bassdow:

Atimes, the number of KIDs, matters. A single mom of 1 has more chances than a single mom of 4

advanceDNA:


Baba ..U didn't state it well...

Single mothers don't even want their son to marry a single mother....

In fact...single mothers don't want to marry single fathers like them...

Single mothers seff know say Dem be "werey" ....

alexogbebor:
I am currently dating a single mother for almost a year now, before she got pregnant for her ex I actually approach her and asked her out but it didn't work out that was in 2018, fast forward to 2022 I met her after a long time no see and still had that feelings for her, I reconnect with her and boom we start dating and banging, she actually told me about the child before we started dating but I didn't have problem with it at that time, I had no intention to have a Long term relationship with her but boom we are a year in this relationship and i Don't think I would love to spend the rest of my life with a single mom. Please I need your advice

Sisqoman:
Once you said I love you, billing don start

anonymous1759:


Exactly bro , we all live and breath In hypocrisy. Everyone will come on social media and tell you that marriage is not a do or die affair , but in reality the society will use that same marriage to shame people who are single and still expect people not to desperately get married or endure marital abuse just to stay married .

tonicyril:
It's not worth the stress and emotional blackmailing that will follow..

And besides, football match no dey start from 1:0 down.

ecolime:
Who wan marry problem?

They are mostly filled with bitterness and emotional baggage from previous relationships.

You go train pikin wey no be your own with your hard earned money and both mama and pikin go still see you as outsider.

You go even dey fear to correct the pikin.

My advise: Single mothers and single fathers should marry themselves. Each after his or her kind.. lol

Blendy77:
With the kind of comments i read here, most single mothers will just continue to deceive men that their kids are their siblings cos majority have the mindset that single mums are no go area. Am not a single mum but I can assure you that most single mums are great to be with. If not for anything, men should go for them for the fact that they are fertile and can give birth. Secondly having a child already calling you Dad and u learning parenting skills before yours arrive is not something u pay from the market. And children provoke Gods blessing most times so when u dedicate your time to father a child that is not yours biologically, you are invoking Gods blessing. The few men I've interviewed concerning this issue gave excuses like "I don't want to compete or share my love with another man's child. Haba? na small pikin dey give some men complex? Give single mothers a chance cos many of them already learnt their lessons and will become great spouse if given the opportunity to love again. Otherwise dem go just dey deceive una say na my Mama last born and u will still train the child either directly or indirectly

Nicepoker:
Ajax vs feyeboord. Started from 2:0 down.

Azeemokoya:
In Nigeria, as in many parts of the world, the dynamics of relationships and family structures have evolved significantly over the years. One of the most noticeable changes is the increasing number of single mothers in society.

While this trend is indicative of the strength of women who navigate the challenges of single parenthood, it has also sparked discussions about why some men may hesitate or even fear marrying single mothers.

Take for instance, Chidi, a young professional in Lagos, confessed that he once hesitated to date a single mother because he feared what his family and friends would say.

In Nigeria, like in many other societies, there exists a certain stigma attached to single motherhood. Traditional cultural norms often place a high value on the nuclear family unit, where children are raised by both biological parents.

https://newsroundtheclock.com/why-most-nigerian-men-fear-marrying-single-mothers/

Blendy77:
With the kind of comments i read here, most single mothers will just continue to deceive men that their kids are their siblings cos majority have the mindset that single mums are no go area. Am not a single mum but I can assure you that most single mums are great to be with. If not for anything, men should go for them for the fact that they are fertile and can give birth. Secondly having a child already calling you Dad and u learning parenting skills before yours arrive is not something u pay from the market. And children provoke Gods blessing most times so when u dedicate your time to father a child that is not yours biologically, you are invoking Gods blessing. The few men I've interviewed concerning this issue gave excuses like "I don't want to compete or share my love with another man's child. Haba? na small pikin dey give some men complex? Give single mothers a chance cos many of them already learnt their lessons and will become great spouse if given the opportunity to love again. Otherwise dem go just dey deceive una say na my Mama last born and u will still train the child either directly or indirectly

tonicyril:
It's not worth the stress and emotional blackmailing that will follow..

And besides, football match no dey start from 1:0 down.

Azeemokoya:
In Nigeria, as in many parts of the world, the dynamics of relationships and family structures have evolved significantly over the years. One of the most noticeable changes is the increasing number of single mothers in society.

While this trend is indicative of the strength of women who navigate the challenges of single parenthood, it has also sparked discussions about why some men may hesitate or even fear marrying single mothers.

Take for instance, Chidi, a young professional in Lagos, confessed that he once hesitated to date a single mother because he feared what his family and friends would say.

In Nigeria, like in many other societies, there exists a certain stigma attached to single motherhood. Traditional cultural norms often place a high value on the nuclear family unit, where children are raised by both biological parents.

https://newsroundtheclock.com/why-most-nigerian-men-fear-marrying-single-mothers/

Fahvvy:
It's the way the society demeans a man's choice that irritates me, yikes!!! ...

OP...
The reason why most men don't want to marry a single mother is not because of any St.upid "fear", it's because of CHOICE!!!! ...

Most men don't want single mothers, PERIOD!!!!! ...

Y'all need to start accepting men's choice(s) in women and stop trying to demean men for having and exercising it ...


Personally, single mothers are a no go area for me, and my son's relationship wise ...

I don't care how she became a single mother, that's IRRELEVANT!!! ...

But as long as there's a well cultured 18 - 24year old virgin out there, I'd rather be castrated than marry a single mother AND THAT'S MY CHOICE!! ...

Blendy77:
With the kind of comments i read here, most single mothers will just continue to deceive men that their kids are their siblings cos majority have the mindset that single mums are no go area. Am not a single mum but I can assure you that most single mums are great to be with. If not for anything, men should go for them for the fact that they are fertile and can give birth. Secondly having a child already calling you Dad and u learning parenting skills before yours arrive is not something u pay from the market. And children provoke Gods blessing most times so when u dedicate your time to father a child that is not yours biologically, you are invoking Gods blessing. The few men I've interviewed concerning this issue gave excuses like "I don't want to compete or share my love with another man's child. Haba? na small pikin dey give some men complex? Give single mothers a chance cos many of them already learnt their lessons and will become great spouse if given the opportunity to love again. Otherwise dem go just dey deceive una say na my Mama last born and u will still train the child either directly or indirectly

diggindeep:


But second leg match can even start with 7- 0 down

Guyman01:

You don't know about handicap in football

georgeikani033:



The handicap you the play nkor na wetin?😀

Fahvvy:
It's the way the society demeans a man's choice that irritates me, yikes!!! ...

OP...
The reason why most men don't want to marry a single mother is not because of any St.upid "fear", it's because of CHOICE!!!! ...

Most men don't want single mothers, PERIOD!!!!! ...

Y'all need to start accepting men's choice(s) in women and stop trying to demean men for having and exercising it ...


Personally, single mothers are a no go area for me, and my son's relationship wise ...

I don't care how she became a single mother, that's IRRELEVANT!!! ...

But as long as there's a well cultured 18 - 24year old virgin out there, I'd rather be castrated than marry a single mother AND THAT'S MY CHOICE!! ...

NothingDoMe:
That you scored one goal doesn't necessarily make you a striker or mean that you'll score another goal 😄

tonicyril:
It's not worth the stress and emotional blackmailing that will follow..

And besides, football match no dey start from 1:0 down.

tonicyril:
That is like saying u impregnated ur girlfriend and she born 2 pikins for u but her family came up with wahala and scater ur unionism

But after three years, u and ur girlfriend run go meet for faraway shagamu and continue ur unionism...

So it's still a win win for you,

But imagine Ajax Amsterdam leading Go Ahead Eagles 2:0 and Go Ahead Eagles said they are not continuing again, so the went to FC Utretch with the 2:0 and continue the match with fc utretch no naa

Myer:

It poses a bit of a challenge when we box everyone together.
Among single mothers, there are various kinds of women.

What usually is the issue is if she has not healed or learnt from her past relationship cos there was a reason the last relationship did not work out- either her fault, or the father's fault or both parties at fault.

As long as she has healed or learnt from the experience, single parents can be the best wives/mothers because they should have learnt what it takes to be responsible and think beyond their own needs alone.

Nicepoker:
Ajax vs feyeboord. Started from 2:0 down.

Tommydare:
Kai. Na sportybet full this one head