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| How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 8:43pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
MODS please help me Push this to front page,let it serve as a deterrent to some ladies and some simps can pick a line or 2 from this. I meet this lady after she returned from NYSC camp and I tried to be nice but along the line I realized she was nothing but a leech. Today was the straw that broke the Camel's 🐫 back.Here, is my conversation with her this evening [8/18, 8:01 PM] Jeniffer corper: My birthday is on Tuesday [8/18, 8:01 PM] Jeniffer corper: And I want to celebrate it but I don't have money Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Then don't celebrate it Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I wish you Many more happy returns Jeniffer corper: Amen Jeniffer corper: I want you to assist me Jeniffer corper: For the little one you have Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You can't afford it then don't celebrate it Jeniffer corper: Y Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥:**Sorry I can't help you** Jeniffer corper: Y Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: **Cos you don't have money*" Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: **And this is not your last birthday** Jeniffer corper: The one that I have can not reach Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Babe you people are always the architect of your problems (women,) Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You want to do more than you have Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: **Be contented** Jeniffer corper: Don't worry Jeniffer corper: Forget Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: **I did, a long time ago** Jeniffer corper: You supposed to tell me that you can't afford it At this point ☝️👆👆👆 she made me FLIP AND LOSE MY TEMPER. NO COURTESY AT ALL , NOT EVEN A GOOD EVENING, SHE BELIEVED IT'S HER BIRTHRIGHT TO DEMAND!!!!. All along I tried to play cool and be as sharp and precisely as a double edged sword ⚔️,hence my outburst 👇👇👇 Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I can Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: But I won't Jeniffer corper: You can't Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I have atleast 500 k in my account Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: That can feed you a long time to come Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: But I won't Jeniffer corper: Because if to say you can, you for do something Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Do you think I'm broke Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I will send you a screenshot of my balance Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You're just being very myopic Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Have you chatted me in months Jeniffer corper: Food your self forget about me Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You just come to my DM and tell me tomorrow is my birthday, yen yen yen!! Jeniffer corper: I just want to try you Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Don't try me Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You have siblings try them Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Why are you behaving like you gave me money to keep Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Get out of my DM Jeniffer corper: Don't worry suit your self Jeniffer corper: See you Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I said GET OUT Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Do you think I'm broke,? Jeniffer corper: Are you trying to insult yourself Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You brought this on yourself Jeniffer corper: See the person that I'm trying to manage Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You can't afford birthday Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Y don't you quit Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Look at this one Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: That's y I don't even chat you cos it's one begging to the other Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Have I ever asked you for anything? Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: The day I meet you I bought you and your hungry friends food Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I took you out, made sure you took food back to your hungry friends Jeniffer corper: 500k is it a money Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I even offered to put you in a hotel, when you declined cos you're not used to luxury, I ordered you Bolt ⚡ which I'm sure you can't afford!!! Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Look at who's managing who? Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: MY DEAR GET LOST Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: If you have up to 100,k make I lost Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Send me a screenshot of your accounts let's compare Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Get lost I don't do beggars Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Na so the other day just to chat you up u started begging Jeniffer corper: Your mate out is out there have 10 millions and you there proud for 500k Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Get lost I don't compare myself with anyone Jeniffer corper: You done already lost Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I am contented with the little I have Jeniffer corper: Rubbish Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Because you're not contented thats why you go around begging Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Beggar Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Get lost Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: You no dey see my girlfriend on my dp Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Does she look like you Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Abi you think she can stoop low to beg Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: I take care of her needs not beggars like you Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: GET LOST Jeniffer corper: Just because of you are already know that you are poor that why you angry Fireman 👨🏾🚒🔥🔥: Even though you presume I'm poor,I'm not a beggar. She couldn't take the heat 😭😔😭🔥🔥🔥💥 anymore she blocked me Guys out there don't, out of shame chest any entitled Ladies bills, be firm in your resolutions Please this should hit FRONT PAGE OO 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Nobody: 8:44pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
She's right, you were too aggressive in your response. You have a girlfriend and yet cheating with a corper who also know you have a girlfriend and that implies it was strictly business. Since you're sleeping with her then she has right to demand from you based on the foundation of your amorous sexual relationship It's not that deep, na you carry emotion come put inside. 5 Likes
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| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Hezzyluv: 8:45pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
The girl Shameless bagger  U, unnecessary masculine Both of U should just gettat..!  16 Likes |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Puss360(f): 8:47pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Op, how do you define maturity? I don't know your age, but judging from that chat up there I'm not sure u are above 21... Coz the talk is too long and too unnecessary all because you refused giving her what she asked for... Someone asks you for something, you don't have, why not say so and close mouth... Which one come be "I have over 500k in my account that can feed you a long time "... What sort of statement is dat  What are you trying to prove?If you don tire for the girl, why not block her? Better grow up.. Proving your masculinity doesn't equate Maturity ... 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by talented321: 8:51pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
What right does she have to ask him money for her birthday? The average nigerian girl mentality' no shame at all. But op you go too far'' u don't need to be emotional with the average nigerian girl except the few matured ones'' I like how u express you feeling fluently'' the ministry is proud of u'' Puss360:. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 8:56pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR:I have never seen her panties, mind you I met her last year September and I work in the Federal Secretariat where the NYSC OFFICE IS,,then I wasn't dating. I have never asked her for sex, I take my time to study people once I see you have nothing to offer then we're done. Moreover Sleeping with someone is not supposed to be a job that you're supposed to be earning a salary. I pray we have more staunch core strict men like me, walahi this ladies for wake up. 27 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo:Don't you think she's trying to see if you have something to offer as well? I think she was studying you as well and you failed her test. But you were aggressive with your response 3 Likes
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| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by woginid967: 9:02pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo:Cheiii what a simp You go explain tire, you no get proof. Always resist the urge to shalaye You talked too much. You're not 🚫 an alpha male. Take some red pill and move on. Very simple chat that would have ended by you telling her you are already spending on another girl or that you will see what you can do, then litter your status with pics and lovely words for another. So she will know you are rich but wayyy out of her league. Anyway, just avoid her. You didnt have to talk much with her. 5 Likes |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:02pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR:Don't study me you won't graduate. Did you notice the flaws and errors in her reply?? Someone who is supposed to be a graduate and serving can't make a complete sentence without errors. I come from a well-bred family and I don't tolerate mediocrity... 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:04pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
woginid967:I told her that cos she said she was managing me!! A village masquerade managing the King 👑 of Her Entire kingdom,, WTF 10 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by talented321: 9:06pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo:The average nigerian behaves like dog'' the broke ones are even the worst'' Useless theirselves for a mere kpekus that is over everywhere and cheap. 4 Likes |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo:You were too harsh all the same, there's a way you put a woman off without hurting her but you were too aggressive about it. You can go apologize to her for being rude then you part ways and go stick with your girlfriend 1 Like |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:09pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
talented321:If a kpekus doesn't have the qualities I need, which are: Respect, Loyalty, Brains, and God Factor then my Royal Blue 🔵 blood can't mix. Quote me anywhere... 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Solofresh2: 9:10pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
I want to believe you guy have something together you are not telling us because, for her to ask you for money to celebrate her birthday, there is something fishy She is a foolish woman for begging people just to celebrate her own birthday. It is not by force you celebrate. As for you,everything is not aggression, learn to be moderate in your doings. 5 Likes |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by woginid967: 9:12pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo: King without proof. Guy you be simp... Ask one of your campus girls to send you pix.... Go to your status, mute everyone except her. Then Photoshop and post... Write very nice words. Even put faceless secs naija leaks. Then post them in succession Then YOU Are KING. A king doesn't have to discuss his worth. He shows it. You were simply NICE. Ladies chase bad bois. |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:13pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR:I dare not apologize, did you read when I told her not to indulge in expenses she can't afford, meaning to say of you can't afford a big party for your birthday make it small nobody go Kee you, but she wants to trend as a happening b!tc* while she got nothing... Na so Dem go dey post for status craving for sharwama and smoothie one naira no gum them..If your craving for sharwama, I'm craving for a tour to the 🌙 Moon.. We ain't on the same level 🎚️ 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:14pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
woginid967:What will you stand to gain or profit for trying to be FAKE cos you want to create an impression on a broke arse beggar? REAL OL" GEES DONT LIVE A FAKE LIFE!!!! I AM A KING 👑 KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE 🕊️✌️ 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:19pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Puss360:age is just a matter of mind if you don't mind it doesn't matter...If truly I'm 21 as you claim I'm not matured. Answer this one question? How many 21 year old Nigerians with Zero support, a legit job, not Yahoo,Scamming, or NEXT OF KINS CAN AFFORD 500K? MY SISTER FOR ME LEGIT MONEY AND HUSTLE WILL MAKE YOU MATURED. I WORK MY ARSE OUT STARVE SOMETIMES TO MEET UP, COS I DON'T WANT TO BE A BEGGAR..I don't block people unnecessarily, CONGRATULATIONS will still bring them back to MY DM. I had to vent my anger on her cos she has done this time and time again, the other time she told me she was in the hospital when I had severe bouts of Malaria and thyphoid from working for 24hrs daily for 4 days straight to serve Fatherland and someone will just come out of nowhere to demand for funds, if you don't oblige she'll call you broke. Lemme be broke but I ain't bulging for any entitled MF... 12 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by BabaHenry(m): 9:24pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
IconicR:Since the day I've been coming across your comments on this forum,you have never made any sense... Is this how stupid you could at least be? 13 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by JASONjnr(m): 9:26pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Op, no mind all these girls trying to make you feel bad for putting that hungry beggar to her well deserved place. Girls will beg you out of nothing but will claim they were testing you.... She's comparing op with guys owning 10million when she can't even brag of birthday cash 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
BabaHenry:oniranu
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| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 9:41pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
JASONjnr:God bless you my brother.. For me I don't take any prisoners, I pap pap pap. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Offpointng: 10:07pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo I'm an Alpha Male but this one is too much and I feel disgusted. You telling her you cant and ignoring her ass was more than enough. you going as far to declare ur Networth and still dragging matters with her was totally uncalled for I'm not criticising ur refusal but dragging the chat was uncalled for 7 Likes |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Puss360(f): 10:30pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
talented321:Thanks |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Puss360(f): 10:35pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
markidoo:Your explanation are your reasons albeit a valid one.. My own is that, you don't change the behaviour of someone whom you are dating or in a relationship with or being friends with .. You adapt and adjust to it.... If you can't, then you end the whole damn thing... If she is a begger or always demanding, why are you still with her?? Sometimes we inadvertently culture little issues that will later be a problem in our lives.... Girls will always beg, not all though, and also men will always give them, not all men sha ... So you know yourself, find the one that fits you... 1 Like |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by DataAlchemist: 10:50pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
For your mind now, you be alpha male  ? or wetin una dey call am? you going as far as proving you have money in your account shows you are far from being an alpha male or whatever.In the alpha male mindset, a simple "no" preserves respect by limiting dialogue. 1 Like |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Baronthecelebri: 10:54pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
woginid967:mumu 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by wakaman: 10:56pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
For any man that wants to make sense of life. Beggarly girls should be avoided at all cost. Them go finish your biscuit. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Baronthecelebri: 10:56pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Guy you too much 💪✌️✋🖐️🤝👍✊👊🤛🤜🙌👐👐👋🙏 the girl self no sabi English language, graduate for that matter God forbid. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 4:16am On Aug 19, 2023 |
Puss360:If you go through the post you'll know that we barely communicate in months sef, we're not dating, I met her just once and the rest na pestering abi begging from one flimsy excuse to another. And I always let her know that, if I want to assist her it has to come from my Heart, begging won't persuade me.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by markidoo(m): 4:18am On Aug 19, 2023 |
Offpointng:she could have stopped insisting when I told her I can't help her, she kept on asking Y I can't help her, as if she gave me money to keep and even went as far as telling me that I CAN'T AFFORD IT.. Telling her PART OF MY NETWORTH was just to make her know that I have more than enough to throw her an expensive party but I won't give her a dime. I AM A PUBLIC SERVANT, FIND OUT HOW MANY PUBLIC SERVANTS WITH ONLY ONE JOB, ZERO SUPPORTS, LIVE COMFORTABLY AFTER SETTLING HOUSE RENT IN A HIGH BROW AREA,STILL FOOTING FAMILY BILLS MONTHLY AND KEEPING A HIGH STANDARD OF SOCIAL LIFE CURRENTLY AT MY OWN LEVEL 🎚️( CONFIDENTIAL)? THE COUNTRY IS HARD DONT BRING YOUR PROBLEMS TO WEIGH ANOTHER PERSON DOWN. IT HURTS WHEN A CHURCH RAT CALLS A LEGIT HUSTLER BROKE.. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How I Dealt With An Entitled Lady by Abrahamweb(m): 4:29am On Aug 19, 2023 |
IconicR:Except you do similar thing, it's wrong. Serious people no dey test someone. I had a relationship like that that I ended earlier this month,the lady only calls me when she need money,she ignored me for 2 weeks until her birthday came up,3 days before her birthday she called me without asking how I'm doing,she just said "my birthday is next tomorrow", I said ok,na. When the day come I ignored her till today o. 3 Likes |
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