Nasri100:


Ignore the lexy2014 guy

Hes run out of steam so the village man thinks hes doing something by trolling.

You mean a black nigga (Lexy2014) stuck in Nigggerian and getting f****ed everyday by sh*t hole policies in that country will troll me? Haha he is too small.

I was only saying if he wants to have unlimited number of kids go on and do that.

Just don't always beg innocent people for money to take care of your wards and make sure you are not spreading your kids about - Those are signs of a useless father.

FROGMAN101:


You mean a black nigga (Lexy2014) stuck in Nigggerian and getting f****ed everyday by sh*t hole policies in that country will troll me? Haha he is too small.

I was only saying if he wants to have unlimited number of kids go on and do that.

Just don't always beg innocent people for money to take care of your wards and make sure you are not spreading your kids about - Those are signs of a useless father.

Lmfafo na to beg people to buy more Garri for his family

I just wonder if this thing he is saying is reality. The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends.

Lexy2014 Please o i dont hate you but dont regurgitate poverty abeg.

Nasri100:


Lmfafo na to beg people to buy more Garri for his family

I just wonder if this thing he is saying is reality. The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends.

Lexy2014 Please o i dont hate you but dont regurgitate poverty abeg.

Which "his family" are u referring to?

What thing am I saying that u wondering if it is reality?

Which "children will just be cursing him everyday low key"?

When you say "The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends", are u speaking from your personal experience as a hisband and father or as a witness to how it happened with your parents?

But by mentioning my name, you haven't ignored me yet u are asking someone to ignore me.

Is that how u take your own advise?

What steam have I run out of?

What's wrong with a village?

Trolling in what way exactly?

lexy2014:



Which "his family" are u referring to?

What thing am I saying that u wondering if it is reality?

Which "children will just be cursing him everyday low key"?

When you say "The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends", are u speaking from your personal experience as a hisband and father or as a witness to how it happened with your parents?

But by mentioning my name, you haven't ignored me yet u are asking someone to ignore me.

Is that how u take your own advise?

What steam have I run out of?

What's wrong with a village?

Trolling in what way exactly?

You go explain tire

FROGMAN101:


You mean a black nigga (Lexy2014) stuck in Nigggerian and getting f****ed everyday by sh*t hole policies in that country will troll me? Haha he is too small.

I was only saying if he wants to have unlimited number of kids go on and do that.

Just don't always beg innocent people for money to take care of your wards and make sure you are not spreading your kids about - Those are signs of a useless father.

How does all you have typed negate the following or related to the following?

That's not true. These families will make do with what they have and raise their kids d best way they can. They might be drinking garri but there's love in d family, that will fill their bellies

By the way, are u a white nigga?

Nasri100:


You go explain tire

Explain what?

Which "his family" are u referring to?

What thing am I saying that u wondering if it is reality?

Which "children will just be cursing him everyday low key"?

When you say "The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends", are u speaking from your personal experience as a hisband and father or as a witness to how it happened with your parents?

But by mentioning my name, you haven't ignored me yet u are asking someone to ignore me.

Is that how u take your own advise?

What steam have I run out of?

What's wrong with a village?

Trolling in what way exactly?

FROGMAN101:


Well i agree a bit with Everybody Pays cause the Nigerians who decided to have kids with no trust fund or bailout plans are always on my messages begging for one favor or the other.

Have you noticed the Hardon1 guy you talkin with kept on talkin about accident, ill luck and bla bla

Apparently Nigerians DONT know theres something called a trust fund for a kid or kids and having a partner who is also earning where if you die the kid is set for life.

All some Nigerians know is to give birth without a plan, suffer, then blame the government as if this hell hole Nigeria has ever functioned well since inception.

My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things

If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty

By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on

In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here.

If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

hardon1:




My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things

If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty

By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on

In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here.

If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

This is how we know people who have experience in life, marriage and parenting.

The person u talking with and most of his ilk think life is a textbook or script that must be followed. Their mindset is about an ideal world that exists only in their heads because they are cocooned from reality by the resources of their parents.

Kudos to parents like u who though don't have everything but are bold enough to believe and look for ways to raise their kids with the resources available to them.

hardon1:
■ My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things
If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty
By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on
■ In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here. If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to translate to people having kids they obviously lack the resources to raise?
▢ You admit that well over 50% of Nigerians ought not to concern themselves with having children at all given they lack the financial capacity for such so, why does "Life has to move on" need to mean it is Ok for them to have kids?
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to be translated to mean foolishness, and obviously wickedness should continue to thrive and reign for Pete's sake?

Those Nigerians who chose not to have kids at all after carefully examining their pockets and environments, do you think of them as imbeciles or something??

2. The government does that because the people consider themselves worth such; they are the government after all. Do Nigerians think of themselves the same way? With people having kids they cannot afford to raise, who do you expect to pay for such programs? The handful of Nigerians who made the wise church not burden themselves with more than they can carry? Or are you under some sort of delusion that these programs in developed countries sponsor themselves?

Kobojunkie:
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to translate to people having kids they obviously lack the resources to raise?
▢ You admit that well over 50% of Nigerians ought not to concern themselves with having children at all given they lack the financial capacity for such so, why does "Life has to move on" need to mean it is Ok for them to have kids?
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to be translated to mean foolishness, and obviously wickedness should continue to thrive and reign for Pete's sake?

Those Nigerians who chose not to have kids at all after carefully examining their pockets and environments, do you think of them as imbeciles or something??

2. The government does that because the people consider themselves worth such; they are the government after all. Do Nigerians think of themselves the same way? With people having kids they cannot afford to raise, who do you expect to pay for such programs? The handful of Nigerians who made the wise church not burden themselves with more than they can carry? Or are you under some sort of delusion that these programs in developed countries sponsor themselves?

That's your opinion sha...
What I know is that: if I don't have much money, I would rather have a wife and one or tow kids and live in the poverty, than never have one at all just because I don't have the means

hardon1:




My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things

If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty

By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on

In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here.

If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

Cc Lexy2014

Being privileged and comfortable isnt my own fault. Are you blaming me for that?

My dad and mom are a hardworking duo.

Bro those people like working. Up at 4am and driving out for work in their different cars mostly after a kiss. I am still in my 20s and those images of my childhood still stuck.

I see them at night tired but they still make time to play with us.

Then we go to the beach during the weekends with Uncle Mike

Bro i didn't lack jack sh** and i am proud to say that. Its not that I work hard right now. Me that i am lazy but i had or maybe still have hard working parents that despite being above middle class, they gave birth to what they can handle - Two boys and were very disciplined and committed to raising their wards.

My elder bro is a Frogman for the U.S Navy Seals, i look up to him badly. Infact I think i am the most laziest of my family cause i spend my hours on Nairaland.

So What i am saying is i can never settle for less and i got high taste.

In hell hole Nigeria of a country, if you want to have a family both parties need to be working.

Like working hard and having a trust fund for the kid. If you don't have a trust fund then why bring another human being? That’s wickedness and selfishness.

But if you believe you can handle 100 kids, go ahead. Just dont go around begging other people managing their lives and then try to play the emotional fanfare when they turn you down!

FROGMAN101:


Cc Lexy2014

Being privileged and comfortable isnt my own fault. Are you blaming me for that?

My dad and mom are a hardworking duo.

Bro those people like working. Up at 4am and driving out for work in their different cars mostly after a kiss. I am still in my 20s and those images of my childhood still stuck.

I see them at night tired but they still make time to play with us.

Then we go to the beach during the weekends with Uncle Mike

Bro i didn't lack jack sh** and i am proud to say that. Its not that I work hard right now. Me that i am lazy but i had or maybe still have hard working parents that despite being above middle class, they gave birth to what they can handle - Two boys and were very disciplined and committed to raising their wards.

My elder bro is a Frogman for the U.S Navy Seals, i look up to him badly. Infact I think i am the most laziest of my family cause i spend my hours on Nairaland.

So What i am saying is i can never settle for less and i got high taste.

In hell hole Nigeria of a country, if you want to have a family both parties need to be working.

Like working hard and having a trust fund for the kid. If you don't have a trust fund then why bring another human being? That’s wickedness and selfishness.

But if you believe you can handle 100 kids, go ahead. Just dont go around begging other people managing their lives and then try to play the emotional fanfare when they turn you down!

How does that negate the following?

hardon1:

My guy ur still in this . Relax abeg. I guess you are previledged and comfortable to some extent, that's why you are talking like this sha. If you know the difficulty people are going through, you wouldn't blame them for certain things

If we want to talk of the requirements for bringing up a child, 50% of adult Nigerians including me would not meet it due to poverty

By standard, a Nigerian earning a minimum wage of 30k cannot adequately cater for himself let alone a child. You go come because of that say make person no marry or born pikin? No na. Live has to move on

In western nations, government also make inputs towards the development of every child, we don't have such here. We do everything by ourself here.

If you don't have the means, you have to struggle through the process

Kobojunkie:
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to translate to people having kids they obviously lack the resources to raise?
▢ You admit that well over 50% of Nigerians ought not to concern themselves with having children at all given they lack the financial capacity for such so, why does "Life has to move on" need to mean it is Ok for them to have kids?
▢ Why does "life has to move on" need to be translated to mean foolishness, and obviously wickedness should continue to thrive and reign for Pete's sake?

Those Nigerians who chose not to have kids at all after carefully examining their pockets and environments, do you think of them as imbeciles or something??

2. The government does that because the people consider themselves worth such; they are the government after all. Do Nigerians think of themselves the same way? With people having kids they cannot afford to raise, who do you expect to pay for such programs? The handful of Nigerians who made the wise church not burden themselves with more than they can carry? Or are you under some sort of delusion that these programs in developed countries sponsor themselves?

Haha you must have 3 children atleast in Nigeria. Even if you suffering, homeless and your meal pattern is - 0 1 0

You must born. You must release sperm. So you can be proud about it to your fellow friends and family.

Go to church on Sunday and say 👇

“I Am Happily Married With 3 Children, Praise da lord”

Theres no plan whatsoever for these kids though. Even God is offended with these antics in Nigeria.

Nigerians have a long way to go man. That country in my mind is forever a hell hole. You can do yourself a favor and leave when you can.

Nasri100:


Lmfafo na to beg people to buy more Garri for his family

I just wonder if this thing he is saying is reality. The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends.

Lexy2014 Please o i dont hate you but dont regurgitate poverty abeg.

Lexy2014 Is forever my nigga

Oneday we will meet and hangout.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Go ask that question of the many orphans raised in orphanages, provided with all necessary to build their mental capacity, health, and future, by complete strangers. Many, if not all of them abandoned in poverty by the supposedly loving parents you speak of.

So this is a stat from the same Government of Nigeria. Chaii

Cc Lext2014 et Hardon1

https://www.nairaland.com/7776659/43-nigerian-children-actively-engaged

Sigh i think i am done with this thread. Justified. Bye guys.

FROGMAN101:
■ So this is a stat from the same Government of Nigeria. Chaii

Cc Lext2014 et Hardon1

https://www.nairaland.com/7776659/43-nigerian-children-actively-engaged

I don talk am.... those living in poverty are some of the most evil entities out there particularly in what they subject these innocent souls to.

duduade:
. Our Good Lord will see you through but wait did you now have a girl eventually

yes. I got my princess

lexy2014:


If you say "It is not his fault say Una Bleep and sperm and egg got fertilized", how then does abortion solve the problem?

Why should a child be killed when you claim "It is not his fault say Una Bleep and sperm and egg got fertilized"?

a one month foetus stands zero chance of surviving outside the womb. Abortion at that stage is not murder. It is simply being realistic

obstead200:
a one month foetus stands zero chance of surviving outside the womb. Abortion at that stage is not murder. It is simply being realistic

That's not what I asked.

If you say "It is not his fault say Una Bleep and sperm and egg got fertilized", how then does abortion solve the problem?

Why should a child be killed when you claim "It is not his fault say Una Bleep and sperm and egg got fertilized"?