maureensylvia:
Personal space
You don’t have to update unnecessarily
No need worrying about whom you’re talking to
Spend more time with friends
No trust issues
No missed calls in midnight
No distractions, more less savings

Bottom line, do not get comfortable with being single for too long

Relationship too sweet😄😄😄

Chingyyy878:
Tell us

FireUpNow:
■ Dem dey give money to marry or build house? When you ready for marriage body go tell you.

GeneralPula:
You see this life, regardless of how you spin it, there will always be 2 sides..

You're single, you'll pay the price..
You're dating, you'll pay the price..

You have a car, you'll pay the price..
You don't have a car, you'll pay the price..

You get married, you'll pay the price..
You don't get married, you'll still pay the price..

You working, you'll pay the price..
You have no job, you'll still pay the price..

talented321:
1. No billing.
2. No heart break.
3. No jealousy.
4. Peace of mind.
5. Your problem is for you alone because you have nobody to disturb u with billing' where by making you to complain all problems..
6. No unnecessary drama.
7. You can bleep who ever you want without being guilty or fear.
8. You are always hot.
Don't go into any relationship if you are still struggling to avoid ''see finish and depression'' just bleep and pass..

AllKnowing:
I remember seeing this particular comment on Instagram. It went thus:

“When you comot for relationship, e go be like say kidnapper release you.”

Bluearrow:

So what is holding u back?
You already got a job & an apartment.
Just intensify your search, you will find a wife.

GeneralPula:
You see this life, regardless of how you spin it, there will always be 2 sides..

You're single, you'll pay the price..
You're dating, you'll pay the price..

You have a car, you'll pay the price..
You don't have a car, you'll pay the price..

You get married, you'll pay the price..
You don't get married, you'll still pay the price..

You working, you'll pay the price..
You have no job, you'll still pay the price..

Kobojunkie:
1. Since when did being accountable to no one amount to being less responsible? Most of the responsible folks I know are in fact single whereas a good many of the most irresponsible folks out there happen to be married.

Marriage is perceived as the taking on of additional responsibilities not previously bestowed on one by life itself meaning that you add to your previous load when you get married. So long as you are alike on this planet life bestow you with responsibilities. Adding extra responsibilities on top the burden life already gave to you by your own hands is what relationships help do. Ofcourse in the end, not all those who take on additional responsibilities bear them well in the end as many even go as far as to abandon those responsibilities they signed up for in the end.

Kobojunkie:
And if person rack him brain realize say marriage no go benefit am at all, what then?

Kobojunkie:
And if person rack him brain realize say marriage no go benefit am at all, what then?

Wotowotoman:
■ Okay this response may explain your life situation. You are very lonely and you just dey use this forum to kill loneliness as you no get family and friends. Gotcha!!!

FireUpNow:
■ if that you you believe then be it

GeneralPula:
You see this life, regardless of how you spin it, there will always be 2 sides..

You're single, you'll pay the price..
You're dating, you'll pay the price..

You have a car, you'll pay the price..
You don't have a car, you'll pay the price..

You get married, you'll pay the price..
You don't get married, you'll still pay the price..

You working, you'll pay the price..
You have no job, you'll still pay the price..

Wotowotoman:
■ Oga abi na madam. You say you dey yankee and you were in your 20s in the mid 90s. That puts you around 50 plus or minus.. Please why are you always commenting on every thread on Nairaland? Don’t you have a job? Family? Friends? Hobbies? Or any other thing to do with your life than to be exchanging with kids on this platform? You wey dey yankee where you say you are living well. Don’t you feel ashamed of yourself? This is me just wondering o. Please don’t take it the wrong way but the thing dey surprise me how you are at that age and you don’t feel some type of way to dey follow children wey you fit born to dey banter 247…

Kobojunkie:
The fact that you assume being single means being lonely instead reveals that you never were able to realize happiness and peace in your own existence and have instead taken to finding it by attaching yourself to others like a leech.

Wotowotoman:
■ Oga if you were not lonely you won’t be in Nairaland 247 at the age of 50 bantering with children. Your mates are not here on Nairaland..and if they come, they read and go. This forum is full of teenagers and lazy youths. Guy, you are very lonely jor

Kobojunkie:
Like I said.... in the end, na you go tire first!

Kobojunkie:
Then let people find their way for themselves and stop trying to cajole them into creating burdens that that may not be able to bear in the end.

Anonymoususher:
See ehhh for me personally at this stage of my life I don't think there is any benefit for me being single.

I'm 31yrs old and my life cycle is only work, church and house. Most times weekend I just find reasons to go to work so that I don't feel bored.

I have friends who are married so it shrinks my cycle because they spend more time with their family.

My case is even worse because I don't even go out, I neither drink, club or even go anywhere.

It's just me moving from room to parlour like that all day.

I crave for a family, I am sick and tired of being a bachelor, I want to see my kids like e dey hungry me.

I have been single for too long and see no benefit of being single anymore.

FireUpNow:

Canjole? Do you know the meaning of the words you are using? 😃😆😆

Wotowotoman:


Oga abi na madam. You say you dey yankee and you were in your 20s in the mid 90s. That puts you around 50 plus or minus.. Please why are you always commenting on every thread on Nairaland? Don’t you have a job? Family? Friends? Hobbies? Or any other thing to do with your life than to be exchanging with kids on this platform? You wey dey yankee where you say you are living well. Don’t you feel ashamed of yourself?

This is me just wondering o. Please don’t take it the wrong way but the thing dey surprise me how you are at that age and you don’t feel some type of way to dey follow children wey you fit born to dey banter 247…

SAMBARRY:
the to way Nigerian married couples throw the Go and marry unsolicited advice is always very amusing

Oya tell them you are ready to marry and start a family and you need money to start a family,you will see how go and Mary will change

I no know wetin dey always pepper Una for body when you see a man or woman of marriageable age not married like say Na Crime to be single

zed7:


A person who isn't happy and fulfilled when alone will never be happy and fulfilled when with a partner. They may likely be worse off and make their partners miserable.

okerekingsley90:
■ Honestly I felt this!!!! Pray then position yourself to look for a responsible lady. It is your sole responsibility search for a good lady. Work and put efforts you would be blessed with a good lady if you do what is right. There are still marriageble ladies in Nigeria. Be responsible!!!. Good luck

okerekingsley90:

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Man you de monitor Kobojunkie . You de close mark ooo. You be makelele

Kobojunkie:
He hasn't found meaning for himself in his life yet you think the next thing for him is to find a woman? Are you kidding? And when he realizes that even people in marriage can suffer loneliness and boredom too, what will you recommend for him then?

Most of you think of life as druggies do, always searching for the next high. Why not instead discover yourself first before you then decide whether adding more burdens to your plate is the right thing or not?,

FitCorper:
Forget all these. It’s not easy being single don’t let anybody deceive u. A man can’t function well with the loving of a woman. If u like make all the money in the world, if there’s no woman or girl to share beautiful moments with by this I’m not talking about sex. You will realize there’s and emptiness within that only the love of a woman can fill.