that I dont want to experience that kind of trauma of getting robbed, when the Robbers rob that other building, they injured so many people tho they didn't kill anyone but still i didn't want to experience that fear. Long story short, God answered my prayers, I guess that was my first time in experiencing something spiritual, the Robbers came but they couldn't break down our door which was so weird because even me can break down the door, the door was so fragile with just one old bolt holding it but they couldn't and they left, I swear when they were trying to break down the door, all i did was pray and pray and I experienced a beautiful miracle, the Robbers left and didn't even bother going to our neighbour's house, they left and never came back to our street till we left that place. Anyway since then I became very self aware when sleeping, every little sound wakes me up. I guess people that sleep through storms are those that have never experienced something bad. 35 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by slimjohn2k5: 11:10pm On May 31, 2023 |
Is a very good thing for me because I'm sure someone is alert when I am in dreamland. People struggle at night during sleep n die. With such person u r sure someone is watching. My wife doesn't sleep on time, infact she cannot sleep till everyone is in the bed. I myself use to have sleep arrest when cold (what some of us call spiritual attack) and she is the one that have woken me up from it multiple times. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by boltwings: 11:13pm On May 31, 2023 |
thats how I sleep...I call it lion or cat sleep lol. Always alert even while sleeping 5 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Kingray10: 11:14pm On May 31, 2023 |
Boss, it's simple she doesn't feel secured. Maybe she Dy fear make you no press her neck for night. 32 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by SultanOfAbia: 11:15pm On May 31, 2023 |
boltwings:That is not healthy at all.. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Vinnie2000(m): 11:20pm On May 31, 2023 |
OP, she is a Light sleeper. BTW, Will you Marry this Girl?😏 Na Person future Wife u dey camp for House and Fcvk, abi? 😟🤦 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Chislon(m): 12:10am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Creamypie: |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by IbrahimSkiba(f): 12:17am On Jun 01, 2023 |
I don't think it's anything abnormal My mom does the same thing. Every little thing wakes her up from her deep sleep / snoring. Infact sef, sometimes e dey even vex me, I go tell her say whether person no go do something again for house just because say she dey sleep. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by MrAgbako: 12:44am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Omolomo She dey alert. Before someone son go put calabash for her head.. kanayo kanayo style😂 18 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Blitzking: 1:27am On Jun 01, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:You want make the girl loose guard for this economy.abeg free the babe jare 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Walezy2020: 1:30am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Rosaline5000:miracle no dey tire Jesus 1 Like |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Elijah3D: 1:37am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Kingray10:you made me laugh so loud i woke up my roommate. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Holybaddo: 1:44am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Omooh everyone different wahala I can't sleep where it quiet Infact I live in places that is noisy so I can sleep It makes me feel safe |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Elijah3D: 1:52am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Holybaddo:No go enter military oo abeg Na your type go dey sleep for war front 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Holybaddo: 1:54am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Elijah3D:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Omooh |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by nokspos: 2:06am On Jun 01, 2023 |
She's not comfortable in your house yet, she's scared something might harm her thus her consciousness is always at alert. It's a natural thing for our body to secrets some defense adrenaline by them self, depending on the situation our mind finds itself. with time it will change when she gets comfortable. Meanwhile if you are considering dumping a girl for this flimsy excuse, it means you don't love her at all, I'll advise you kuku dump her anyways. Let the poor girl find a more matured man on time. 12 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by HussenAdul: 2:22am On Jun 01, 2023 |
The girl is at alert. She no wan hear story say them don use am do ritual |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Veezy4u(m): 2:23am On Jun 01, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:So u know bible yet u de fvck woman n want even waste her time then dump her😁 na shege u go see if you no repent 😐 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by etrange: 4:16am On Jun 01, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia: Are you being serious right now? The way you guys casually say things like this explains why some ladies don't have mindset to stay committed in a relationship. With no regards to her feelings as a human being, you want to dump her cause she's a light sleeper. Then you pick up another one and maybe also dump her cause she sleeps too much. Afterwards, you start asking why your women can't be faithful to one man. As an employee, how committed would you be to a boss who speaks casually about firing you at the slightest provocation without any regards to the ruin that might do your life? Wouldn't you have contingency plans? I believe the lady does this because she's not at her place. This happens to many us. When we're passing the night anywhere other than the place we're used to, we either find it hard to sleep or wake up so easily when we do. But let's even assume for a moment that she had an experience in the past that made her this way. Your response to that is to dump her? Honestly, when I read things like this, I just pity the Nigerian girls cause it seems the quality of men they're left with declines everyday. Y'all go around complaining about girls, but the truth is, they are a reflection of the men they mingle with. Good luck. 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Goalnaldo(m): 4:39am On Jun 01, 2023 |
Lol we are both the same. Even a shadow of someone when there is light wakes me up. I'm even grateful to God for that. Nothing to fear. |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by pussyeater(m): 5:01am On Jun 01, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia:Werey! Note the bolded... If the bible say no sleep for the wicked, na you gangan be the wicked because you be the night crawler. At least she dey sleep. 4 Likes |
Re: I'm Worried, She Does This Every Night by Fiscus105(m): 5:18am On Jun 01, 2023 |
SultanOfAbia: Instead of you to sit her down and try to know reasons and probably sort it out. You rush to open market to announce. Anyway, I pity the poor girl believing she met heartthrob. Still imagine how Marriages would finally be a decade to come. |
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