In order to prevent surprises post marriage, should couples jointly undergo a comprehensive physical exam checking for, among others, the following:

HIV
Sickle cell trait
Diabetes
Erectile dysfunction (for the I don't want to get down before marriage couples)
Hepatitis
STDs
Fertility
Mental Disorders (just to make sure that your partner is not kolomental)
And many others

yes to all

toba:

yes to all

toba, you are a pretty girl. where do you live?

Princek12:

toba, you are a pretty girl. where do you live?

Hahahaha! Bros, Toba na guy oo. I fell for this trick too.

Anyways, I second what HE said in his response.

Were u able to make it out to Oasis? I will post a pic of their jollof rice and lamb dibi make you see.

Lax75:

Hahahaha! Bros, Toba na guy oo. I fell for this trick too.

Anyways, I second what HE said in his response.

Were u able to make it out to Oasis? I will post a pic of their jollof rice and lamb dibi make you see.

thank you bros for telling me say toba na guy oooo. I have not made to Oasis yet, but I will surely do in the next couple of days. you dey stay atlanta presently? please post the pic.

;d

Yes to all!
But sometimes wen d results doesnt come out as planned d couples might end the union in d doctor's office.
Its Risky sha.

yup.
All are very important!

of course

it is a good thing, but that of HIV test is very very very compulsory ooo

Yes, I think it is necessary.

Yes its all very important,I think there should even be a test for checking the cheating level\ability of couples.

Princek12:

In order to prevent surprises post marriage, should couples jointly undergo a comprehensive physical exam checking for, among others, the following:

HIV
Sickle cell trait
Diabetes
Erectile dysfunction (for the I don't want to get down before marriage couples)
Hepatitis
STDs
Fertility
Mental Disorders (just to make sure that your partner is not kolomental)
And many others

Princek12, Thank you for posting this compulsory topic.

[size=28pt]Yes.
Lovers should even do so before serious dating.
The earlier they do so the better for them.[/size]

Yes!! it must be done.

I think it should be a monthly thing even after they are married.

There is nothing like. . . i trust my wife/hubby

smh

yes all of d above r necessary.

freecocoa:

Yes its all very important,I think there should even be a test for checking the cheating level\ability of couples.

na true talk, very necessary!

Affirmative.

justwise:

Yes!! it must be done.

I think it should be a monthly thing even after they are married.

There is nothing like. . . i trust my wife/hubby

behold, what the marriage institution has become!

^^^desperate times call for desperate measures.

That's unfortunately what our world has become.

slimyem:

behold, what the marriage institution has become!

Its sad, i wish one can really trust his or her wife/hubby but married men/women cheat like hell.

Princek12:

In order to prevent surprises post marriage, should couples jointly undergo a comprehensive physical exam checking for, among others, the following:

HIV
Sickle cell trait
Diabetes
Erectile dysfunction (for the I don't want to get down before marriage couples)
Hepatitis
STDs
Fertility
Mental Disorders (just to make sure that your partner is not kolomental)
And many others

yes, it is necessary

I see

I am surprised CRB and Credit Checks are not on your list

abi you will like to know if he/she is wanted now

and if they are credit worthy as well

r231:

I see

I am surprised CRB and Credit Checks are not on your list

abi you will like to know if he/she is wanted now

and if they are credit worthy as well

how will you get such record in 9ja?

The reason I created this thread was because one of my homeboys married last year. He called me a couple of days ago and told me he received the shock of his life: he saw for the first time a plastic containing some anti depressant pills on which his wife's name was printed (it is typical to write the name of the patient and the medication name on the container in Yankee). He now went and googled the name of the medicine and found out it was an anti depressant. He confronted his wife about it, and she later admitted that she has psychiatric problems for which she sees a psychiatrist, and that the anti depressants were prescribed to her as part of her treatment. He told her that he was hurt that she was not truthful about her medical condition before they got married. In retrospect, no wonder his wife acts very crazy at the slightest provocation.

r231:

I see

I am surprised CRB and Credit Checks are not on your list

abi you will like to know if he/she is wanted now

and if they are credit worthy as well

In Yankee and the Western world, maybe, but not in Naija. You know we don't have such credit infrastructure in Nigeria to check credits. But I would strongly recommend that it is done whenever it is feasible to do so.

r231:

I see

I am surprised CRB and Credit Checks are not on your list

abi you will like to know if he/she is wanted now

and if they are credit worthy as well

it will be enlisted yesterday no be for naija

Princek12:

The reason I created this thread was because one of my homeboys married last year. He called me a couple of days ago and told me he received the shock of his life: he saw for the first time a plastic containing some anti depressant pills on which his wife's name was printed (it is typical to write the name of the patient and the medication name on the container in Yankee). He now went and googled the name of the medicine and found out it was an anti depressant. He confronted his wife about it, and she later admitted that she has psychiatric problems for which she sees a psychiatrist, and that the anti depressants were prescribed to her as part of her treatment. He told her that he was hurt that she was not truthful about her medical condition before they got married. In retrospect, no wonder his wife acts very crazy at the slightest provocation.

they do that in UK too. . . . so get to the point lol (joking)

well just because she is on anti depressant drugs doesn't mean she is physco

she prolly depressed bout something and she is struggling to let go

but at least she should have told the guy before marrying him sha  

It should even be enforced by law

r231:

they do that in UK too. . . . so get to the point lol (joking)

well just because she is on anti depressant drugs doesn't mean she is physco

she prolly depressed bout something and she is struggling to let go

but at least she should have told the guy before marrying him sha  

I figured they do that in UK, too, but when I write I am cognizant of the fact that many NLs do not live in Yankee or the UK, so I try to elaborate further so as to prevent them from having to draw too many inferences when reading my posts. Back to the topic, she admitted to being psychiatric and I guess that the anti depressants helped her. I am, however, not a doctor, but my point is that taking anti depressants is something that should be disclosed to your partner when in a serious relationship.

I support the motion

Princek12:

In order to prevent surprises post marriage, should couples jointly undergo a comprehensive physical exam checking for, among others, the following:

HIV
Sickle cell trait
Diabetes
Erectile dysfunction (for the I don't want to get down before marriage couples)
Hepatitis
STDs
Fertility
Mental Disorders (just to make sure that your partner is not kolomental)
And many others

Doing this does not save the trouble in marriage.