@ Bebeelove

As you can see it is not only the Husband that needs a pacifier

even this particular lady does need something that can make her

forget her predicament.

Just be kind and polite to her and remember what goes around

comes around.

@ olanajim

What do you want from me? Is Babeelove complaining? Am I complaing?

I am achieving my maimum results with the mirror I bought form you so don't

you black and white me. All I[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] am saying is that I do really care about her.

Interesting, this lady is a housewife with three kids. i can just imagine how she looks now.i have a feeling it is nothing like she used to look. i agree with babeeluv to an extent. the lady should concentrate on taking care of herself and eventually he will notice. i can assure her of that.

Surely he saw some positives in her before he married her. i think that instead of crying she should reflect on those days they were courting and what really used to please this guy. could be that she's the one who has changed.

There is something his ex knows about this guy's needs that she may not know. she should try talking to him more. communication helps.

mellow:

@ Bebeelove

As you can see it is not only the Husband that needs a pacifier

even this particular lady does need something that can make her

forget her predicament.

Just be kind and polite to her and remember what goes around

comes around.

@ olanajim

What do you want from me? Is Babeelove complaining? Am I complaing?
I am achieving my maimum results with the mirror I bought form you so don't
you black and white me. All I[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] am saying is that I do really care about her.

Okay! what type of pacifier do you prefer--above the waist or below the waist Don't mind Olanajim jare--he is just being a busy body as usual. He wishes he were in your shoes to receive this almighty pacifier!!!

As for being kind, I have left the poster and her problems oh! I am kind and sympathetic.

charlione:

Interesting, this lady is a housewife with three kids. i can just imagine how she looks now.i have a feeling it is nothing like she used to look. i agree with babeeluv to an extent. the lady should concentrate on taking care of herself and eventually he will notice. i can assure her of that.


Surely he saw some positives in her before he married her. i think that instead of crying she should[b] reflect on those days they were courting and what really used to please this guy. could be that she's the one who has changed.[/b]

There is something his ex knows about this guy's needs that she may not know. she should try talking to him more. communication helps.

As you can see, I am under a gag order not to comment on this matter any further--so I will have to agree with you without making a sound. Thanks for being so "kind" and "sypathetic"!!! Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

baeelov oya where u dey

Did anybodi gag Babeelove?

I am here oh!  Serious gag order oh!!!  Can't you hear Mellow "Romeo" Yellow talking.  I have to show my feminine "Trust and Obey side" naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!

I didnt know she already ahs three kids. But that does not give her the visaz to go and start sleeping around.  

@bebeelove

O girl you dey harsh o. You mean if you were her you would , ;Duhm

mekoyo:

I didnt know she already ahs three kids. But that does not give her the visaz to go and start sleeping around. 

@bebeelove

O girl you dey harsh o. You mean if you were her you would , ;Duhm

Relax now-----I  did not say anything again oh.  What can I do to appease you guys   Make I delete the posts

If it were me--I already said what I would do---I am sticking to my "Ramsey Nouah" story!!!!

How could anybody gag you? I hope you are not refering to your dear prof. He was only asking you to be gentle with the girl. Maybe another person, I suppose.

fatty27:

How could anybody gag you? I hope you are not refering to your dear prof. He was only asking you to be gentle with the girl. Maybe another person, I suppose.

I have heard oh!!! Yes! Proff and Mellow initiated the "gag order"!!!! So I have to respect that----

something else just occured to me. what if the woman in question is just playing the victim? what if she one of those attention loving types that dont give their husbands breathing space? those types can be really irritating sometimes.
what if her husband is right and she is just being unnecessarily jealous over nothing?

Those of you advocating for divorce should stop! i dont think this problem is as serious as for her to ask for a divorce.especially with a 4 month baby in the bargain.and she's unemployed too!

I beg to disagree. Mellow want a fling with you. Prof want you to calm down your temper. It seem both of you are familiar. You can sort it out where he hangs out. By the way, you both said same thing. Except that you add a controversial RANSEH NOUAH dimention to it.

Mellow on his path just want to help you fill the vacuum.

fatty27:

I beg to disagree. Mellow want a fling with you. Prof want you to calm down your temper. It seem both of you are familiar. You can sort it out where he hangs out. By the way, you both said same thing. Except that you add a controversial RANSEH NOUAH dimention to it.
Mellow on his path just want to help you fill the vacuum.

I do not have any problem with "possibilities"---- I say I am sticking to my "Ramsey Nouah" driver look-alike option to tame the "wandering prick"!!!! Make my own wander small too--even with the 4 month old baby!!!

yeye u dey naija, who dey ask you wether you dey here i nor ask you dat one
] ooo abeg which country u dey, and send that ur taylor address make
i give am contract joor, i nor dey playoooo

luvlawyer:

yeye u dey naija, who dey ask you wether you dey here i nor ask you that one
] ooo abeg which country u dey, and send that your taylor address make
i give am contract joor, i nor dey playoooo

I see okay----------Na[b] Sura the Taylor [/b] for Lagos----------Ajegunle to be specific!   A beg which governor you wan visit oh for Naija oh?  I beg stay away from one of the South South/Eastern ones oh!!! One of them na my "Sweetie-daddy" oh!!!!

na wah for uooo
so ur taylor nor fit chop from another person,

abeg forget the governor side i nor dey do big belle
i like it flat! with six lines!

luvlawyer:

na wah for uooo
so your taylor nor fit chop from another person,

abeg forget the governor side[b] i nor dey do big belle [/b]
i like it flat! with six lines!

Siddon for thia!!!  Just siddon on top--them dey quick sleep!!!!   You check will be very fat---in hard currency!!!!

Lai lai---how a go give you ma tailor---you no know say na "runs" taylor?

na you sabi you and ur runs taylor

kai i don look the skirt and blouse agin e fine sha ,
but i nor get body like you so e nor go fit me,
i better stick to my freaking jeans and strap top,

Bebeekove are you still there?[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

If it were me--I already said what I would do---I am sticking to my "Ramsey Nouah" story!!!!

If i may ask why the Ramsey Nouah story

Mellow, Babeelove's hubby had been complaining to me that I dey expose im babe to too many crocodiles on nairaland ready to devour. That na reason I asked you to stay away from her. I no wan wahala. I don wish I were in your shoe at all. I wish I were in your trouser. That is the only way I can measure the temperature so that you don't get out of control.

I hope you are not mis-using my mirror? Please don't apply it on Babeelove. She is a co-inventor! She know the mystery of the mirror and its working mode. Only that I have the formula and the patent right. In fact, she get alot of it the thing herself.

Babeelove,
If I gagged you and you pours out this much, what would you do if nobody gag you?

Ramseh Nouah is an option prescribed by Madam Babeelove. Encouraging law of karma to take it full course. It is Babee's way of saying: if your guy cheats, then cheat to complete the circle. According to her, it had never fail, But evidence show that it is counter productive.

thank you all 4 ur contribution, the new thing on ground now is that the woman replied the mail the hubbys ex sent bluntly waiting for the hubby to question her why she did it, but up till now he hasn#t ask her, although he ask her to help him reply the mai and with LOVE at the end but she didnt.
you know the woman is a from a very good family who shuns divorce and the woman cant talk to her hubbys friend about it he will beat her mercilessly. she only tell her husbands people and they always talk to him.they have been married 4 five years and started living together for 2years now.the husband brought her abroad so she is not yet strong on her own. but thank you all once more.

Pamddi!!! you are the man. you just took words out of my mouth. more grease to your elbow for that piece.

just no mind them jare!!!

Something is missing in your last posting. I would like you to rephrase it with maximum clarity. Please bear the following in mind:

Is the mail electronics or postal? If email, did sha have the hubby password? Had she been helping her hubby to reply mails in the past? If NO, what had caused this change of attitude in the hubby? Is the hubby aware of the content of the mail she sent? Perhaps he dictated it to her or something. I think that action is strange. A man would not just wake up and ask his wife to write a reple to his ex mail and then ask the woman who is already in pain to add "love" at the end of the letter. He must either be a (   ). Sorry for the missing word. I want to get my fact right.

Please kindly keep us posted. Let us also know the reaction of the hubby.

The only comment I would make is to remind you of the earlier advices. SHE MUST GET A JOB, AS SOON AS SHE COULD.

olanajim:

Something is missing in your last posting. I would like you to rephrase it with maximum clarity. Please bear the following in mind:

Is the mail electronics or postal? If email, did sha have the hubby password? Had she been helping her hubby to reply mails in the past? If NO, what had caused this change of attitude in the hubby? Is the hubby aware of the content of the mail she sent? Perhaps he dictated it to her or something. I think that action is strange. A man would not just wake up and ask his wife to write a reple to his ex mail and then ask the woman who is already in pain to add "love" at the end of the letter. He must either be a ( ). Sorry for the missing word. I want to get my fact right.

Please kindly keep us posted. Let us also know the reaction of the hubby.

The only comment I would make is to remind you of the earlier advices. SHE MUST GET A JOB, AS SOON AS SHE COULD.

Yes it is by mail (computer) although the hubby sometimes ask her to reply some mails to friends and his ex .yes he read it as soon as he was back from work and said nothing about it instead just laugh and make a joke. they both have the password to the pc.

@Poster
Might we ask what is the content of this email? let's even remove the "with love" issue for now. Why would he tell her to reply a mail that has ulterior or sinister motives if truly he has hidden agenda?or does he just want to taunt her emotionally? there are some pieces of the puzzzle that aren't quite matching.
I hope she is not an overtly jealous person. the victimizer playing the victim!
BUT WHAT is the content of the letter sent by the ex?

@ Charlione

i suppose you said it all. people should stop profering divorce as a solution as it would in no way save the marriage.

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the ex is always demanding onething or the other from her hubby, or she writes a very nasty thing about her boyfriends, her hubby is always giving this lady attention. her hubby will sometime start a story of the ex ,how dirty she was and how she flirts with older men. that he is justing pitying her cos no man will want to stay longer with her cos her vaginal is always dirty and it smells. but the most annoying part is he still have contact with his ex which the woman involved don#t appreciate.

I REALLY FEEL LIKE CRYING 4 HER.
IS HE UR BOYFRIEND OR UR HUSBAND? WHICH WAY?
HE DOESN'T KNOW THE VALUE OF A WOMAN, MAYBE D LADY IS THE ONE DYING 4 THE MAN THAT IS WHY THE MAN IS MISBEHAVING. EVEN IF HE IS UR HELPER PLS OHH LEAVE THAT GUY.

THERE ARE PLENTY MEN IN THIS OUR CORRUPT COUNTRY THAT ARE LOOKING 4 LADIES LIKE U. SO DON'T BE DISMAY.

STAND UP, DUST URSELF AND STEP 4WARD. LIFE MUST GO ON