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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nairas2dollars: 1:17pm On Sep 24, 2023
Ashawoman82:
If u no get money, nobody send u, even family...
family isn't everything
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by kunkelhanspeter(m): 1:18pm On Sep 24, 2023
Olokobintin:
Look for a help the helper can gain in it. Looking for a totally free help won't move you forward.


What is it for me?
Question all helpers always ask.
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Fearyourcreator: 1:19pm On Sep 24, 2023
WarrenP:
FAMILY IS NOT ALWAYS FAMILY
True family might not be blood related

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by MrBroke(m): 1:19pm On Sep 24, 2023
1. Everything is Vanity

2. Nobody is without problem doesn't matter how wealthy you are problem go still dey your side. So money isn't everything.

3. Everything that came after humans was invented by them from Religion, Technology, Languages, etc all were man made

4. Nobody is special. Everybody is just fooling themselves.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Fearyourcreator: 1:20pm On Sep 24, 2023
DND069:
There is no KARMA. Evil people prevail, even their generations still excel.
There is karma, you placed trust on people you don't really know their ways ...
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by kennosklint(m): 1:22pm On Sep 24, 2023
Fear women , fear those who doesn’t fear women, . Don’t ever try to impress a woman just to get her love, be yourself and always tell her who you are.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by rash47(m): 1:23pm On Sep 24, 2023
MichaelSokoto:
avoid helping a damaged person get back on their feet if u urself don't have time 4 urself!

cool


This your experience get the way e be 'o...
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Myer(m): 1:23pm On Sep 24, 2023
Chingyyy878:
What’s the hardest truth you have learnt as an adult?

Not all adults are adults (matured), even parents.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by nigmarelli(m): 1:25pm On Sep 24, 2023
Illegal1:
omoh........i no knw say people wen get sense plenty for nairaland lyk dis.


i've learnt alot 4rm u guys

Greetings o! Omo no be lie o when they are united and focused without all the eye division and tribalism; see serious words on marble!

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 1:28pm On Sep 24, 2023
The food that I ate must've been contaminated, I don't know.
achimendy:




Excuse me, you mean you've been poisoned?

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Sundav11: 1:28pm On Sep 24, 2023
Never be in a haste to make a financial decision.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Orderabove(m): 1:29pm On Sep 24, 2023
FAMILY is 1
be real
don't lie, cos they will eventually find out the truth
don't fall inlove when you are still struggling.
if your family depend on you, don't do anything to betray there trust on u.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Amebaba01(m): 1:30pm On Sep 24, 2023
Never afraid to walk alone, moreover you will walk alone when death comes.

Meaning: Take risk at every surface time.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by EminiOba: 1:31pm On Sep 24, 2023
It's possible to be spiritual and not religious

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Nobody: 1:32pm On Sep 24, 2023
But you said you don't enjoy eating with someone... grin grin grin

frankson1:




Samantha, you're not nice cheesy cheesy I meant that I prefer doing things alone and without partners. I don't usually have visitors.
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by MindHacker9009(m): 1:33pm On Sep 24, 2023
zhirkovrado:

Have zhirkovrado a brain?? NO

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by AImiron: 1:34pm On Sep 24, 2023
Nobody owe you sh1t

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by MichaelUweh(m): 1:35pm On Sep 24, 2023
Don't kill yourself for anything or anybody because , what must be, must be.

Secondly,
Always try to speak the truth, irrespective of who is involve, because if you speak the truth,you will die, and if you speak lie, you will still die.

Thirdly,
You are no one's responsibility, so stop the complaints about your brother, sister, uncle, etc, not doing this or that. You are on your own.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by MichaelUweh(m): 1:37pm On Sep 24, 2023
Don't kill yourself for anything or anybody because , what must be, must be.

Secondly,
Always try to speak the truth, irrespective of who is involve, because if you speak the truth,you will die, and if you speak lie, you will still die.

Thirdly,
You are no one's responsibility, so stop the complaints about your brother, sister, uncle, etc, not doing this or that. You are your own responsibility, and you are on your own.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by jojothaiv(m): 1:39pm On Sep 24, 2023
All the love no pass RIP and Happy Birthday, so do your thing and live your life.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Rajosh(m): 1:40pm On Sep 24, 2023
No one got your back

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Xcelinteriors(f): 1:43pm On Sep 24, 2023
In life I have learnt so many lessons
1. Do not trust anybody especially your family
2. You need more than love to have a successful marriage. It takes more of respect and forgiveness
3. Don't look onto anyone for help except God. God is the only one that can genuinely help
4. Self love is very important
5. Always love others but don't let them see you as a coward/weakling

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by franchasofficia: 1:45pm On Sep 24, 2023
As a lady, before you desire to marry a rich man, also have it in mind that you will share him with other women lipsrsealed

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Leggodeals(f): 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2023
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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by isArray: 1:46pm On Sep 24, 2023
pansophist:
Negotiations are just what we engage in to flavor our animalistic nature. Because a step below that is basically the law of the jungle.

So for example, as a country signs treaties and enacts UN laws, it still maintains a large military to fight off invaders, because the documents countries are signing are not what protects them, but their ability to fight if the other party breaks it.

Or when a bank is giving you a loan, and you both sign documents, but the banks make sure they have collateral worth more than the loan they give, so when you default, they won't lose.

So as you are entering any agreement/negotiations, make sure that when shit hits the fan, you do not lose, and that your strength is in you, not in the documents you are signing.

"In every situation, make I no lose" - Asake cheesy

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by chukseric504869: 1:47pm On Sep 24, 2023
I have learnt in life that "one doesn't know how strong he is until being strong become his last option"

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Fearyourcreator: 1:51pm On Sep 24, 2023
UncleKoboko:
1, A SLÚT, wayward girl, whóre or olosho will forever be OLOSHŌ.
They never change.
What usually seem to change them is conditioning (marriage, having a child etc)
Most times when circumstances change again, they will go back to their old ways.


2, Never trust anything that comes out ot a NON-VIRGIN girl's mouth, as regards her sexual history and past. They lie 99.99% of times.

3, Women have pattern behaviours.
If she's cheated in the past, she will always cheat again.
A girl that you snatched from someone or that left someone for you, CAN ALWAYS LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE or will still leave you for someone else.
She can never be a loyal or committed partner.

4, If you didn't marry her as a virgin
PLEASE DO DNA TEST ON YOUR CHILDREN.
Even if you married her as and you notice or suspect misbehaviour or waywardness, PLEASE STILL DO DNA TEST. DNA TEST IS NO LONGER AS EXPENSIVE AS IT USED TO BE.

5, A woman with good morals, decent and modesty and with average looks is far more VALUABLE AND A GOOD ASSET THAN THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD FOR A PARTNER.

6, IF YOU WON'T LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE LIKE HER, SHE IS NOT A GOOD PERSON TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN.

7, People's past matters a lot and we should always Judge people by their past.
The law judge people by their past (actions)
Your cv is your past to get jobs
Banks will judge you by your past before giving you the next loan...
Even God will judge us by our past at the end of life.
But for you here on earth, one cunny and mischievous girl will tell you not to judge her by her past after living a useless and wayward life and you'll think she has a point grin grin grin
Lol
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Olaolex: 1:51pm On Sep 24, 2023
sacajawea:
That is your 'Hardest' truth?
Yes! You cannot please everybody.

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Fearyourcreator: 1:52pm On Sep 24, 2023
id4sho:
No one truly cares , only your biological parents care tongue
Still playing grin... like mohbad's
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by Rapture4real(m): 1:52pm On Sep 24, 2023
UncleKoboko:
1, A SLÚT, wayward girl, whóre or olosho will forever be OLOSHŌ.
They never change.
What usually seem to change them is conditioning (marriage, having a child etc)
Most times when circumstances change again, they will go back to their old ways.


2, Never trust anything that comes out ot a NON-VIRGIN girl's mouth, as regards her sexual history and past. They lie 99.99% of times.

3, Women have pattern behaviours.
If she's cheated in the past, she will always cheat again.
A girl that you snatched from someone or that left someone for you, CAN ALWAYS LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE or will still leave you for someone else.
She can never be a loyal or committed partner.

4, If you didn't marry her as a virgin
PLEASE DO DNA TEST ON YOUR CHILDREN.
Even if you married her as and you notice or suspect misbehaviour or waywardness, PLEASE STILL DO DNA TEST. DNA TEST IS NO LONGER AS EXPENSIVE AS IT USED TO BE.

5, A woman with good morals, decent and modesty and with average looks is far more VALUABLE AND A GOOD ASSET THAN THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE WORLD FOR A PARTNER.

6, IF YOU WON'T LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE LIKE HER, SHE IS NOT A GOOD PERSON TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN.

7, People's past matters a lot and we should always Judge people by their past.
The law judge people by their past (actions)
Your cv is your past to get jobs
Banks will judge you by your past before giving you the next loan...
Even God will judge us by our past at the end of life.
But for you here on earth, one cunny and mischievous girl will tell you not to judge her by her past after living a useless and wayward life and you'll think she has a point grin grin grin


You have really suffered from women. Give your life to Jesus Christ today for a new life. Don't use one experience to generalise others. Remain blessed
Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by SuccessfulRichi: 1:52pm On Sep 24, 2023
Never trust a Nigerian girl no matter how innocent she looks [sub][/sub] undecided

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Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by PaulH07: 1:53pm On Sep 24, 2023
Chingyyy878:
What’s the hardest truth you have learnt as an adult?

That there is no God, and everyone is actually on his/her own.

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