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Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 1:50pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Dyt: No Ma! bt dis speaks volumes: Dyt: |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 1:51pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
rem i wz tryin explain ow it feels |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Am LOL cos at the moment this is the story of my life. Thanks Sijo01 for starting this thread, I just might learn a thing or two to help me with my situation. I met this great guy recently whom I really like and have spent time with at a party, cinema and my crib. He will be leaving town soon for another part of the country, to take up residence there on a permanent basis. I've been trying to make the most of the time and opportunity we have now, to get to know him and also explore the possibility of carrying on,this thing between us when he leaves. I am not a fan of long distance relationships neither is he, but I am so liking this guy that I have actually been contemplating the whole LDR (long distance r/ship) thing. Last night, the homie revealed the fact that he had been in touch with his ex and there might be a chance of them getting back together, besides that his pastor/mentor/former boss was aware of this relationship and also called him about the same issue too blah blah blah. And then he goes, he doesn't want any of that to affect what's between us and he would like for us to still see, hang out etc. Am like you want to eat your cake and still have it (something along those lines, I'm never sure what the right phrase is), I basically said to him if there's a chance of you getting back with the other chick then there's no point in continuing with us, becasue I don't want my heart broken. He made some remark about me not being willing to fight or give us a chance regardless of the ex, I thought that was can't find the words to describe the feeling. Well there's been a turmoil within me since last night, because I really really like this guy but at the same time I don't want to be foolish. I don't think I have the energy to compete with an ex-girlfriend, and a part of me is thinking just enjoy his time and company now then let it go once he leaves but will that be easy? So here I am thinking what do I do? We haven't slept with each other so bear that in mind if you have anything worthwhile to say. 1 Like |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 2:01pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
one thing u shld know s dat sex makes bond stronger or nottin |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 2:15pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
DYT, s-e-x within a few weeks of knowing a guy ? Common girl, he will just hit and run. It's not just a physical act for us where you do it, get up and go. I have an emotional attachment to this guy it's so bad I'm afraid s-e-x would ruin things for us, you know how it is with guys now. They are thinking one way about it and we are thinking in an entirely different way about it. Besides I truly desire a clean relationship without s-e-x for once in my life I've worn that t-shirt and walked the walk, am just tired of it. I am not certain it really helps the bonding process, in my experience it sort of messes things up. I want to see how I can bond with a man in a meaningful way without the s-e-x 1 Like |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 2:17pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
mayb u didnt get wat i meant i meant u havin sex wit him,u myt find it diff 2 let go n if u do u cld loose him |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 2:48pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Ooohh now I get it . Pardon me for mis-understanding I actually didn't see the part about ''nothing'' after the word stronger. Well so what do you think? Do I stab this whole thing right now for good which is what I pretty much said to him last night OR do I enjoy the moment without s-e-x and totally blank him out when he leaves. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 2:52pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
enjoy it wyl it lasts babe its a beautiful thing bt dont b tempted sha its gd u know wateva happens btw u both ends ryt dere |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 3:09pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Okay that sounds reasonable. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 3:10pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
i hp u dont carry every memory along wit u sha cos smtys u ll jst find ursef lovin him more |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:11pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
[color=#550000][/color] Dyt: Noted. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 3:14pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
gd |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:21pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
^tnx by d way nor vex o, u nor dey comt 4here, u nor dey work, slip, even chop. u'v been here since morning if am nt mistaken. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Nobody: 3:22pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
I will slap myself back to reality. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:25pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
^Lolz na blow go gud pass! |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 3:28pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
i work o madam |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:31pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
@Swift sms! hav read ur comment/conversation wif Dyt. i hv did 4u - b kareful so as nt 2b at d receiving end. rem u said u dnt wanna gt ya heart broken. dnt also 4gt wat he said his pastor/mentor said & all d bla bla bla hmmmm. a word is enough 4d------- |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:33pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Dyt: Ok Ma! working & playing like me |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 3:41pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
wen dere s no client nnko? |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Sijo01(f): 3:47pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
den, u go in search 4! mi wanna do somfin meaningful now. hv less dan an hour to close. wnt to attend to some work. na u go out &look 4clients. enof of Nl 4 tody |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 3:49pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
well dey seems nt v moni i v less dan an hr 2 bt i cld cont wit my fone v a FFF *Freakn Fabolous Friday* |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 3:57pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Dyt: That's my fear, the longer I let this brew in the name of ''I like him", "Enjoy the moment'', ''Make the most of it'' etc etc I may actually fall harder than I have already. What a precarious situation can't help but laugh at me. Aren't there any guys here with words of wisdom for a sista? I would like to know what their take is on this and what a good number of men mean or actually want when they pull stunts like this. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 4:01pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
wyl at it jst dont kill d d tots of its jst 4 dis moments flings dats wat we call it |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 4:16pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Dyt, LOL I don't do flings well. I've never been able to handle them don't know if I can start now in my old age I am an unpretentious and passionate woman who feels deeply, a fling might seriously de-moralize me especially with this guy. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by MrCork17: 4:23pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Mr Cork <<<<ex playa & Beyounce's ex boy friend 8 yrs ago |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by SwiftSMS(f): 4:33pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Cork Sweery so what should we do about your former relationship with Beyonce? Do you have anything meaningful to say? Can you for once be reasonable or at least act sane for a few minutes and contribute sanely like i saw you do on another thread. I was truly at that. LOL |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Swift SMS:IF I WER U,which[b] am not i wuld do d latter! As 4 d OP,did u mean love or lust cos recently am beginning 2 doubt dat must ppl realize d difference btw d two!! [/b] |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 4:51pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
well den if u think u can cope wit him outta ur lyf cool bt den jst enjoy d ride sha |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by dammytex: 4:52pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
I think I like this thread. Looks matured enough. And since it's the ladies' thread, I wouldn't comment. I'll just watch. lol keep it coming girls. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by MrCork17: 5:00pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Sijo01: “Sweeeery Remember: To love someone is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, but to be loved by the one you love is everything” YOU WILL NEVER BE HIS NUMBER ONE!!! |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by GB102(m): 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
Dyt me selfish? Huh? I neva luved d oda babe. It was u all along. |
Re: If U Fall In Luv With--------- by Dyt(f): 5:02pm On Oct 07, 2011 |
^^ shshshs n go v indomie adults r talkin . .“Sweeeery Remember: To love someone is nothing, to be loved by someone is something, but to be loved by the one you love is everything . . hmmm nice one |
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