coogar:

how so?

coogar:


they have not switched roles. when women were recruited to join military forces, men did not tell them the roles would be switched. the men just carried on with their original tasks and the women stuck to their roles!

coogar:


are you on one knee and the ring is diamond?

BABE!:

I'm not repeating myself. Scroll up and read my posts carefully.

Are you seriously comparing joining military to marriage? Weak analogy.

Sweerat, since we are going against the norm; I'm proposing with a pair of range rover sports Gucci Shoes? You ok with that?

Mrs, Chima:

(clearing throat)

Excuse me, Sexkillz_{I am still on one knee holding your okada tire ring}

Nah! Drop yours! I have to go home and get the one my Grandma gave me! BRB!

sexkillz:

So woman propose to you right now, you go say no? Oya lie! See bible quoting out of context! So the 5 years he spent dating her, he was finding torchlight? Cheeeeeiiiiii! NA WA O!!!   Now, diagrammatically show me where it says MAN MUST PROPOSE TO WOMAN!!!

nnw niger:

5yrs is really a long time but, I would have prefered it the other way. I hope he goes on with the YES answer and the marriage last forever . [b]Is  very unAfrican [/b]however, 21st century or not. I hope it doesn't happen to me cause, it squeezes out everything juicy about the whole thing. Just my humble openion but, what do I know. I wish them well

Konjour:

What is food for the goose is surely palatable to the gander.

In reminiscence of the "21st century" women equivocal bla bla bla stuff,asking a man out/proposing to a man should not be made to be a

mountain when its nothing but a molehill. It is very,very acceptable in a "21st century" society .

Mrs, Chima:

Oh my goodness! You guys are taking the women proposing thing kind of serious huh?

I hate to see women actually proposing to you guys offline!

sexkillz:

^^^ Done! But still cant find where it said a man should propose!. . . . You are still out of context! Admit or try again!

horny4u:

@Sexhillz

Hypothetically _{lets say} you have daughter you love so much and she dates a guy for 5 years [s](2 years should be the limit in my books)[/s] and tells you he has not asked so she will have to propose herself. She needs your advise on whether to go ahead and propose
What will your advise be not NL advise o, your flesh and blood advise as a fatherly guardian ?

I ask as I am always open to learning and there are many ladies reading NL now thinking they can now propose to a man i 2011 .

The first thing i'll ask her is why? Is he shy? Why dont you ask him? I'll listen to her response on what she thinks about asking him!


Doesnt take away the fact that a lady asking a man out is Right!!!

Mrs, Chima:

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Otunbakay:

The best i think a lady could do is to systematically guide/engineer her man towards proposing and doing it her self is just 2 odd.
And pls note that this is a defferent thing entirely from a lady asking a guy out.

Wiz_khalifa:

@OP
SHHIT HAPUNS, ALL MY GF'S ASKED ME OUT, VE NEVA ASKD A GAL OUT B4, SO ITS DEF POSSIBLE FOR A LADY TO PROPOSE TO HER MAN,

klovesh:

For those saying it is 21st century and referring to the western world need to take a closer look at how long their marriages averagely last over there.

For a man not to have proposed after 5 years of dating should make us ask some questions.

A real man that is ready for marriage and knows he is with the right person will definetely propose, in fact he will do it as soon as he can

Anything that makes him not to do that means something is wrong somewhere with him.

With all the agitation for gender equality going on around, it is still worthy of note that there are fundamental differences between a man and a woman. Things as simple as men being naturally muscular and women being on the fleshy side. In essence, what I mean is that we can be said to be equal, but we are not the same

Irrespective of what religious views people may take, I want to remind us that God is the one that created marriage, and not the western world. It was in existence before they knew what it was all about. Their efforts to do things the way they want is what has led to the failure of most of their marriages today

A man will be the head of the home. A man has an hunting mentality. He should go for the person and propose. For the lady, if the man is not proposing to you, you dont need to wait for him to or beg him to. He probably has his reasons.

What I will suggest to such a lady is: Dont prospose to him. Dont force him out of it. But u can tell him that you cannot just hang around if the relationship is not leading anywhere. If he still does not do anything, then he is not ready for it. Take your break and go ahead with your life. Chikena

If a woman proposes to the man, she has taken away a fundamental role and function of a man. In fact, its only a weak man that will accept that.

kabukabu:

If Women now like to ride their guys "on top" and "go down" on them, I don't see why proposing to a man is different?

Princek12:

so you wouldn't mind your girlfriend proposing to you.