UnusualEmissary:
If I'm a woman...

We try to find a solution to it. And after enough efforts and no changes, we break the marriage.

Isn't it that simple?

After you might have wasted how many years with him, minimum number of years? I will like to know.

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

Your marriage is already built on deceit, it will eventually crash. No trying in shaving what is not worth saving. But I guess you will realise that too late

fyzaila:

I married him because we genuinely love each other, so any circumstance i find in the marriage, I'm sticking with it. Well, he have to have money to oo to cushion the predicament. You can't be impotent and be poor at the same time na. Godforbid

I don't think you would be able to recognise deception even if it stares you in the face.

fyzaila:
I married him because we genuinely love each other, so any circumstance i find in the marriage, I'm sticking with it. Well, he have to have money to oo to cushion the predicament. You can't be impotent and be poor at the same time na. Godforbid

very sensible! Can't be potent and poor at the same time. The impotency should be compensated by wealth.

saphiere:
If he's rich, I get a child outside.
If he's poor or average, I dump the ewu and move on.

Lol.. you funny. Pple who speak like you do don't always have mind to do mean tins. But those quiet ones..!

maasoap:


Your marriage is already built on deceit, it will eventually crash. No trying in shaving what is not worth saving. But I guess you will realise that too late

It might be if I were married to you, but considering how carefully I chose my man and the criteria by which I chose him, which foremost is the ability to be honest and communicate with each other, I'm unwilling to concede that you know what you speak of.

You could of course try telling me why you come to that conclusion though, and I might reconsider your uninformed opinion.

Samantha124:
Take him to men's clinic.

Samantha you are supposed to test run the engine, front and back, before know the condition it is 🍆🍆🍆

saphiere:
If he's rich, I get a child outside.
If he's poor or average, I dump the ewu and move on.

3 gbosa for mummy

budaatum:


I don't have to be anything I choose not to be, and nor do I need anyone's permission or approval to be or do whatever I choose to be or do.

I've stated my own optional preferences and don't need you to tell me what to do, thank you very much.

Indeed I'm not suppose to tell a nitwit what to do by sleeping with another man comfortably just because you want to commit adultery comfortably under an impotent man roof all because he can't give u children. Who even knows the sacbag is fertile enough probably the woman is not sucking it well enough

You're right... So I can check if it can drive me crazy like Vin Diesel driving his sports car on fast and furious..

Dshocker:


Samantha you are supposed to test run the engine, front and back, before know the condition it is 🍆🍆🍆

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

Your Husband may not be impotent...it may just be there is compatibility issues ..Have you tried him with another woman and gotten the same impotent results?

Merry100:

If a woman is aware that her husband is impotent before marriage, it is understandable, but if she discovers it only after marriage, it implies that he deceived her.

Some men may not be aware that they are impotent.

As a man, it is morally wrong to keep such a sensitive issue away from the woman you want to marry. One of the pillars of marriage is for procreation. Infact, the major reason why people marry is to procreate in such a way that origin or genealogy of a child can be legally traced throughout history.

It is a different issue if the man became impotent after the wedding. In such a case, I advice the couple to adopt a child or go for the less moral option of looking for a sperm donor.

But just know that adoption gives legal backing to a child while sperm donation is just to pacify the woman's ego that she must bear a child biologically.

Shalom

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

This is easier said believe me, except you have no parents again of they have decided to leave the decision wholly to you, if not....divorce ni

talented321:
I dey give them belle before wedding ooo

that's out of wedlock

Offpoint1:
Op kindly include "answers Strictly by virgins only" because none virgins no fit marry impotent man.


As for we men, if you can't conceive as a woman I should have known in the relationship and make my decisions to go ahead with the marriage.

No matter the verses of Quran and Bible you read to me, Whoever I'm dating MUST RECEIVED protruding stomach from rudeless and merciless kxcking before MARRIAGE

Are you saying premarital sex is okay for you,and having a child out of wedlock

BalogunIdowu:


This is easier said believe me, except you have no parents again of they have decided to leave the decision wholly to you, if not....divorce ni

Parents? Am I supposed to be a child such that parental permission is required?

I'm sure they'd be delighted when I drop a grandchild in their laps.

MatrixReloaded:

Indeed I'm not suppose to tell a nitwit what to do by sleeping with another man comfortably just because you want to commit adultery comfortably under an impotent man roof all because he can't give u children. Who even knows the sacbag is fertile enough probably the woman is not sucking it well enough

So, you think I need an impotent husband as an excuse to commit adultery if that's what I want to do?

Guess I'll let you continue believing what pleases you.

Samantha124:
You're right... So I can check if it can drive me crazy like Vin Diesel driving his sports car on fast and furious..

Exactly...

Well, i know you've been testing it, no be today

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

There was the case of a Deeper Life woman who was still a virgin 20 years after marriage.

She only discovered her husband was impotent after their wedding. She kept it a secret but it soon took a severe mental toll on her after many years and she broke down and had to open up.

That's when she opened up that her man was impotent. Why her some people so wicked?

There are women out there ready, very very ready to marry sterile or even impotent men.

Some men are ready to marry single mothers if they are sterile. Some women are ready to marry impotent men as for them, what they need is a companion, sex is secondary. Even if there's sex, it does not have to be through intercourse.

Divorce is right as there was deception.

If however the man opened up to his fiancee about his impotent before the wedding, then no problem

Kipaji:


In 2023, you don't need to sleep with a sperm donor to get pregnant with his seed. He can just masturbate in the other room and you manually his sperm into your genitals, no need for physical contact, no need for you to see him. Besides, there are so many technologies that can have you impregnated without having to touch or even see the sperm donor.

What many don't understand is that impotence does not necessarily mean the private part is paralyzed. It just means it can't sustain an erection which is necessary for sex to happen.

talented321:
I dey give them belle before wedding ooo

Gbamsolutely

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

U for tell me say u dey find another privck na.. chaii

saphiere:
If he's rich, I get a child outside.
If he's poor or average, I dump the ewu and move on.

Honest answer of most men and women.
I appreciate your honesty. Life is real.

Merry100:

If a woman is aware that her husband is impotent before marriage, it is understandable, but if she discovers it only after marriage, it implies that he deceived her.

Meaning, there was no marriage..that's deception

It's equivalent to marrying a wombless lady, who hid her predicament from you...

FireUpNow:

What if when you married him he was very rich and he made you pregnant and have kids already then with time he got broke and cannot perro r anymore. Will you divorce him?

I can't divorce him because i understand that he was once rich so he can be rich again.

Merry100:

If a woman is aware that her husband is impotent before marriage, it is understandable, but if she discovers it only after marriage, it implies that he deceived her.

True deception isn't good but forgivable.

fyzaila:


I can't divorce him because i understand that he was once rich so he can be rich again.

Sometimes some men who become broke were once very rich but due to some circumstances things went south for them. Anyways any woman who feels like divorcing his man because of brokenness is her business.. who cares?

frankblinkz:
Are you saying premarital sex is okay for you,and having a child out of wedlock

What's premarital and what is child out of wedlock? Were you doing hide and seek relationship? Or you were dating someone you know you can't marry?

FireUpNow:

Sometimes some men who become broke were once very rich but due to some circumstances things went south for them. Anyways any woman who feels like divorcing his man because of brokenness is her business.. who cares?

Yea right that's her business. Nobody cares actually except for the man she's divorcing.

Emma1Oj:
Lol.. you funny. Pple who speak like you do don't always have mind to do mean tins. But those quiet ones..!

She/he drops such comments for clout chasing. The more quotes , the more irritating things she/he drops. The odd but negative takes gives him/her attention like one guy on twitter. I don't even quote or engage them. When they are denied of such attention they go low. Unfortunately some people doesn't see it.