Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

Lol. Dem just break this one's heart. Imagine ranting about relationship at almost 1am. You're advising girls to double date provided they're not married, continue... guys would just keep passing you around until you hit 30. Then you'll have sense.

There are responsible young men out there but no it's bad boys and players you want. The kind of guys you date, tells the kind of person you are. If you want a decent relationship, date a decent guy it's as simple as that.

Nicely penned. I wonder why dating stretches that long in Nigeria. It makes no sense tbh. Half a year is enough to know who is serious or not

Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman that is baby mama

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a baby mama shower Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.
God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE.

You may be right, if a man is wasting your time, you're probably not his choice, he's managing you.

Women select whom to date, men select whom to marry. If he never mentions marriage or hints at a future with you, then you're a bed warmer.

Same way for men, if she's always billing you, then she's a time waster. A woman who cares will be considerate about wasting your finances.

Men are not time wasters, you just decided to put all your eggs in one basket and it’s wrong

A song write said, good plan is a Plan A, better plan is a Plan B. If possible you can also have a plan C

It’s good to always have a plan A,B ,C and play your card well. Honestly I’m wiser now!!

Thank God for wisdom!!

felong:
Lol. Dem just break this one's heart. Imagine ranting about relationship at almost 1am. You're advising girls to double date provided they're not married, continue... guys would just keep passing you around until you hit 30. Then you'll have sense.

There are responsible young men out there but no it's bad boys and players you want. The kind of guys you date, tells the kind of person you are. If you want a decent relationship, date a decent guy it's as simple as that.

The shallow mentality again.
What if she didn't get a heartbreak?
You men want loyal babes. Even those talakanaires among you want loyal babes that you ll date for long till you get money. While dating, you ll fûck her as much as you want, waste her time. Some of you ll get that money and feel she's not good enough. She's not waiting to eat your money but to enjoy love that she has invested her commitment in.
Men set the rules and still break the rules.
Even when they date for long & later marry, they ll still cheat like a cursed he-goat!

Ladies, shine your eyes. Prolonged dating is a red flag.

Goodlady:

The shallow mentality again.
What if she didn't get a heartbreak?
You men want loyal babes. Even those talakanaires among you want loyal babes that you ll date for long till you get money. While dating, you ll fûck her as much as you want, waste her time. Some of you ll get that money and feel she's not good enough. She's not waiting to eat your money but to enjoy love that she has invested her commitment in.
Men set the rules and still break the rules.
Even when they date for long & later marry, they ll still cheat like a cursed he-goat!

Ladies, shine your eyes. Prolonged dating is a red flag.

Another expert

Hooo is like she don waste her time too mush in relationships. Experiance matter.

There are many women who saw short term courtship as a blessing. They got married, got divorced after two years and are back to chasing the guys they once called time wasters.

You were a good girl but your desire to get a husband did not come to fruition, you then believe the solution to getting someone to marry you fast is to be disloyal?

The reason your man isn’t in a haste to get married is because there’s another lady who has taken your advice to not be loyal, she’s cheating on her own bf with your man. The opportunity cost of marrying you is that he would have to give up the pleasures of being with the other girl.

The bottom line is marriage is not the ultimate, there are relationships that are way better than some people marriages. If you leave a decent human being because he’s not ready in six months, whatever you see in the hands of 4ck boys out there is your cross to bear.

If you feel he is wasting your time,then move on to the one that won't waste your time or you marry yourself. Simple stuff

Date these hookup girls in six months and you want to marry her or date these ashawo men in six months and you want to marry them.. I laugh in English language That is like sitting on a keg of gun powder. Six months is not enough to know your partner .. Marriage is not dating.. Its supposed to be a life time stuff. Ordinary dating in a year,there are some persons you won't still understand, cux they pretend and hide who they really are. This is why he won't beat you under that one year of dating, but after marriage, he turns you to a punching bag. Some already have kids with other women,and you wont know this in 6months. After marriage war will begin,before you will know marriage is broken. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage .. Move on if you can't wait,to marry should not be by force or pressure ..

Jennyclay:
Men are not time wasters, you just decided to put all your eggs in one basket and it’s wrong

A song write said, good plan is a Plan A, better plan is a Plan B. If possible you can also have a plan C

It’s good to always have a plan A,B ,C and play your card well. Honestly I’m wiser now!!

Thank God for wisdom!!

That is why I talk about double dating, and it shouldn't exceed 6months it long enough to know who has good intentions for you or not.

felong:
Lol. Dem just break this one's heart. Imagine ranting about relationship at almost 1am. You're advising girls to double date provided they're not married, continue... guys would just keep passing you around until you hit 30. Then you'll have sense.

There are responsible young men out there but no it's bad boys and players you want. The kind of guys you date, tells the kind of person you are. If you want a decent relationship, date a decent guy it's as simple as that.

ladies make una get sense ohhhh, don't date any useless human more than 6months. They aren't worth it.

Prettygirl200:
ladies make una get sense ohhhh, don't date any useless human more than 6months. They aren't worth it.

6 months is not enough to know your partner. Be wise not to make a wrong decision. Marriage is not dating ..

UptownVibes:
6 months is not enough to know your partner. Be wise not to make a wrong decision. Marriage is not dating ..

It is enough oga, infact it is more than enough, what are u looking for that u can't study who u are dating for that period of time? That's why it's called dating, you guys are fond of wasting the time of women it's not going to be like that again. Ladies any guy u date within six months and you can't see any form of seriousness or any good intentions from him please discard him.

Tenrack:
Another expert

If you say that again I ll press your neck.

Prettygirl200:
It is enough oga, infact it is more than enough, what are u looking for that u can't study who u are dating for that period of time? That's why it's called dating, you guys are fond of wasting the time of women it's not going to be like that again. Ladies any guy u date within six months and you can't see any form of seriousness or any good intentions from him please discard him.

Like you even have anything to offer him madam.In real sense you are the one wasting his time and resources. If he sees anything good in you,he will start taking you serious the first day he meets you. Work on yourself first and leave men alone to decide how they live their lives. After all, they didn't force you to date them. If you can wait you move on,real men knows what they want. You can't come and hurry anyone into problem ,you won't be there to solve with them later in life. Sensible ladies and guys knows that six months is not enough to date and marry. So I will leave you to your six months dating sermon.

Goodlady:

While dating, you ll fûck her as much as you want,

You've repeated this a few times now, you do realise the act is not a favour from one to the other.

Both participants can initiate and enjoy it.

aswani:


You've repeated this a few times now, you do realise the act is not a favour from one to the other.

Both participants can initiate and enjoy it.

In this part of the world, it's a favour. That's what you guys watch out for and your priority. Whereas, it's our own honour.
You are free to fûck but make sure you marry them all or that particular girl. If I can help them, your destiny ll be tied like this cos you having sex means you don buy market!

Prettygirl200:
ladies make una get sense ohhhh, don't date any useless human more than 6months. They aren't worth it.

But they don't have sense and would prefer to date a useless human provided he has money. They wouldn't even mind becoming a baby mama for him as long as he keeps cash flowing.

JustPowerApps:
Nicely penned. I wonder why dating stretches that long in Nigeria. It makes no sense tbh. Half a year is enough to know who is serious or not

That's my point, these men know this lady is not marriageable oh I can't tolerate her, I can't manage her why not just let her go? They won't do that they did continue to give her hope making her to believe she's good enough and will end up wasting the innocent Ladies time. That's why am telling them, dating for too long is rubbish, it doesn't make any sense.

Goodlady:

In this part of the world, it's a favour. That's what you guys watch out for and your priority. Whereas, it's our own honour.
You are free to fûck but make sure you marry them all or that particular girl. If I can help them, your destiny ll be tied like this cos you having sex means you don buy market!

Now that woman can achieve all they want in life, even in this part of the world, there is no need to do a man a favour by partaking in a sexual encounter with them.

You as a woman can now have sex with any man because you enjoy it (and lots do).

If you want to do it for money or other benefits you want to get from the man, that is still not doing him a favour. In fact, some might argue the man is doing you a favour having sex with you to give you those things as there are others they could have done same with.

Makes sense. I concur with the OP completely.
6 months or less is enough for a serious guy to know if a serious girl he is dating is fit for marriage or not.

Goodlady:

The shallow mentality again.
What if she didn't get a heartbreak?
You men want loyal babes. Even those talakanaires among you want loyal babes that you ll date for long till you get money. While dating, you ll fûck her as much as you want, waste her time. Some of you ll get that money and feel she's not good enough. She's not waiting to eat your money but to enjoy love that she has invested her commitment in.
Men set the rules and still break the rules.
Even when they date for long & later marry, they ll still cheat like a cursed he-goat!

Ladies, shine your eyes. Prolonged dating is a red flag.

my dear six months is long enough no waste your time with any useless nigga all in the name of dating, it's dating not marriage biko!!

Prettygirl200:
my dear six months is long enough no waste your time with any useless nigga all in the name of dating, it's dating not marriage biko!!

Abi o. Some dating last longer than marriages. Guys dating for too long are wicked

UptownVibes:
Like you even have anything to offer him madam.In real sense you are the one wasting his time and resources. If he sees anything good in you,he will start taking you serious the first day he meets you. Work on yourself first and leave men alone to decide how they live their lives. After all, they didn't force you to date them. If you can wait you move on,real men knows what they want. You can't come and hurry anyone into problem ,you won't be there to solve with them later in life. Sensible ladies and guys knows that six months is not enough to date and marry. So I will leave you to your six months dating sermon.

I can see the pain in your comments ok you will enjoy it better if a girls dates u for two years, it's okay clap for yourself I pity that girl and her generation. Na girls wey no get sense go spend two three years dey date one mumu wey go continuously dey Bleep them. Selfish things!!!

aswani:


You've repeated this a few times now, you do realise the act is not a favour from one to the other.

Both participants can initiate and enjoy it.

She's repeating because that's the reason you all are against short time dating, you want to be enjoying free pussy while after two to three years you will dumb her, come online and say all sorts of ill things about her truth is bitter but it must be told, Nigerian guys are not worth dating More than six months, simple!! Yeye fowl!!!!

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

Same goes for women

Goodlady:

Abi o. Some dating last longer than marriages. Guys dating for too long are wicked

yes ooo they know the lady isn't good for them, but won't let her go bc of the free pussy they are recieving so they will just be managing or using her to console themselves untill they see a lady they are ready to settle with, is that not wickedness? Want waste her time if u aren't ready to settle with her? Our time is short and as such we shouldn't be wasting time with useless things all in the name of dating.

Prettygirl200:
I can see the pain in your comments ok you will enjoy it better if a girls dates u for two years, it's okay clap for yourself I pity that girl and her generation. Na girls wey no get sense go spend two three years dey date one mumu wey go continuously dey Bleep them. Selfish things!!!

Ahaa.. you have mentioned the part I want to hear... Must you Bleep in the relationship? .. So you want him to marry you in six months ,when you turned yourself to sex slave? Doing all kinds of styles,and drinking cum like your life depends on it,forming good in bed. Just dey play.. dating doesn’t mean you must turn yourself to a porn actress for him.. Madam place value on yourself,and any guy that comes close to you will value you.. You drink john’s cum for six months ,you move again to musa cum in six months ,again to obi cum in another six months.. How will your final bus stop even take you serious? You sef think about it.. It’s not all about how far ,but how well.. Seems you are naive about relationships and how they work in this present generation. Guys are wiser now.. no rush,no pressure.. Except for the foolish ones that listen to foolish advice like 6months dating before marriage.

An accomplished man knows what he wants from women,


And he’s got lots of options too, na men who carry women for head dey always cry of heartbreak from women, the Simpson

They elite women can give them peace of mind, happiness, etc😂😂😂

An accomplished man wants an accomplished woman too or woman of value, and he can tell if you are one wishing few weeks, so while you are waiting for six months, he already figured you in few weeks, the ball is still in his court, so as a woman you have to add value to your selfs and stop relying on your kpekusses if not an accomplished man will only have fun until you run away 😂

Prettygirl200:
yes ooo they know the lady isn't good for them, but won't let her go bc of the free pussy they are recieving so they will just be managing or using her to console themselves untill they see a lady they are ready to settle with, is that not wickedness? Want waste her time if u aren't ready to settle with her? Our time is short and as such we shouldn't be wasting time with useless things all in the name of dating.

I thought marriage is not an accomplishment?