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Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Theunbothered: 10:22pm On Oct 07, 2023 |
maasoap: It's pricking your conscience, you know you made a bad move that's why having to live with the consequences of your actions gets you angry. The UK, Canada and others you want to run to will never vote someone like Tinubu but you want to enjoy good governance you deprive others of at home. You will live a long, miserable life in Tinubu's Nigeria, die here and be buried here! |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Lungdick: 10:24pm On Oct 07, 2023 |
odinga1of:nigerians are prohibited |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Yoighaman(m): 11:18pm On Oct 07, 2023 |
TruthDefender: Nice post. šš½ Your posts reeks of experience. |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Papilagreen: 12:47am On Oct 08, 2023 |
Let me add small thing based on my own experience and knowledge as person living here in America. First your friend might be very very correct just FYI. see I will not advice anybody not to come to America. But... if you coming here to hustle if u from 40 and below then try ur luck even 49 is too much 35 because to settle here go take u 5 to 6 years if things goes ur way. If you above 40 then na holidays and vacation or business trips I go advice u to come do for America. I won't even advice anybody to buy properties here if you finally start making some changes to save for future investments. America no easy as u dey see am most of all if u are a married man with wife and kids back home my advice is just forget it. Before u go settle down e no easy see to get ur residency self no be beans u go fight for am like say na ur life. If u think say under table jobs go help you na sorry for u. It will help for only paying your feeding and accomodations u no go fit save pim because na peanuts dem go dey pay u. I no sy make my guy no try but make him consider him age and health factor first because this America dem dey sick anyhow u no get insurance na die for u. America sweet only when u come in ur early 20s ND 30s u go fit plan ur self if not e no easy at all like u dey see am. Una go dey see the money na so the money go dey go. See it takes two members of a household i.e father and mother to be working before you fit dey save small change for ur bank if not na lie because things are cost way cost now due to inflation watin I dey buy $10 around 2021, present today it cost about $22 which is twice the amount and it goes for everything u want to buy in America. My final judgement is this. If the man is above 40 and he will put himself in debt to relocate to America i.e, borrow from friend family or bank or even sell property then it's not worth it because that man no go get peace all the days him go work work work and nothing much to show for it just my 2 cents. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by BigIyanga: 1:25am On Oct 08, 2023 |
yusman14:Keep living in a fantasy island.. Lekki population is less than 20 of Lagos population .. less than 3milllion. Naija population is 220m.. so lagos only accounts for 8% of Naija population. So your feelings and observations dont represent realities on ground. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by SirLakes: 1:55am On Oct 08, 2023 |
maasoap: You want to go and enjoy good life when you use your stupidity to put others in hardship....ko le werk The same you who supported Buhari for 8 years, and still went ahead to vote the same government or party who didn't fulfil most of their promises You are not just childish but stupid |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by maasoap(m): 7:34am On Oct 08, 2023 |
SirLakes:I'm just saying, your rants here doesnāt affect anyone in the real world out there. |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by SirLakes: 7:55am On Oct 08, 2023 |
maasoap: Yeah, no wonder you are interested in my mention.... |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Fearyourcreator: 8:00am On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:You no wan make exploit too... werey no get money... the day any Japa get money pass Dangote let me know . Or any black American get money pass Dangote let me know |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Fearyourcreator: 8:01am On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:You are a slave like I said ... you know nothing |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by yusman14(m): 8:42am On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Less than 5% Wow..it is well |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Raymondknows: 11:32am On Oct 08, 2023 |
They are very bad people my brother, that is why I keep saying that Nigeria will never get better, you see any opportunity, just Japa immediately cliper230: |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by UnfairLife7(m): 12:17pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
Fearyourcreator:Olodo They will buy your entire poor generation. Poor Agege man š |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Fearyourcreator: 1:58pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:How many of your Japa get money buy land for agege... dem no dey pack money for ground for Yankee ... werey... you no get family carry you there ...olofo ... ashiere Omo... elebi claiming him papa is doing well online ... who dey pin you down not to travel... werey no get money... people wey dey live for sane agege dey travel... your werey no get money |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 2:33pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
BigIyanga: Leave that man alone, heās capping too much! These people would not give an intending traveling the true picture to help them better informed, but instead they choose to sell the super rosy story thatās not true. |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 2:36pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Working as a care giver without paper can be very rough and the opportunity may not be available in every state. And please donāt count on the fact that you can save 40k a year ācomfortablyā but yes you can make enough to take care of yourself and save if you work long hours. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 2:39pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
ehikwe22: We can argue this forever, and it is disrespectful to call America a 3rd world country lol yet is has big economy and big armyā¦ thatās a combo of confusing there .. Fun fact for you; going to live and work in America is the dream of many people in those so called ādevelopedā countries that you listed above lmao š |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 2:41pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
kurlz: Plenty oil o ššš Let him keep deceiving some people on this thread lol |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 2:48pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
BigIyanga: Yes someone with their work authorization could make that as a care giver but they will not have a life! And no rest for the wicked. It means the live, breathe, sleep and live all their live at work. It is not sustainable!!! That guy is making it seem like itās a piece of cake or a normal income to make as care giver. Making that money means working Mon-Sun working like 12-14hrs every single day! Thatās not a life! It will tell for your body, your health will deteriorate from the stress. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by UnfairLife7(m): 3:05pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
Fearyourcreator:Come Apapa come see correct house owned by my father. Yet, i no dey claim say he gets money. Na poor people area you dey live. You be poor old man wey don useless his youthful age following politicians. You can never eat your cake and have it. Your children and grandchildren will also serve their children. Olodo na poor Agege man you be. See your mate looking for better life for himself and family. But you are here asslicking your emilokanš a known drug lord, cocaine sniffer, money laundering, and certificate forgery with no heritage |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Fearyourcreator: 3:13pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
UnfairLife7:Lolzzzz... ontop nairaland your papa get house for Apapa ... you get prove? |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by UnfairLife7(m): 4:08pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
Fearyourcreator:old cargo make we meet for public na. Poor man i go carry you go see house. My father owned 3 houses to his name. 2 in lag and 1 in his village. Make we meet for Festac, mile 2, Oshodi, Wilmer or a better open place. Make you con go see house. Your papa no fit rent a standard flat for Apapa. You wan dieš You're a miserable old man who's always sad at people's success. Enemy of progress. Miserable man. You want everybody to be like you. When Tinubu finish support the next president again. When you kpai your useless children go continue from where their poor Agege father stopped |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by BigIyanga: 4:26pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
sunboy:So 12-14hrs a day = 84hrs-98hrs a week. $6k/84hr =$71/hr. ā¦ $6kmon/98hrs= $61/hr. How many CNA/LPNs make $61-$71hr not to talk of someone witjout degree/certificate? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 4:39pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
BigIyanga: CNA only make 17-21 max. Anything above 8hrs is OT. Your math is not mathing though ā¦ but they do make upto 70k with plenty restlessness and slave life living. |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by BigIyanga: 6:14pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
sunboy: 1: Your math is way off.. CNAs make only 17-21 in what city and state? 2: How can someone make 6-8k without degree/certificate? |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Originalsly: 6:39pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
wwwkaycom: 56 year old man migrated to Canada and is doing well ... based on how his family is doing in Nigeria. Wasn't Hushpuppi doing well in Dubai?... why should anyone discourage anyone from going to Dubai? Did the 56 year old enter with permanent resident papers? ... authorized to work? ... did he enter with a marketable skill?... and experience?... did he enter with more than enough finances? The japararian is seeing he can achieve the same..... never mind he doesn't have any of the tools. We overlook all of this .... just focus at where he got to but not how he got there. Some people just need to travel and discover the "discouragement " is real .... then they would be looking for help ... and when they don't get it ... be condemning their countrymen and the Black race for turning their backs on their own. Advice is for free .... up to you to take it or leave it. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 6:51pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
BigIyanga: 1. See screenshots of job posted about CNA on indeed. Also note, full time for most care jobs are not 12hrs/4daysā¦ then over time. Instead of 8hrs/5 days. Also, all those jobs are for somebody with papers, not an under the table job. That man is talking about an under the table job making 70k is a BIG LIE! If he like make he work 24hrs he wonāt make it with no work auth. 2. CNA by itself is a ceritificate. Like I said before 70k (gross) is doable but they will suffer to make it and not have a life. Iām just against that man making it seem like itās easy to make.
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Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by BigIyanga: 8:52pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
sunboy:Tankio, we are on the same page! Some folks like to exaggerate in order to impress folks in Naija |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by sunboy(m): 9:02pm On Oct 08, 2023 |
BigIyanga: Exactly! I dislike people misleading our Naija people in the name of impressing them. Instead, tell them how it is, let them be better informed and have the true expectations of things. Not come, once you land everything will be handed to you šš |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by quickly: 3:48am On Oct 09, 2023 |
VULCAN: Talking like someone who never travel before A fork lift driver is a lower class or poverty level job in the US. I can tell you for a fact they will never hire a Nigerian man to drive fork lift in America. If you donāt know that America has a class system. Those kind of jobs are controlled by the uneducated white people and itās paid hourly. They will not give you 40 hours. An educated Nigerian professor can never do that job because he will be so depressed and the money sef is nothing to right home about The money you get from that job you will struggle to pay house rent US is not UK if you donāt have nursing qualifications you canāt do care work. To enjoy North America you have to be educated per their standards and have luck |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Horllar1990(m): 1:53pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
wwwkaycom: All of us wan go USA. |
Re: I Want To Japa, But My Friend Who Is Abroad Has Been Discouraging Me by Love800(m): 12:46pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
Hw can dis be possible? Kevineleven: |
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