Eya to all this women who are languishing in nostalgia. They were younger and did not appreciate the good men they had, but now they are older and are now wishing they could turn back the hands of time. Unfortunately, it does not happen like that.

This thread should hopefully show the young girls out there, who are with good men as we speak, not to end up being like this girls who are now regretting letting go of the good guys they once had. These girls are now trying to console themselves by saying that they met "the right person at the wrong time." Give me a break. I know that what I just said does not apply to all of the women, but I am damn sure it affects a substantial portion of the women who are sharing their experiences here.

kponkish:

pls y'all dont i beg u!! sumone is close 2 tears already

what is your problem?
u want to be noticed?
Quit it!i already noticed you.

Mr, Cork:

slimyem <<<< Village girl tryin to sound american by force

will you get off my back already FREAK!

yes i have . . . .

and i miss her terribly

rubbish talk no such things like right person @ wrong time or vis-visa, stop imagination and make things right 4ur self

slimyem:

what is your problem?
u want to be noticed?
Quit it!i already noticed you.will you get off my back already FREAK!

Princek12:

Eya to all this women who are languishing in nostalgia. They were younger and did not appreciate the good men they had, but now they are older and are now wishing they could turn back the hands of time. Unfortunately, it does not happen like that.

This thread should hopefully show the young girls out there, who are with good men as we speak, not to end up being like this girls who are now regretting letting go of the good guys they once had. These girls are now trying to console themselves by saying that they met "the right person at the wrong time." Give me a break. I know that what I just said does not apply to all of the women, but I am damn sure it affects a substantial portion of the women who are sharing their experiences here.

like i said in my post,there might have been important REASONS for a person's unwillingness to stay or commit to a relationship.it doesnt necessarily amount to REGRETS.the RIGHT person in this context is an individual perception.he/she might have been wrong aftterall.hw about you see it that way,

in Words of  Maya Angelou: When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be.Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.[/i]

My expereince was crazy and i promise my self never to love again.  The girl tore my heart into shreds! blew me away like the wind and and never gave a damn about my feelings.  few months later she was asking for a 2nd chance, butthen i had moved on, so I can say wrong person wrong time, and now at the right time i found the right person and we celebrated our annivessary recently, but still not inlove, heartless yes i know, but its best that way because in life nothing is garauntee

It really can be heart-breaking!

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yomz1e:

in Words of  Maya Angelou: When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason,you need them to be.Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilleed; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.[/i]

My expereince was crazy and i promise my self never to love again.  The girl tore my heart into shreds! blew me away like the wind and and never gave a damn about my feelings.  few months later she was asking for a 2nd chance, butthen i had moved on, so I can say wrong person wrong time, and now at the right time i found the right person and we celebrated our annivessary recently, but still not inlove, heartless yes i know, but its best that way because in life nothing is garauntee

Maks sense

but den am touched



sumone stop me pls, dont no y am acting all emotional like a woman

slimyem:

like i said in my post,there might have been important REASONS for a person's unwillingness to stay or commit to a relationship.it doesnt necessarily amount to REGRETS.the RIGHT person in this context is an individual perception.he/she might have been wrong aftterall.hw about you see it that way,

Your statement still shows that you are trying to justify your unwillingness to commit to someone whom you said, in your own words, to be the right person. You are still attempting to calm your pain by envisioning--or perhaps hoping--that the supposed right person "might have been wrong after all," which just shows that it is nothing more than an attempt at consoling yourself for a seemingly imprudent decision in the past. Your reasons for not committing to the man of your dreams back then was because you wanted to experience the world. I hope that you have now experienced that world.

What makes the person 'right' when the timing was wrong. This is a misplaced priority. If the person is actually the right person, then the timing must correlate. Infatuation and lust should not be mistaken for love. Love will always find out whereever you, and the time and person must be right.

slimyem:

like i said in my post,there might have been important REASONS for a person's unwillingness to stay or commit to a relationship.it doesnt necessarily amount to REGRETS.the RIGHT person in this context is an individual perception.he/she might have been wrong aftterall.hw about you see it that way,

Oh oh! now she's begining to reason in my direction now dat the rite person is in one's imagination, yet she told me earlier my opinion was not needed here. women nd dier fish brain self!

yea

Princek12:

Your statement still shows that you are trying to justify your unwillingness to commit to someone whom you said, in your own words, to be the right person. You are still attempting to calm your pain by envisioning--or perhaps hoping--that the supposed right person "might have been wrong after all," which just shows that it is nothing more than an attempt at consoling yourself for a seemingly imprudent decision in the past. Your reasons for not committing to the man of your dreams back then was because you wanted to experience the world. I hope that you have now experienced that world.

and what makes you assume or opine that my decisions were imprudent?your opinion of me or my life is baseless my dear.you do not know JACK about it.dont even go there!
experiencing the world?yes,i have and i'm not done and i wont be until i'm old and grey.deal with that!

another derailed thread. . . . smh

Princek12:

Eya to all this women who are languishing in nostalgia. They were younger and did not appreciate the good men they had, but now they are older and are now wishing they could turn back the hands of time. Unfortunately, it does not happen like that.

This thread should hopefully show the young girls out there, who are with good men as we speak, not to end up being like this girls who are now regretting letting go of the good guys they once had. These girls are now trying to console themselves by saying that they met "the right person at the wrong time." Give me a break. I know that what I just said does not apply to all of the women, but I am damn sure it affects a substantial portion of the women who are sharing their experiences here.

I agree with this

Happened to me years back. Traveled out and before I returned my woman had lost her virginity. I returned with an engagement ring but my friend had ringed her engine already. She is still roaming the street and already  above 30. Still visit her once in a while when I need someone skilled with the mouth organ

kponkish:

Oh oh! now she's begining to reason in my direction now dat the rite person is in one's imagination, yet she told me earlier my opinion was not needed here. women nd dier fish brain self!

i wonder where you just fell from and what your obsession with my thread is.
And it is all the women in your life WHOEVER they are that are fish-brained.yes,i said it.bite me! .

kponkish:

Maks sense

but den am touched



sumone stop me pls, dont no y am acting all emotional like a woman

kponkish:
dont no y am acting all emotional like a woman

that's because your scrotal sac is empty.there's no need to wonder.

tell me about it

slimyem:

i wonder where you just fell from and what your obsession with my thread is.
And it is all the women in your life WHOEVER they are that are fish-brained.yes,i said it.bite me! .that's because your scrotal sac is empty.there's no need to wonder.

u definitely fit 4 a comedian

Up Slimyem

Now you want the guy to come and pick the leftover, after when you have sell yourself to many men that did not appreciate what you get. that's not going to happen.

slimyem:

and what makes you assume or opine that my decisions were imprudent?your opinion of me or my life is baseless my dear.you do not know JACK about it.dont even go there!
experiencing the world?yes,i have and i'm not done and i wont be until i'm old and grey.deal with that!

I am not judging that your decisions were imprudent; I said they were seemingly imprudent. Anyway, neither here nor there, in my humble opinion, you have seemed to blame "the wrong time" for your decision of letting go of the man of your dreams. You, just like other women on this thread, have refused to blame themselves or accept responsibility for making the wrong decision. The first step towards redemption is accepting culpability for a decision gone wrong, not passing the blame on something else. Oh how the "wrong time" would be hitting his head on the wall for being blamed for something for which it may not be responsible.

@ nymph node , lol! you a joka! abeg tek care when you wan go rinse your dipstick in the mouth organ o! That engine must be knackered by now!

Right person, Wrong time, Life might be trying to tell you something, so listen,
If the seemingly right person appears and things don't go well, it's probably because something far worse would happen if you two got together. Life has a way of putting you where you need to be. Think about every ex you have (some have to think more than others). Those people are your exes because at one point you THOUGHT he/she was the right person at the right time, but I bet you wish something had gone wrong earlier than it did so that your feelings were spared.

That being said, there are really nice guys across oceans that I sometimes wonder about, (Daydreaming)

amaka! i checked your picture, you be one fine village girl o! u don marry?

Just wait

The difference between being a gf/bf vs a husband or wife has everything to do with timing. Wrong timing and everything is thrown off.[quote][/quote]

I have a fresh experience (and I'm probably still having). This gurl is crazy in love but we can't even start dating cos of the distance(which occured a few months after we started talking). And when she talked about changing her life plans so we could be together, I had to cut it off cos am so not ready [i have never been in a relationship and am not ready to start with this type], even though she will make a good wife and i really like her. It was a hard decision to make.

Amaka G29:

Right person, Wrong time, Life might be trying to tell you something, so listen,
If the seemingly right person appears and things don't go well, it's probably because something far worse would happen if you two got together. Life has a way of putting you where you need to be. Think about every ex you have (some have to think more than others). Those people are your exes because at one point you THOUGHT he/she was the right person at the right time, but I bet you wish something had gone wrong earlier than it did so that your feelings were spared.

That being said, there are really nice guys across oceans that I sometimes wonder about, (Daydreaming)

now,i like this point of view.

Princek12:

Eya to all this women who are languishing in nostalgia. They were younger and did not appreciate the good men they had, but now they are older and are now wishing they could turn back the hands of time. Unfortunately, it does not happen like that.

This thread should hopefully show the young girls out there, who are with good men as we speak, not to end up being like this girls who are now regretting letting go of the good guys they once had. These girls are now trying to console themselves by saying that they met "the right person at the wrong time." Give me a break. I know that what I just said does not apply to all of the women, but I am damn sure it affects a substantial portion of the women who are sharing their experiences here.

Absolutely spot on!