budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

No man will accept his wife sleeping with another man, except he's not aware.

If he is already aware he can't father a child, and his wife brings in children it is only a debt that will be paid by the woman in future

Bornboy4:
If any lady is looking for a knacker with extra large gbola, let me know oh. My services are free.

Why are you like this?

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

This is the reason I advise "knacking before marriage".

Forget what the religious folks tell you.

Kipaji:


In 2023, you don't need to sleep with a sperm donor to get pregnant with his seed. He can just masturbate in the other room and you manually his sperm into your genitals, no need for physical contact, no need for you to see him. Besides, there are so many technologies that can have you impregnated without having to touch or even see the sperm donor.

To be impotent means inability to sustain erection and so cannot ejaculate sperm. This is called erectile dysfunction. This means the man cannot donate sperm through masturbation.
If I were the wife I would divorce him because he did not tell me he was impotent during courtship so he married through deceit.
Suppose l lost my womb to abortion before meeting him and I kept mute wouldn't he abandon me if he discovered after marriage?

goshen26:


No man will accept his wife sleeping with another man, except he's not aware.

If he is already aware he can't father a child, and his wife brings in children it is only a debt that will be paid by the woman in future

I hope you are aware that only one man is required to debunk your "no man" assertion. Some men would be delighted enough that their impotency is not public knowledge and praise their wife for helping hide it.

What has usually happened is he's dragged to church to be prayed for by a pastor who secretly sleeps with his wife and they all claim it's a miracle, thank God. Hopefully, he's not smart or curious enough, or too smart depending how you see it, to look his gift child in the mouth and request a DNA. But as said, we will discuss it so he knows in advance, and that's after considering adoption, which I would prefer.

AishaDant:
I would still love him regardless.

We can afford to adopt kids.

I'm proud of you dear, that's true love,.


Aisha long time, I lost my phone as well all your contact, please dm me privately wana tell you something

The right answer to some people is to be following men that can satisfy her.

adelafe2019:

To be impotent means inability to sustain election and so cannot ejaculate sperm. This is called erectile dysfunction. This means the man cannot donate sperm through masturbation.

No it doesn't! A man can be impotent and not be erectile dysfunctional, or can be erectile dysfunctional and not be impotent, in which case we just extract the sperm and turkey bast.

Also, sperm can be extracted without him masturbating.

https://www.urologyhealth.org/urology-a-z/s/sperm-retrieval

Marriage is over now, na waiting you wan sidown with? Shoo

It seems many readers here do not know the difference between impotent (inability to have erection for copulatio) and infertile ( can have copulation but the sperm is weak and cannot impregnate a woman)
Op said the man was impotent, so correct yourselves.

Budaatum take note.

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

For me to sleep with, just divorce him or go buy sperm for IvF. Do you have to be witty.

adelafe2019:
It seems many readers here do not know the difference between impotent (inability to have erection for copulatio) and infertile ( can have copulation but the sperm is weak and cannot impregnate a woman)
Op said the man was impotent, so correct yourselves.

Budaatum take note.

I think it's you who does not know the difference and should take note.

Op said the man is impotent, and not that man is erectile dysfunctional. He may have a hard on, which is evidence of not being erectile dysfunctional, and still be impotent, as in not be able produce baby forming sperm. Impotent does not mean erectile dysfunction.

fyzaila:
I married him because we genuinely love each other, so any circumstance i find in the marriage, I'm sticking with it. Well, he have to have money to oo to cushion the predicament. You can't be impotent and be poor at the same time na. Godforbid

Igbo babe 😀😀

MatrixReloaded:

For me to sleep with, just divorce him or go buy sperm for IvF. Do you have to be witty.

I don't have to be anything I choose not to be, and nor do I need anyone's permission or approval to be or do whatever I choose to be or do.

I've stated my own optional preferences and don't need you to tell me what to do, thank you very much.

Depends on many things.

What do you mean by impotent?
Is it a half flying mast?(limp 🍆/ED)
Or is a gun that is firing blank shot? (AZOOSPERMIA)

Are there any other things he can bring to the table called marriage to supplement the faulty plumbing?

Should we plan for an IUI or a sperm donor in case of azoospermia.

Is he ready to consider a childless marriage (Double income no kids or DINK)

What of adoption?.

There's more to marriage than sex.

budaatum:


No it doesn't! A man can be impotent and not be erectile dysfunctional, or can be erectile dysfunctional and not be impotent, in which case we just extract the sperm and turkey bast.

Also, sperm can be extracted without him masturbating.

https://www.urologyhealth.org/urology-a-z/s/sperm-retrieval

Difficulty getting and keeping an erection is called impotence or erectile dysfunction. Check your dictionary if you are in doubt.

adelafe2019:


Difficulty getting and keeping an erection is called impotence or erectile dysfunction. Check your dictionary if you are in doubt.

You and your dictionary may call it whatever you want. Fact is, an erectile dysfunctional person may still produce baby bearing sperm, while an impotent person can not.

If you are a man you must at one time or the other found sperm at the tip of you non-erect diq. In fact, if you are healthy and virile enough and don't fuq often you'd have released sperm while pissing despite no hard on.

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

this one na for "no sex before marriage" people

Samantha124:
Take him to men's clinic.

If that doesn't work, what will be your next step of action?

Jovialjune1:



And you went to school, if educated people are told to raise their hand up you sef go follow join, imagine this your thinking

School me ma, help my life

I will look for a side cock perodt.
He should put himself in my shoes.

The woman go begin nack the husband any how

Kipaji:


In 2023, you don't need to sleep with a sperm donor to get pregnant with his seed. He can just masturbate in the other room and you manually his sperm into your genitals, no need for physical contact, no need for you to see him. Besides, there are so many technologies that can have you impregnated without having to touch or even see the sperm donor.

I don't understand your point....if he is able to masturbate and cum, that means he has an erection, so why can't he just insert the goddam thing, thrust and cum inside of her. Or, is there something you are not saying?

I'll give him two choices, we change our marriage status into an open marriage so I can find myself someone on the side while I continue being a good wife to him, or we divorce.

Emeskhalifa:


If that doesn't work, what will be your next step of action?

budaatum:
I'd go seek a doctor's help, and if that don't work, I'll discuss with my husband if he'd agree we adopt or we find a sperm donor for me to sleep with to provide him with children that he can not have.

For you to "sleep with"? Mk e no b say Ashawo dey your eyes o

Why must you buy a pig in a poke?

Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?

For better or for worse, for rich and for poor. No go knack outside oo!

Sonnobax15:

Over 90% of Nigerian bannies will immediately quit the marriage..Cuz they can't do without gbola.

Impotency is not same as erectile dysfunction.

Yoighaman:


I don't understand your point....if he is able to masturbate and cum, that means he has an erection, so why can't he just insert the goddam thing, thrust and cum inside of her. Or, is there something you are not saying?

Hmmm please read the comment you quoted again and carefully.

amarulabae:
I will look for a side cock perodt.
He should put himself in my shoes.

First of all, impotency doesn't mean he can't have erection, impotency means his sperm can't fertilize a female egg.

budaatum:


Rearing a child is a longer process, so if I can't be patient in my search for the right sperm, I shouldn't be having children in the first place.

Just come let's do it.

Offpoint1:
Op kindly include "answers Strictly by virgins only" because none virgins no fit marry impotent man

This is important.